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LisaW
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?
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A woe is me post
Just need to vent...
I just feel so "out of the loop". All my friends have kids, just about all the girls on here that were married around the same time (or even later) than me are working on their second or third child...
It just feels like a club that I can never join...I just feel so left out. It changes friendships I guess...I feel like an outsider...
I'll be married 6 years tomorrow, and I really thought by now we would have a child of our own...
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mtg1970
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Re: A woe is me post
It WILL happen for you Lisa........don't lose hope just yet 
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| Posted 11/18/06 3:25 PM |
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Diane
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Stay strong girl...I know it will be your day and I cant wait till that happens..it will be so worth the wait
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| Posted 11/18/06 3:28 PM |
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jellybean78
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I know how you feel. DH & I have been married 7 years and no kids. It seems like everyone around us has one two or even three kids and we feel like when is going to be our turn. It's hard but you have to know that someday it's going to happen for you too. Stay strong! Looking at it in a positive light all the years you & your DH have spent together as a married couple just you two can never be taken away. As soon as you have kids your time is not your own and I'm sure that down the road we will look back at these years and thank God for the time we were able to spend as a couple strenghthening our marriage.
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| Posted 11/18/06 4:06 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Re: A woe is me post
I wish I had something to say. I know " It will happen", and "Stay strong "must be getting really old.
All I can say is that you are meant for something special because of all the waiting and sadness you have had to endure.
Your relationship with your child you one day have will be like none other we all could know because of what you are going through.
In the meantime, waiting, and wishing can literally break your heart in two and I wish and pray I could help ease that pain for you.
  
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| Posted 11/18/06 4:14 PM |
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rose825
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Re: A woe is me post
Donna's right .... I cant think of anything warm and fuzzy to say without making you roll your eyes or sound like a cliche.
So I think you and DH should run through your house nekked and have sex in the middle of the day on the kitchen counter while you still can.
Cause one day soon you will be missing those times.
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| Posted 11/18/06 7:16 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: A woe is me post
Posted by rose825
Donna's right .... I cant think of anything warm and fuzzy to say without making you roll your eyes or sound like a cliche.
So I think you and DH should run through your house nekked and have sex in the middle of the day on the kitchen counter while you still can.
Cause one day soon you will be missing those times.
That is some PERFECT advice!!! 
I will counter it with a DAYTIME 5 hour at least nap afterwards cause naps are FUN.....and get them now while you can!!!
p.s Add some flare and get DRUNK, then run naked around the house too....
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| Posted 11/18/06 7:18 PM |
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LisaW
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Re: A woe is me post
1- no kitchen counter
2- not allowed to have sex
3-naps make me sick (didn't you read that post?)
4- will be getting drunk very soon
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| Posted 11/18/06 7:19 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Re: A woe is me post
Posted by LisaW
1- no kitchen counter
2- not allowed to have sex
3-naps make me sick (didn't you read that post?)
4- will be getting drunk very soon
well jeez...with that new host of problems, I am gonna have to start getting into illegal stuff you can do..so I will keep that in FM ok? 
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| Posted 11/18/06 7:22 PM |
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Gertyrae
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Ahhh...Lisa, I don't know what to say - how do you live with no kitchen counters? Maybe that's the problem....just trying to make you laugh.
I'm so sorry, I can't imagine having gone through all you have with no results. I know how sometimes it's sad just to see how almost all the oldtimers have graduated from this board and I'm still here - but hopefully, this new treatment is going to work and you will get what you have worked so hard for all these years.
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| Posted 11/18/06 7:48 PM |
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rose825
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Posted by Gertyrae
Ahhh...Lisa, I don't know what to say - how do you live with no kitchen counters? Maybe that's the problem....just trying to make you laugh.
I'm so sorry, I can't imagine having gone through all you have with no results. I know how sometimes it's sad just to see how almost all the oldtimers have graduated from this board and I'm still here - but hopefully, this new treatment is going to work and you will get what you have worked so hard for all these years.
I'm here too girls.
