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My parents paid for my

Forum Opinion Poll
college education 19 13.97%
wedding 14 10.29%
college education AND wedding 44 32.35%
my upbringing (but not college or wedding) 58 42.65%
other big expensive thing, but not college or wedding 1 0.74%
wedding, but I didn't go to college otherwise they would have paid for college 0 0.00%
 

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suvenR
designer mutt

Member since 5/05

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Message edited 10/4/2006 11:29:07 PM.

Posted 6/28/06 6:27 PM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

Member since 5/05

31871 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

my undergrad
paid for my reception hall

Message edited 6/28/2006 6:29:50 PM.

Posted 6/28/06 6:29 PM
 

2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair

Member since 5/06

19861 total posts

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Best Wife & Mommy

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

College. DH and I paid for our entire wedding because that is something that I wanted to do but then we got a hefty check from my parents for our wedding gift.

Posted 6/28/06 6:29 PM
 

JenniferEver
The Disney Lady

Member since 5/05

18163 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

They paid (mostly) for my car, and did take out some loans for my college, although scholarships, and my loans paid the bulk

Posted 6/28/06 6:30 PM
 

Pumpkin
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

3353 total posts

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Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

paid for some college and a good part of my wedding

Posted 6/28/06 6:30 PM
 

traceyd
Big Sister to Be!

Member since 5/05

3644 total posts

Name:
Tracey

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

My reception hall-I paid for (well took out student loans for) college-although my parents gave me a car when I turned 17 (not a new car or anything but still a car) and never charged me rent or anything like that while I lived there and went to college and even after college. They did the best they couldChat Icon

Posted 6/28/06 6:31 PM
 

FireIslandLove

Member since 5/05

12119 total posts

Name:

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

Posted by Redhead

my undergrad
paid for my reception hall


Same here

Posted 6/28/06 6:33 PM
 

evenedan
Need a little sunshine

Member since 9/05

3843 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

Upbringing, college education, first car (a kick-butt piece of 9-year-old crap) and about 15% of our wedding. And I'm very grateful for all of it.

Message edited 6/28/2006 6:35:36 PM.

Posted 6/28/06 6:33 PM
 

julz33
i run for bacon

Member since 5/05

20584 total posts

Name:
julz

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

Barely anything. I voted "Upbringing"
After I turned 16 all I got was dinner and a place to live.
Clothes, car, going out, I paid for all of that myslef since age 16.
But then I went ahead to help my younger siblings out with cars and college.


My mom bought me my wedding dress and paid the officiant.

I paid the rest of the reception and all of college.

I guess it makes me stronger and more independant in the end.

Posted 6/28/06 6:35 PM
 

coopersmom
LIF Adolescent

Member since 1/06

560 total posts

Name:
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Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

All Education (college, grad school, & doctorate) & My Wedding

Posted 6/28/06 6:35 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
Kisses

Member since 5/05

15952 total posts

Name:

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

Some of my college education. Scholarship and loans covered the rest.

I paid for my first car, insurance, grad school, house.

Dad did give me a gift towards the wedding but it's only because he is handicapped now and can't spend his retirement money enjoying things. It's give it to me or eventually the government will take it. He rather give some away to the people he loves. He does occassionally gift us money but I so don't expect it or count on it.

Posted 6/28/06 6:36 PM
 

MelToddJulia
Love my Family!

Member since 7/05

29064 total posts

Name:
Mel

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

Posted by Pumpkin

paid for some college and a good part of my wedding






Same for me.

Posted 6/28/06 6:36 PM
 

MABLE03
I <3 SATC

Member since 6/06

4563 total posts

Name:
Fabulous

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

NOTHING

No first car, wedding, college, ANYTHING. I am fine with that I did everything myself or my husband and I did it together. I am very proud of us. Chat Icon

eta. I just saw the upbringing post so I voted for that... But I worked since age 14 and paid for everything myself. The provided me with a roof over my head and food on my plate. thats it.

Message edited 6/28/2006 6:40:55 PM.

