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Mommyof2
LIF Infant
Member since 3/06 188 total posts
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Emily
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If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
would you buy them something off thier registry and send it to them?
I just found out my ex best friend (whom I haven't spoken to in almost 3 years) is due in October. Even though we didn't end our friendship on such good terms, I thought maybe sending a gift might show that there are no hard feelings and that I still care.
Message edited 8/2/2006 6:20:11 PM.
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
i think that would be a wonderful idea
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| Posted 8/2/06 6:19 PM |
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2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair
Member since 5/06 19861 total posts
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Best Wife & Mommy
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
That would be really nice of you.
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| Posted 8/2/06 6:20 PM |
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luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
that would be nice.
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| Posted 8/2/06 6:23 PM |
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Shroggie
Don't Worry...Be Happy
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
That's a nice thing to do.
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
I think it would be very nice.
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MABLE03
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Fabulous
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
I agree with all the other girls. 
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| Posted 8/2/06 7:01 PM |
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AimeeE2006
Time flies!
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
Are you looking to be back in contact with her? No matter what, that would be a very nice and friendly gesture.
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| Posted 8/2/06 7:07 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
personally, i wouldn't, but that's just me
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
Thats nice of you. For me, it would depend on just how badly the friendship ended.
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| Posted 8/2/06 7:27 PM |
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julz33
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
It would depend on: how bad it ended and if you wanted to become friends again.
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| Posted 8/2/06 7:44 PM |
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Phyl
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
If you wanted to open the door to renew the friendship I think it would be a nice gesture.
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| Posted 8/2/06 7:50 PM |
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kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son
Member since 2/06 2747 total posts
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Kelly
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
I think that would be really sweet.
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MrsMaz
Best "THINGS" in my life.
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
I'm in the exact same situation although it has been less than 3 years and I just ordered something off of her registry to be delivered to her.
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| Posted 8/2/06 7:59 PM |
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munchkinbugs
My little loves!
Member since 1/06 8093 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
That would be a very nice gesture.
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| Posted 8/2/06 8:09 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
Posted by atracinact
If you wanted to open the door to renew the friendship I think it would be a nice gesture.
I agree. If you don't want to be friends with her again, I think you should let her be.
If you do opt for the gift I think you should send it with a letter. Sending a gift leaves her obligated to contact you back & I'm not sure I'd want the stress of that during pregnancy.
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| Posted 8/2/06 8:24 PM |
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gni1125
LIF Infant
Member since 7/06 246 total posts
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Irene
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
It depends on why the friendship ended but I think that's a sweet gesture.
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| Posted 8/2/06 8:35 PM |
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MsMa
Momma's Boy ?
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
If you were looking to become friends again on some level it would be a be a very nice gesture & an easy way to make the first step BUT IF YOU DON'T WANT TO START A FRIENDSHIP I WOULDN'T SEND ANYTHING BECAUSE SHE MAY GET THE WRONG IDEA.
whoops sorry I hit the caps lock and too lazy to retype!
JMO
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MrsPorkChop
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
send it if you want to rekindle the friendship
if you want to keep her at a distance, then you should really remain that way and not send a gift
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| Posted 8/3/06 9:39 AM |
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MsMBV
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
Posted by MsMa
If you were looking to become friends again on some level it would be a be a very nice gesture & an easy way to make the first step BUT IF YOU DON'T WANT TO START A FRIENDSHIP I WOULDN'T SEND ANYTHING BECAUSE SHE MAY GET THE WRONG IDEA.
whoops sorry I hit the caps lock and too lazy to retype!
JMO
Ditto.
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| Posted 8/3/06 9:41 AM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
Posted by Redhead
i think that would be a wonderful idea
ditto!
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| Posted 8/3/06 9:41 AM |
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LisaI
Momma's Little Beans
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
yeah I have. I do regret it though because she was un appreciative.
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| Posted 8/3/06 9:53 AM |
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lovelybride
LIF Toddler
Member since 5/05 420 total posts
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Gina
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
It depends on what happened to end the friendship.. It's a nice gesture and if you want to become friends with her again then send it.. if not, leave her be. JMO
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| Posted 8/3/06 10:00 AM |
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LAMGAJ28
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
Posted by julz33
It would depend on: how bad it ended and if you wanted to become friends again.
Ditto !!
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| Posted 8/3/06 10:04 AM |
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Shelly
She's 7!!!
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Re: If an ex, but once very close friend were pregnant...
You can also just send a card. I did that with someone when their dad passed away. I wasn't interested in renewing the friendship, I just wanted to express my sorrow and show her I still care.
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