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sunflowerjesss
Mommy to 3!
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A little frustrated with DH
DH has been nothing but amazing throughout my 2 hospital stays, various doctor and testing appointments, and everything else that has been thrown at us the past couple of weeks. He has totally been my rock and who knows what kind of emotional wreck I'd be without him.
However, I would like to move along with the pregnancy and get some action in the sack to aide in doing so. But he positively refuses. We haven't come out and discussed it, but I've thrown myself at him a countless number of times and I get nada. During random conversations I'd gently remind him $ex has been known to bring on labor and NOTHING.
What the heck. I'm getting so frustrated!!!!!!!!
Thanks for letting me vent.
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Posted 6/9/08 8:55 PM  |
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pixie
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Re: A little frustrated with DH
You can borrow mine  Im just not in the mood, and he was informed that Im supposed to be a sex fiend and hes just waiting and waiting.
Maybe your husband is just nervous about hurting the baby? Maybe the intentions are good...
In any case...feel better 
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| Posted 6/9/08 9:32 PM |
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DeniseMarie
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Re: A little frustrated with DH
maybe its just awkward for him 
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| Posted 6/9/08 10:23 PM |
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MrsO
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Re: A little frustrated with DH
He might be scared especially after hospital stays - tell him you want a little cuddle time maybe not the whole shabang
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| Posted 6/9/08 10:38 PM |
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junebride06
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Robin
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Re: A little frustrated with DH
hey jess! haha we are in the opposite predicaments, I'm actually scared to, don't ask why, I know I'm crazy, feel like I need to be a little further along.
Hang in there sweetie!!!
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| Posted 6/9/08 10:38 PM |
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pumpkinpye517
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Tiffany
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Re: A little frustrated with DH
dont you love men? They can be so weird, maybe he is just nervous and freaked out. He too could be stressed about becoming a dad a little bit, so ya never know what is really on his mind about this whole pregnancy thing too. Before you know it, your  will be here! Maybe try to speed things along by walking around the mall or something?
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| Posted 6/10/08 8:41 AM |
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sunflowerjesss
Mommy to 3!
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Re: A little frustrated with DH
Posted by pumpkinpye517
Maybe try to speed things along by walking around the mall or something?
Wish I could. But, according to my last discharge I am on strict bedrest with bathroom privileges only. 
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| Posted 6/10/08 10:29 AM |
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aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys
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Ali
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Re: A little frustrated with DH
just don't take no for an answer!
Tell him "you helped me put the baby in there and you're going to help me get it out too!" 
I can definitely sympathize though because i know my husband would be the same. But he'd stand no chance against me! 
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| Posted 6/10/08 10:39 AM |
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Kelly9904
Mommy to 2 amazing little boys
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Re: A little frustrated with DH
At the end DH wanted NOTHING to do with it. He was afraid of hurting hte baby, and honestly I think he wanted me to be pregnant longer because it meant he didnt have to take care of the baby. Which worried him to no end!
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| Posted 6/10/08 10:48 AM |
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