OK Lisa, I have been putting my thinking cap on..... I think you need to streak through your neghborhood and then take a bubble bath. Please tell me you have a bathtub Lord knows you need a kitchen designer
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| Posted 11/18/06 7:58 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Re: A woe is me post
Posted by rose825
Posted by Gertyrae
Ahhh...Lisa, I don't know what to say - how do you live with no kitchen counters? Maybe that's the problem....just trying to make you laugh.
I'm so sorry, I can't imagine having gone through all you have with no results. I know how sometimes it's sad just to see how almost all the oldtimers have graduated from this board and I'm still here - but hopefully, this new treatment is going to work and you will get what you have worked so hard for all these years.
I'm here too girls.
OK Lisa, I have been putting my thinking cap on..... I think you need to streak through your neghborhood and then take a bubble bath. Please tell me you have a bathtub Lord knows you need a kitchen designer
Lisa-
I know a kitchen designer if you need one.
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| Posted 11/18/06 8:00 PM |
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LisaW
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OMG
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| Posted 11/18/06 8:04 PM |
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mrsmck
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Re: A woe is me post
You're gonna be a kick-azz, red-headed mama, and your child will know how much he/she was loved and wanted.
Now go swing from a chandelier!!!
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| Posted 11/18/06 9:11 PM |
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Gertyrae
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If she has no counters, I can't imagine she has a chandelier
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| Posted 11/18/06 9:50 PM |
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Tumbalina
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| Posted 11/18/06 10:15 PM |
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karacg
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OMGosh Lisa, Donna is right, she DOES know a kitchen designer...!!
I don't know what to say to make it better. I wish I did. But biy when you get that BFP there will be some MAJOR celebrating!! I can't wait!
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| Posted 11/18/06 11:00 PM |
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juju
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Posted by karacg
OMGosh Lisa, Donna is right, she DOES know a kitchen designer...!!
Bad Bad Girls!!!
In all seriousness Lisa, Pass me the Wine!!!!!!!!
Seriously, embrace the celebration of your marriage! Happy Anniversary, Lisa ! What matters most is that you have each other and if you are like me, IF has brought you and DH even closer. There is no doubt in mind that you and DH will one day be loving parents! Enjoy your Special Day!
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giggles
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Re: A woe is me post
There are a few ways to have fun without exactly having S E X -
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| Posted 11/19/06 12:27 AM |
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CaseyGirl
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I know ...I feel the same way
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| Posted 11/19/06 9:17 AM |
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LisaW
Time for me to FLY!
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Posted by giggles
There are a few ways to have fun without exactly having S E X -
Yup, EATING 
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| Posted 11/19/06 9:29 AM |
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rose825
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Re: A woe is me post
Posted by LisaW
Posted by giggles
There are a few ways to have fun without exactly having S E X -
Yup, EATING
You naughty naughty girl. You are gonna earn some fines for that one!!!
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| Posted 11/19/06 9:30 AM |
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LisaW
Time for me to FLY!
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Re: A woe is me post
Posted by rose825
Posted by LisaW
Posted by giggles
There are a few ways to have fun without exactly having S E X -
Yup, EATING
You naughty naughty girl. You are gonna earn some fines for that one!!!
I seriously meant EATING as in food!
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| Posted 11/19/06 9:33 AM |
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rose825
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Re: A woe is me post
Posted by LisaW
Posted by rose825
Posted by LisaW
Posted by giggles
There are a few ways to have fun without exactly having S E X -
Yup, EATING
You naughty naughty girl. You are gonna earn some fines for that one!!!
I seriously meant EATING as in food!
sure you did
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| Posted 11/19/06 9:33 AM |
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Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: A woe is me post
Lisa,
There is nothing I can say that I'm sure you haven't already heard before and tha doesn't sound like a cliche.
You really are an incredibly strong woman for going through as much as you have for as long as you have. When I first learned how much you have been through I was truly humbled
Thankfully, you have a very understanding DH and a treasured and strong relationship.
I pray you are blessed with a child very soon.
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