Posted 6/28/06 6:36 PM
 

MABLE03
I <3 SATC

Member since 6/06

4563 total posts

Name:
Fabulous

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

Posted by julz33

Barely anything. I voted "Upbringing"
After I turned 16 all I got was dinner and a place to live.
Clothes, car, going out, I paid for all of that myslef since age 16.
But then I went ahead to help my younger siblings out with cars and college.


My mom bought me my wedding dress and paid the officiant.

I paid the rest of the reception and all of college.

I guess it makes me stronger and more independant in the end.



This sounds just like me

Posted 6/28/06 6:41 PM
 

lvdolphins
My Loves!

Member since 5/05

46292 total posts

Name:

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

I voted "upbringing". There was a little help here and there with the wedding, but college was scholarships and loans. The cars I have drove were bought of the street. If they needed to be fixed, I paid the bills.
I started working at 16 and I got meals and lived with my parents until I got married, rent free.

Posted 6/28/06 6:43 PM
 

kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son

Member since 2/06

2747 total posts

Name:
Kelly

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

There's too many of us, we were on our own as far as weddings and college.

Posted 6/28/06 6:43 PM
 

MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.

Member since 5/05

26170 total posts

Name:
MrsERod™®

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

Posted by julz33

I voted "Upbringing"
After I turned 16 all I got was dinner and a place to live.
Clothes, car, going out, I paid for all of that myslef since age 16.



same here

Posted 6/28/06 6:48 PM
 

BaroqueMama
Chase is one!

Member since 5/05

27530 total posts

Name:
me

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

undergrad (the small portion that was not scholarshipped) and my reception hall.

ETA: I was expected to work all the time since I was 14. everything else in my life, I paid for.

Message edited 6/28/2006 6:58:33 PM.

Posted 6/28/06 6:57 PM
 

Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!

Member since 5/05

22334 total posts

Name:
Professional Aunts No Kids

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

My upbringing.

I paid for college and my DH and I paid for our wedding ourselves! Chat Icon

Posted 6/28/06 6:57 PM
 

Tany
Becoming a different woman

Member since 5/05

24460 total posts

Name:
Tania

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

My upbringing, my mom.

Sadly, my dad hasn't been there economically for me.

Posted 6/28/06 7:12 PM
 

LuckySV
LIF Adult

Member since 10/05

4675 total posts

Name:

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

My parents bought me a used car at 18, paid for college and grad school (both were CUNY), and my wedding gown. They didn't pay for the wedding but they gave us a very generous check. They didn't charge me rent while I lived at home. I also worked since I was 14 and was always a saver. I am extremely grateful for all my parents have done and I hope I can do for them in the future.

Posted 6/28/06 7:26 PM
 

lorich
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Member since 6/05

9987 total posts

Name:
Grammie says "Lora Gina"

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

Posted by MABLE03

I worked since age 14 and paid for everything myself. The provided me with a roof over my head and food on my plate. thats it.



Same here....no complaints either.

Posted 6/28/06 7:32 PM
 

saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

Member since 5/05

16555 total posts

Name:
I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

hmm, this is tough. i don't want to sound like a brat, but i'm paying my college loans and fh and i are paying for 99% of the wedding. they paid for the dj and fh parents are paying for the rehearsal.

as far as upbringing, i really never wanted for anything. i worked, yes, but my first car, was paid for by my parents.

my dad will do for one what he does for the other, and i hope to do that one day for my kids

Posted 6/28/06 7:36 PM
 

nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.

Member since 7/05

57538 total posts

Name:

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

My parents paid for my college education, gave us a set amount for our wedding, etc. They've always been very generous.

Posted 6/28/06 7:39 PM
 

LulaBell
:)

Member since 1/06

3508 total posts

Name:
J

Re: Curiosity poll: My parents paid for my...

My parents paid for part of college and part of my wedding. They were very generous and I am appreciative, but they also taught me to provide for myself. I am most appreciative for the worth ethic they instilled in me.

Posted 6/28/06 7:40 PM
 
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