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AJ8505
LIF Infant
Member since 11/05 198 total posts
Name: AJ
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Anyone else feeling this way?
Why must people feel the need to pull up my shirt to look at my pregnant belly????
This woman pulled my shirt up so far that my bra was almost showing, in the middle of the school hallway
Is it me, or is it just rude and an invasion of privacy??
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Posted 11/14/05 10:13 AM |
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anon
where's winter?
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
i was never a belly person...
i don't feel the need to touch other people, and i don't think i'll want them touching me when i get to that point, i guess time will tell!
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Posted 11/14/05 10:18 AM |
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AJ8505
LIF Infant
Member since 11/05 198 total posts
Name: AJ
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
Thats the thing, I don't really have a belly yet. I am only 16 weeks. But this woman said "She was just checking"
I am not even that close to the woman!!!
I feel violated
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Posted 11/14/05 10:21 AM |
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Cheryl
Horray for 3 boys!!
Member since 5/05 2354 total posts
Name: Mikey, Greg & TJ's Mommy
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
Totally inappropriate!! I'm not a belly person either and I know I'm going to have serious issues with people touching my stomach when I get bigger.
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Posted 11/14/05 10:22 AM |
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Marcie
Complete Happiness :)
Member since 5/05 27789 total posts
Name: LOVE being a Mommy!
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
I am showing already and I am only 12 weeks - I would have a problem with it, if it is someone I am not very close with.
DH's mother was doing all weekend, I am not big on the touchy touchy thing, but his mother lives in FL so I was like what the heck, let her be happy about it. Even though this is her 10th grandchild!
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Posted 11/14/05 10:29 AM |
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dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!
Member since 10/05 11561 total posts
Name: Dina
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
Posted by AJ8505
Why must people feel the need to pull up my shirt to look at my pregnant belly????
This woman pulled my shirt up so far that my bra was almost showing, in the middle of the school hallway
Is it me, or is it just rude and an invasion of privacy??
I saw this tee shirt on www.2chix.com that said something like "don't touch the bump" or something. I'll see if I can find it for you. Maybe you can wear it to work one day???
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Posted 11/14/05 10:42 AM |
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
Posted by dandr10199
Posted by AJ8505
Why must people feel the need to pull up my shirt to look at my pregnant belly????
This woman pulled my shirt up so far that my bra was almost showing, in the middle of the school hallway
Is it me, or is it just rude and an invasion of privacy??
I saw this tee shirt on www.2chix.com that said something like "don't touch the bump" or something. I'll see if I can find it for you. Maybe you can wear it to work one day???
TOTALLY INAPPROPRIATE!!!! I woulda smacked her..lol.. j/k... Or lifted her shirt just to check..
I LOVE the idea of the Shirt mentioned above!!! VERY good idea!!!
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Posted 11/14/05 10:55 AM |
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Member since 5/05 6530 total posts
Name: Lisa
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
people have already tried touching my belly, and I'm not showing at all yet (only 9.5 weeks).
I think its totally inappropriate and rude! I know its only going to get worse as I start to show, but I don't plan on allowing it.
No way would I let someone I'm not close with lift my shirt! I would have nicely told her to back off!
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Posted 11/14/05 11:14 AM |
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btrflygrl
me and baby #3!
Member since 5/05 12013 total posts
Name: Shana
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
totally inapproprate! I'm one of those that don't like people touching my belly (luckily, I haven't had an onslaught of touchy people). But to lift your shirt???!!! That's borderline harassment
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Posted 11/14/05 11:28 AM |
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DRMom
Two in Blue
Member since 5/05 20223 total posts
Name: Melissa
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
I would flip! I don't even like when you get a pedicure or manicure and they massage you-I'm likeyou can just skip it. I hate strangers touching me!!
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Posted 11/14/05 11:30 AM |
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Texas4Good
My Boys
Member since 6/05 1019 total posts
Name: Anne
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
I mostly get the "rub" of the belly. No one actuall had tried to pull up my shirt. If they did, I think I would flip!
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Posted 11/14/05 2:35 PM |
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CheeChee
HI THERE!!!!
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
I totally agree... you need to buy a shirt like this one..... Image Attachment(s):
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Posted 11/14/05 11:48 PM |
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AJ8505
LIF Infant
Member since 11/05 198 total posts
Name: AJ
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
I want one!!!
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Posted 11/15/05 6:08 AM |
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Jenziba
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Member since 5/05 6265 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
OMG...that is a GREAT shirt!
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Posted 11/15/05 6:36 AM |
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sunny
Life is good!
Member since 5/05 8369 total posts
Name: Stephanie
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Re: Anyone else feeling this way?
I hate it! I have never had anyone lift my shirt though
I don't mind family and friends touching really, it is mostly some people from work and strangers that bother me.
It bothered me the most when I wasn't really showing yet and I felt like people were grabbing my fat belly!
Now that I am huge it doesn't bother me as much, I am getting used to it.
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Posted 11/15/05 7:49 AM |
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