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baby101
LIF Infant
Member since 6/05 213 total posts
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A.K
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Sad news
I had a miscarriage 
We went for a sono at week 6 and everything was good, DH and I saw a heartbeat. But by my next appointment last Monday, week 9 it no longer had a heartbeat. I had a D&C the next day. I'm doing better now, both mentally and physically. We had so many hopes and dreams for our little bean.
I know a few of you girls have also gone through this and are now pregnant.
How long did you wait before you started to try again and how long before you were pregnant again? Thanks, I hope to join you again soon! When we do get pregnant again I'm going to want a sono every week!!!
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btrflygrl
me and baby #3!
Member since 5/05 12013 total posts
Name:
Shana
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Re: Sad news
we waited the 3 months the dr recommended to mourn the loss. On our 2nd month trying, we got PG!!!
I'm so sorry for your loss! Please take hope in knowing how common this really is!!
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| Posted 8/9/05 9:02 PM |
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CheeChee
HI THERE!!!!
Member since 5/05 3416 total posts
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Re: Sad news
So sorry for your loss
Hope to see you back here real soon!!
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| Posted 8/9/05 9:08 PM |
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sunny
Life is good!
Member since 5/05 8369 total posts
Name:
Stephanie
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Re: Sad news
I am so sorry
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| Posted 8/9/05 9:15 PM |
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pnm1654
Mommy to 2 boys!
Member since 5/05 4565 total posts
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Re: Sad news
I am so sorry.
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| Posted 8/9/05 9:21 PM |
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Spring Baby06
My two loves
Member since 5/05 3612 total posts
Name:
Jillian
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Re: Sad news
I am so sorry for your loss
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| Posted 8/9/05 9:28 PM |
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Jenziba
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Member since 5/05 6265 total posts
Name:
Jennifer
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Re: Sad news
I am truly sorry for your loss. Be strong and you'll get through this very hard time.
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| Posted 8/9/05 9:59 PM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Member since 5/05 11165 total posts
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Mommy
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Re: Sad news
Oh I am so sorry It's so hard right now, I can truly say I know how you feel
I too suffered a miscarriage at 5 weeks, 5 days on 7/20/05, we were devasted!
I m/c'd naturally passed all the tissue in 2 days, by day 3 my levels were down signficantly to 56.
Dr wants us to wait 2-3 months to start again. Honestly, physically I felt fine a couple days after the bleeding stopped. My levels were zero one week after the m/c.
SHhh..me and DH have not been careful. Whatever happens happens..
I am soo sorry for your loss, take care of yourself. FM me if you need to talk
Message edited 8/9/2005 10:19:48 PM.
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| Posted 8/9/05 10:19 PM |
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IrishTracy
Believe!!
Member since 5/05 15167 total posts
Name:
Tracy
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Re: Sad news
I am so sorry for your loss!!
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| Posted 8/9/05 10:23 PM |
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AndreaLMT
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Member since 5/05 6856 total posts
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Re: Sad news
I'm so sorry.
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| Posted 8/9/05 10:35 PM |
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monkeybride
My Everything
Member since 5/05 20541 total posts
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Re: Sad news
So sorry that you have to go through this.
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| Posted 8/9/05 11:44 PM |
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steph4777
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Member since 5/05 11726 total posts
Name:
Stephanie
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Re: Sad news
I'm so sorry
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| Posted 8/10/05 12:31 AM |
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kelswiss
LIF Infant
Member since 5/05 349 total posts
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Re: Sad news
I'm so sorry for your loss
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| Posted 8/10/05 5:58 AM |
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05mommy09
Family of 5!
Member since 5/05 15364 total posts
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<3 Mommy <3
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Re: Sad news
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| Posted 8/10/05 6:11 AM |
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bellarina
She's my dancing queen!
Member since 5/05 1752 total posts
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Re: Sad news
I"m so sorry!
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| Posted 8/10/05 7:08 AM |
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Marybeth222
My Girls!
Member since 5/05 2688 total posts
Name:
Marybeth
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Re: Sad news
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 8/10/05 7:58 AM |
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Tracey
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Member since 5/05 6297 total posts
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Tracey - brideinapril
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Re: Sad news
I am so sorry for your loss -
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| Posted 8/10/05 8:00 AM |
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Lichi
what what!?
Member since 5/05 4206 total posts
Name:
Lissette
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Re: Sad news
i'm soooo sorry for your loss. It saddens me to know that someone else has gone through this. It's a common occurence, but I wouldn't wish this type of loss on my worst enemy. I, too, had a mc this year, at 16 weeks. I had to give labor. All I can say is that it'll be really hard for a while, but it WILL be easier one day. Mourn as much as you want, and don't let anyone tell you different. You'll go through a period of sadness, anger, and blaming... but try to know that this was NOT your fault.
Message edited 8/10/2005 8:11:33 AM.
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| Posted 8/10/05 8:11 AM |
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Adri
Joy!
Member since 5/05 3116 total posts
Name:
A
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Re: Sad news
I'm so sorry!
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| Posted 8/10/05 8:16 AM |
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MrsBumbleb
it's me
Member since 5/05 11234 total posts
Name:
Christine
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Re: Sad news
Sorry this happened to you and DH, feel good.
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| Posted 8/10/05 8:20 AM |
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LnR6604
I'm Gonna be a Big Brother
Member since 5/05 1647 total posts
Name:
Licia
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Re: Sad news
I am so sorry!!! We are all here for you.
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| Posted 8/10/05 8:21 AM |
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my3bugs
Mom of 2 Boys
Member since 5/05 4381 total posts
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Re: Sad news
Sorry for your loss. Wishing you lots of strength in what must be a tough time.
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| Posted 8/10/05 8:59 AM |
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FeliciaDP
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Member since 5/05 18599 total posts
Name:
Mommy
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Re: Sad news
I am so very sorry for your loss .. you are in my deepest thoughts and prayers 
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| Posted 8/10/05 9:33 AM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name:
Properly perfect™
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Re: Sad news
I am so sorry for your loss
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| Posted 8/10/05 9:41 AM |
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Bxgell2
Perfection
Member since 5/05 16438 total posts
Name:
Beth
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Re: Sad news
AHH!! No more!!! It breaks my heart anytime I hear that someone had to suffer through an m/c, it really does. Most of the people on here know my story, but here it is in case you don't know - I got pregnant in November, and miscarried exactly 6 weeks later, on December 17th. I bled and passed all the tissue naturally for about 3-4 days. I needed to feel intimacy with DH, so we BD'd right after the bleeding stopped (it didn't feel weird at all because for me, the bleeding was like a short period, not really painful at all). Two weeks later I went to the Dr. who told me to wait 2-3 months. Turns out, he was a little late in telling me that because as I sat in his office, unbeknownst to either of us, I was already pregnant again. I conceived about a week after the miscarriage!
My Dr. reassured me that conceiving again so quickly does not raise your chances of miscarrying again - in fact, studies show you're most fertile right after a miscarriage. Most doctors recommend the 2-3 month wait when you've miscarried further along (to make sure the lining in your uterus is ready again for implantation), and to ensure that you take the time to greive and mentally prepare yourself for pregnancy again. I can say, although I'm THRILLED about this pregnancy, and I"m now 34 weeks, the first 12 weeks were absolutely TERRIFYING because it happened so quickly. And, when you get pregnant right after a miscarriage, it screws up the dates a little because you don't have an LMP, which can make everything even more complicated and stressful.
So, really, what it comes down to is when you feel mentally and physically ready. Give yourself the time you need to grieve - for some women it takes 3 months, for others, one week. If you have ANY questions, or need to talk, please FM me!!!
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