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repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

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repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

I am so hurt. I have strep throat and I feel awful. I also start my new job on Monday and I would like to get some rest. I asked DH (who never once woke up for Andrew) if he could do it tonight and he said no.

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Posted 8/13/06 12:24 AM
 
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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

You have every right to be!

Posted 8/13/06 12:29 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

What is he thinking??????????????Chat Icon

Next time he's sick, I hope you tell him to take care of himself!!!

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Posted 8/13/06 12:31 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

How can he say no? Its his son too! I would be sooooooooo pi$$ed off!Chat Icon
Thats not right!

Posted 8/13/06 12:32 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

I'm so sorry you feel so badChat Icon your DH needs a wake up callChat Icon He can get his own meals and do his own laundry!Chat Icon

Posted 8/13/06 12:33 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

Awwww what the heck is his problem?Chat Icon Id love to help you feed him!

Posted 8/13/06 12:39 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

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That is really wrong of him. You're sick and starting a new job Monday. He should be helping. I am so sorry... hope you feel better soon!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/13/06 12:51 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

walk in. hand him the baby, hand him the bottle, and walk away. if he asks or says anything.... just say that you were just kidding when you acted like you cared whether or not he wanted to feed the baby, and that he WILL, in fact, be in charge of the feeding.

honestly, he's off his rocker if he thinks he can pick and choose when he wants to feed his child.

Posted 8/13/06 1:01 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

Posted by neeniebean86

walk in. hand him the baby, hand him the bottle, and walk away. if he asks or says anything.... just say that you were just kidding when you acted like you cared whether or not he wanted to feed the baby, and that he WILL, in fact, be in charge of the feeding.

honestly, he's off his rocker if he thinks he can pick and choose when he wants to feed his child.




I couldn't agree with this more.
I would be so disappointed and hurt it wouldnt be funny. How dare your hubby not help the one time you asked because you were sick.
Go hit him in the head with a pan!

Posted 8/13/06 1:19 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

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Did he say WHY??? He said no?

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Posted 8/13/06 7:46 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

I would be pizzed too!!!

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Posted 8/13/06 7:49 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

Well, I have been up since before 6 am with AndrewChat Icon

I feel so bad for DS. He is definetly getting sick from me. He is so congested and won't stop crying. I still feel like garbage. And where is DH still sleeping in the other room. That's right, last night he slept in the other roomChat Icon

After I asked him he got up and without a word went to bed in the other roomChat Icon

Posted 8/13/06 7:51 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

What is his reason for this?Chat Icon

Posted 8/13/06 7:55 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

Posted by Stacey1403

What is his reason for this?Chat Icon



right? I dont understand why he said no? He just flat our refuses because why? its not his job?

Posted 8/13/06 7:56 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

Posted by Stacey1403

What is his reason for this?Chat Icon



No reason at all. He just wanted a good nights sleep which he get's everynightChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/13/06 7:56 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

Do you have a family member who can watch Andrew while you have a talk? I mean he is being so unfair to youChat Icon I just can't see how he wouldn't feel bad especially since you are sickChat Icon

Posted 8/13/06 7:58 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

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Posted by Stacey1403

What is his reason for this?Chat Icon



No reason at all. He just wanted a good nights sleep which he get's everynightChat Icon Chat Icon



Does he forget that Andrew is his son too? I am really sorry you can't get some rest. Try to feel better.Chat Icon

Posted 8/13/06 8:07 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

What was YOUR response to all of this?

I mean I would have said, tough....Im not getting up so either your son straves or you will help me, or I''d have packed a bag and Said Im going to my mothers/friends house to get some rest.

Hes not just your son, so why is it all on you?? I hope you are speaking up.

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Posted 8/13/06 8:16 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

I would never put up with this. ALl I would say is well if the baby gets sick its on your head. Sometimes guilt works. I feel so bad for you though - its not fair. ANdrew is both of yours an he must help you too.

Posted 8/13/06 8:24 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

I don't have children, but I would be LIVID!!!!!!

He certainly would have not SLEPT if this was my DH!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

I think you need to have a serious talk with him...this is your child, and you are BOTH responsible for him!!!! If you need a break for WHATEVER reason, it should not be a problem!

Posted 8/13/06 8:54 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

You need to sit down with him today and have a serious tak with him. Remind him, he is the father, and you are both responsible for your child, not ONLY you!

Posted 8/13/06 9:01 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

Posted by neeniebean86

walk in. hand him the baby, hand him the bottle, and walk away. if he asks or says anything.... just say that you were just kidding when you acted like you cared whether or not he wanted to feed the baby, and that he WILL, in fact, be in charge of the feeding.

honestly, he's off his rocker if he thinks he can pick and choose when he wants to feed his child.



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I'm am so sorry he's treating you like this. What is his problem? I mean seriously, he can't get up with the baby ONE night when you are sick? Wow... if that were my DH, I'd be making damn sure that if he didn't get up with the baby that night, he certainly wouldn't be getting any sleep either. Chat Icon

I hope you feel better soon and that your DH gets the wake up call he needs!

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Posted 8/13/06 9:01 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

He needs an azz kicking..that's just awful.

Wake his monkey butt up, hand him the kid and say "you figure it out." Then go back to bed and rest.

Posted 8/13/06 9:08 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

I would be banging some pots REALLY LOUDLY, vacuuming, making any annoying loud noises I can and when he gets up, I would say oh Great your up, here is YOUR son that you helped create. I am not feeling well I am going back to bed--- that's it and don't look back! Just go back to bed!

Feel better.

Posted 8/13/06 9:12 AM
 

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Re: repost from Parenting: I am so sick so I asked DH if he could do the feedings tonight and he said NO!!!!!

NO????????????Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon If my DH said NO, which he knows better especially in this situation, I would hand him the baby and a bag with what the baby needs and list of feeding time and I would either go to bed and lock the door or go to my moms and rest! He needs a nice rude awakening and nip it NOW b/c if you let him get away with this, sounds like you will be on your own with the baby in the future too. Good luck and feel better.

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Posted 8/13/06 9:17 AM
 
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