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MrsPorkChop
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Re: Ten years ago...

ten years ago i was entering my sr year in h.s. and dating a guy and in my first serious relationship.
i was 16 and knew NOTHING about the world. my plan was to go to college, get my master's degree, get married at age 25 and have kids at age 30. I also wanted to make 6 figures by the time i was 25.


well, i am a year off, but i did everything i wanted...hopefully around the age of 30, i will have a child..

Message edited 8/29/2006 5:42:43 AM.

Posted 8/17/06 4:14 PM
 
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BaroqueMama
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Re: Ten years ago...

Ten years ago, I saw myself as being single, playing in an orchestra somewhere in the world and with my PhD.
Far cry from what I am doing. I'm teaching music now, which was something I was dead-set against as a teenager, but LOVE now, I'm married, have a baby and live like 5 miles from where I was born. Go figure. I'm a lot happier than I ever envisioned I'd be, though.

Posted 8/17/06 4:16 PM
 

lululu
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Re: Ten years ago...

i was just starting my senior year of college and I thought that by the time I was 31 I would be married to my college boyfriend for about 7 years already and have 2 or 3 kids already. And be a stay at home mom.

In reality we broke up 2 months after college ended and I am just getting married now - next month actually!!! So different than what I anticipated but I wouldnt change a thing. My 20's were a lot of fun!!!

Posted 8/17/06 4:17 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: Ten years ago...

I was 14 ten years ago. My best friend was dying of cancer, it was the hardest summer of my lifeChat Icon

I thought about the future all of the time, but couldn't see it. I thought about the things Rachel wouldn't see or do.

I had big time survivor's guilt.

I would have never thought that I would be so settled though, always thought I'd be an actress or a singer or famous (man was I starried eyed!) but I wouldn't trade my life for anything.

Message edited 8/17/2006 4:22:28 PM.

Posted 8/17/06 4:21 PM
 

SweetTooth
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Re: Ten years ago...

10 years ago I had just graduated from High school. I thought I would be married (done that) with kids (don't have that) and a house (don't have that either) by now.
I never would have thought I would be in the career I am in now, or the one I was in before this one!
I have done a lot of growing up in the past 10 years...

Posted 8/17/06 4:22 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Ten years ago...

Ten years ago I was 21 still in college earning my B.S. degree. Thought I'd continue on for my Master's and become a guidance counselor. Thought I'd be married (I am), In a house (I am) and have at least 2 children by now. Never planned on getting sick 2 years ago and have my life change a little bit. Everything all worked out though.
Got engaged at 23, Married at 24 and now at 31 having my first child.Chat Icon

Posted 8/17/06 4:47 PM
 

steph4777
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Re: Ten years ago...

10 years ago, I was 19. I was was a sophomore in college and living it up in DC.

Now I'm married, have one child and pregnant with #2. I'm doing something totally different than what I went to undergrad for.

Posted 8/17/06 4:47 PM
 

pugmama
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Re: Ten years ago...

10 years ago I was dating who is now my husband but if you asked me then if we were going to get married I would have said H E L L NO! I also never thought that I would have been living back on Long Island and be as "grown up" and settled as I am.

Posted 8/17/06 4:48 PM
 

randella
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Re: Ten years ago...

Posted by chikita315

10 years ago I was going into my sophomore year at UAlbany and the furthest I looked in the future, was what bar/party I was going to that night . ..




hey-- 10 years ago I was at Albany too-- going into Senior year though.

Honestly- I guess I thought I would be where I am now. Recently married, having a good job and looking towards the future.

It's interesting cause 5 years ago I would have thought differently, based on how my life was turning out-- but, definitely when I was 21, 31 seemed a very long ways off!

Posted 8/17/06 4:49 PM
 

Lanabean
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Re: Ten years ago...

10 years ago, I was 18. I was planning to be a ballerina and not very interested in college. I was not thinking about marriage or anything else beyond ballet. I was living in Virginia for a time and training with Richmond Ballet.

Now, it's all different. Ballet didn't work out for me...I really never had the ideal body type and eating became a huge issue for me. I decided to attend college, study journalism and just dance for pleasure....make it how it used to be when I was younger. I'm happy at how life has turned out. A young, married editor! Who has no clue if she wants children. That never changed!

Posted 8/17/06 4:55 PM
 

patti08
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Re: Ten years ago...

10 years ago I was just out of college, in a job I liked but didn't plan to stay in as I wanted to be in sales. I anticipated being married, owning a house and having at least 1 child by now.

