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KittyCat
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Member since 5/05 2241 total posts
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Kathleen
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Am I over - reacting?
My DH stepfather said that he needs DH to drive with him to NC on 8/15 to drop off a vehicle and then fly back, the next day.
Here is my problem - he never asked DH, i felt as if he told DH and DH has a problem saying no to anyone to asks a favor. I will be 37 weeks pregnant - I know it is probably 1 in a million that I got into labor that exact night, but I am mad that DH didn't even THINK of it and that the stepfather even was selfish enough to ask at this time.
So should I put up a stink and tell him not to go or just forget it and pray I don't go into labor that night?
then the stepfahter has the nerve to say "don't worry I will be paying for the plane tickets home, you don't have to pay"
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Posted 7/24/06 11:15 AM  |
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stickydust
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Re: Am I over - reacting?
I would definately be annoyed. But I guess depending on how badly he needed DH's help I would let him go - as long as I could have someone stay with me. If there was no one who could stay with me then no Way!!
Good luck!
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| Posted 7/24/06 11:23 AM |
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SuzyQ
Mama to 3!?!?!?
Member since 7/06 8069 total posts
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Susan
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Re: Am I over - reacting?
I would be annoyed too. I think I would be most annoyed that he didn't ask DH. The stepfather sounds like he's clueless and it probably didn't even occur to him that you are so close to delivering. I think I would probably let him go, but I would let the stepfather know that he should really ask in the future (even though it sounds like he probably won't listen anyway.)
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| Posted 7/24/06 11:27 AM |
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nferrandi
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Member since 10/05 18538 total posts
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Nicole
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Re: Am I over - reacting?
I would be annoyed too. Can DH suggest he take someone else along, but tell him in a worst-case-scenario he'll go, he just doesn't feel comfortable given his wife is due around that time.
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| Posted 7/24/06 11:30 AM |
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bethsiar
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Member since 9/05 1390 total posts
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Beth
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Re: Am I over - reacting?
Posted by nferrandi
I would be annoyed too. Can DH suggest he take someone else along, but tell him in a worst-case-scenario he'll go, he just doesn't feel comfortable given his wife is due around that time.
I think thats def a good answer. It would make me nervous having DH away from me too.
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| Posted 7/24/06 1:20 PM |
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
Member since 9/05 18504 total posts
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Stephanie
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Re: Am I over - reacting?
I would be annoyed as well. Sorry I don't have advice, but 
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| Posted 7/24/06 1:26 PM |
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aidamarie
My Precious Angel
Member since 9/05 1093 total posts
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Aidamarie
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Re: Am I over - reacting?
Posted by bethsiar
Posted by nferrandi
I would be annoyed too. Can DH suggest he take someone else along, but tell him in a worst-case-scenario he'll go, he just doesn't feel comfortable given his wife is due around that time.
I think thats def a good answer. It would make me nervous having DH away from me too.
I agree.
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| Posted 7/24/06 2:01 PM |
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michele31
LIF Adult
Member since 5/05 3372 total posts
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Michele
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Re: Am I over - reacting?
Scott did not travel once I hit 35 weeks. There is just too much of a chance of anything happening.
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| Posted 7/24/06 2:09 PM |
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sweetpea
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Member since 7/06 2467 total posts
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Donna
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Re: Am I over - reacting?
me too... i dont know if i would want him gone that late in the pregnancy - i'd be little nervous
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| Posted 7/24/06 2:11 PM |
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