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MrsERod
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
i think if it's having ANY type of negative impact on the relationship, there is a problem, and it need to be addressed.
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Moehick
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by neeniebean86
Posted by Moehick
Another layer to the problem...years ago when they were dating (they have been together since age 17) she discovered that he was going to strip clubs a lot with guys from work (worked in big accounting firm in city and all the guys did this) well he would lie about it and even blacked out charges on the CC.
So she has had trouble with him looking at any woman
i definitely think its an issue. Not b/c he's gone to a strip club, or b/c he's M'd to porn.... but if its really excessive, and its hurting her, and he's hiding it... theres a problem there
Yeah well I just talked to her and she said he is basically kissing the ground she walks on, doing whatever she wants and promises never to do it again.
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| Posted 8/26/05 11:03 PM |
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sunny
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
I would freak out.
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| Posted 8/26/05 11:04 PM |
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MrsERod
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
Yeah well I just talked to her and she said he is basically kissing the ground she walks on, doing whatever she wants and promises never to do it again.
he's lying! he'll do it again.
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| Posted 8/26/05 11:05 PM |
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neenie
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
Yeah well I just talked to her and she said he is basically kissing the ground she walks on, doing whatever she wants and promises never to do it again.
honestly- and i dont mean to be super negative about it- but i really think he's just doing that right now b/c he got caught with his pants down. literally.
once it blows over a little.. he'll probably go back to it, Or turn it around on her in some way. i think they need to work on it more than him just doing that 
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| Posted 8/26/05 11:05 PM |
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Moehick
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by MrsERod
Posted by Moehick
Yeah well I just talked to her and she said he is basically kissing the ground she walks on, doing whatever she wants and promises never to do it again.
he's lying! he'll do it again.
Thats what I think
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| Posted 8/26/05 11:06 PM |
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Moehick
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by neeniebean86
Posted by Moehick
Yeah well I just talked to her and she said he is basically kissing the ground she walks on, doing whatever she wants and promises never to do it again.
honestly- and i dont mean to be super negative about it- but i really think he's just doing that right now b/c he got caught with his pants down. literally.
once it blows over a little.. he'll probably go back to it, Or turn it around on her in some way. i think they need to work on it more than him just doing that
She asked for counseling and he said no he promises to stop....I am going to the wineries with her tomorow and will hopefully talk some sense into her!
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| Posted 8/26/05 11:07 PM |
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neenie
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Moehick
She asked for counseling and he said no he promises to stop....I am going to the wineries with her tomorow and will hopefully talk some sense into her!
good luck, moe 
make sure you tell her that quote (i think cheryl posted it.. i Love it)
"if you settle for less than you deserve, than youll get even less than you settled for"
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| Posted 8/26/05 11:09 PM |
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Moehick
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Boo Yah...good advice girlies!
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| Posted 8/26/05 11:10 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by MrsERod
Posted by Moehick
Yeah well I just talked to her and she said he is basically kissing the ground she walks on, doing whatever she wants and promises never to do it again.
he's lying! he'll do it again.
i agree....the dude seems a bit Mentally Ill 
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| Posted 8/26/05 11:14 PM |
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Moehick
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by Redhead
Posted by MrsERod
Posted by Moehick
Yeah well I just talked to her and she said he is basically kissing the ground she walks on, doing whatever she wants and promises never to do it again.
he's lying! he'll do it again.
i agree....the dude seems a bit Mentally Ill
Good advice I will tell her that when she is soused on wine!
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| Posted 8/26/05 11:15 PM |
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IrishTracy
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Posted by MrsERod
 HELLLL YEAH MOFO!!!!!!!!!!!! 
my words exactly!!
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| Posted 8/27/05 7:46 AM |
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Bri
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
Absolutely
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| Posted 8/27/05 8:17 AM |
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beautyq115
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
I feel so bad for your friend...I would feel so hurt and confused if I were her....
And I would definetely feel weird around him
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| Posted 8/27/05 8:29 AM |
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btrflygrl
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Re: OK so this happened to a friend of mine...
abso-effing-lutely!!! And it's not the action, it's the hiding/lying about it! I don't mind him watching porn or looking at magazines-at least I know. I'll even go as far as asking him if he's had fun by himself lately....
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| Posted 8/27/05 8:50 AM |
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