Now I am in a sales job, married and we own a house, we just started TTC this month so I'm only a little behind.

Posted 8/17/06 4:59 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Re: Ten years ago...

Posted by randella

Posted by chikita315

10 years ago I was going into my sophomore year at UAlbany and the furthest I looked in the future, was what bar/party I was going to that night . ..




hey-- 10 years ago I was at Albany too-- going into Senior year though.

Honestly- I guess I thought I would be where I am now. Recently married, having a good job and looking towards the future.

It's interesting cause 5 years ago I would have thought differently, based on how my life was turning out-- but, definitely when I was 21, 31 seemed a very long ways off!



you girls might know my husband - he went to u albany too

Posted 8/17/06 5:00 PM
 

chikita315
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Re: Ten years ago...

Posted by preshy7


you girls might know my husband - he went to u albany too



when was he there?

Posted 8/17/06 5:11 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Missy

Re: Ten years ago...

Posted by chikita315

Posted by preshy7


you girls might know my husband - he went to u albany too



when was he there?



92-96 i beleive

Posted 8/17/06 5:21 PM
 

Waste06
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Re: Ten years ago...

10 years ago I was 21 and half way through college. 31 seemed so far away.

But I guess I would have thought I'd be married, owned a house and had 2 kids by now.

Reality: I just got married, no house and no kids.

Posted 8/17/06 5:25 PM
 

ODonnell
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Re: Ten years ago...

This month 10 years ago I was just out of an engagement (to a guy with the same name as my husband). I was in the same job I had been in for 9 years and I was just about to start college at night.

Three years later I had my degree and made my move to the USChat Icon

Posted 8/17/06 5:28 PM
 

joenick
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Re: Ten years ago...

Ten years ago I was almost 23.
I was engaged to my DH.
I was teaching 2nd grade in Queens and writing my thesis.
I was also buying my house and planning my wedding.
It was a very busy time!

I am exactly where I thought I would be-
Own a beautiful home, married 8.5 years, have 2 beautiful kids, SAHM! My life is pretty much how I envisioned.Chat Icon

Message edited 8/17/2006 5:37:42 PM.

Posted 8/17/06 5:35 PM
 

Tany
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Re: Ten years ago...

I was 19, had just started dating husband and was hoping to have a career, get married, have kids.

the married thing happen and then Alia came along but I'm still working on the career thing.

it goes to show you, you never know where life will lead you.

Posted 8/17/06 5:37 PM
 

charon54
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Re: Ten years ago...

Ten years ago, I was 16 and though I was going to marry my high school sweetheart. Funny how naive we are when we are young. Thought I would have a masters or professional degree by 26, which I don't. Didn't think I would be working in marketing or married.

Posted 8/17/06 6:19 PM
 

mommy2bella
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Re: Ten years ago...

great stories...so many turns life takes us on...thanks for sharing...Chat Icon

Posted 8/17/06 6:19 PM
 

julz33
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Re: Ten years ago...

10 years ago I thought by this time I would be a science teacher, be married, and have a few kids!

I am married, and work in the science field, but no kids yet!

Message edited 8/17/2006 6:55:26 PM.

Posted 8/17/06 6:55 PM
 

randella
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Re: Ten years ago...

Posted by preshy7

Posted by chikita315

Posted by preshy7


you girls might know my husband - he went to u albany too



when was he there?



92-96 i beleive



i was there fall '93 to spring '97... was he in a fraternity??

Posted 8/17/06 6:57 PM
 

traceyd
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Re: Ten years ago...

10 years ago I was 14 and pictured myself going to college and living in the city afterwards for work probably dating someone but not married-flash forward ten years I have a bachelors degree-never lived in the city and got married at 23--all in all I am very happy with the way things turned out!!!

Posted 8/17/06 7:11 PM
 

missus-hbradio
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Re: Ten years ago...

10 years ago I was 19 and a sophmore in college. I thought I would be in radio somewhere in the country, didnt know if I would be married or not. I wasnt sure about kids at that point either. I never realized just how hard life is.

Too bad I am not in radio - at least one good thing happened when I met DH.

Great thread - it scary to think how time flies. Chat Icon

Posted 8/17/06 7:38 PM
 

MrsFlatbread
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Baby Momma

Re: Ten years ago...

I thought I would have been a married for a few years and a mother by now...oh well...my husband is a little slow.

Posted 8/17/06 9:02 PM
 
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