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Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

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new2this
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Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

Kinda personal, I know... but I just have no desire whatsoever especially since I haven't been feeling well (stillin first tri). Poor DH! Can I tell him that it should get better? Chat Icon

Posted 1/14/06 8:49 AM
 
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dandr10199
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Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

Yes it does get better! I was so fatigued during my 1st trimester that I was in bed by 8PM every night. DH and I had to be creative with our timing. We would BD in the morning, mid afternoon, or right when DH got in the door from work. Now that I am in my 2 tri, things are as they were before I was preggo. Chat Icon Hang in there.

Posted 1/14/06 8:55 AM
 

bellarina
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Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

we havent in 7 months! Chat Icon I have had a really bad pregnancy unfortunately so, all fun ended. Chat Icon

Posted 1/14/06 8:57 AM
 

new2this
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Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

glad to hear i am not alone anf that dh is not alone! oh it's just the furthest thing from my mind and i feel bad!!!

Posted 1/14/06 9:12 AM
 

Eireann
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Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

For me also, it did NOT get any better! I had like no desire the whole time. We stopped completely almost two months before I had my daughter! Chat Icon

Posted 1/14/06 9:17 AM
 

MrsSchwags
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Jennifer

Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

I am always tired as well, but I try to at least once a week, even if its just a quickie! Chat Icon

Posted 1/14/06 9:39 AM
 

JerseyMamaOf3
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Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

I'm 26 weeks and we BD I think 5 times. I feel bad but DH understands.

Posted 1/14/06 10:28 AM
 

Samlove

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Shari

Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

I have not BD since I got pregnant. I am due in 4 weeks so DH will have to wait alittle while longer

Posted 1/14/06 10:58 AM
 

Sharon
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Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

I'm so glad you posted this! I thought I was the only one. I am 8 weeks PG with twins, and can hardly lift my head off the pillow never mind being in the mood. I feeel really bad for DH though, so this weekend I just faked it! Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/06 10:35 AM
 

MrsSchwags
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Jennifer

Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

Posted by Sharon

I'm so glad you posted this! I thought I was the only one. I am 8 weeks PG with twins, and can hardly lift my head off the pillow never mind being in the mood. I feeel really bad for DH though, so this weekend I just faked it! Chat Icon




awwww.....just don't tell him Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/06 10:49 AM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

We are pretty much the minority, I guess. It's been MORE frequent nowChat Icon However, in the very beginning, I was convinced we'd hurt the baby if we did anything. I've since overcome that fear!Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/06 11:57 AM
 

aidamarie
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Aidamarie

Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

I have had no desire for my entire pregnancy so far 25 weeks, i feel bad for DH, its been like 4 times the entire preg. so far. In the beginning he was ok with it, but the past few weeks hes been wanting to more and more, and im just not into it.

Posted 1/16/06 12:48 PM
 

HereWeGoAgain
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a

Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

35 weeks here. .and total.. maybe 4 times.. Chat Icon .. Some times I feel bad for my DH, but I too have not had an easy pregnancy,AND its baby#2, so usually DH understands... Chat Icon

Good Luck!Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/06 1:20 PM
 

ddunne2
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Doreen

Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

When I was preggo with Jack, DH was the one that wasn't interested....it creeped him out. That was fine with me becasue to this day I can take it or leave it!Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/06 2:14 PM
 

Shelly
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Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

Our sex life is the same since I got pregnant, which I am VERY happy about Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/06 2:17 PM
 

mable
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kristen

Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

We have not had any relations isnce nov.. I am sorry too but I am tired and sore all the time..
I did by my hubby some movies..lolChat Icon

Posted 1/16/06 7:24 PM
 

mommy2Alex
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Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

When I was pg I had zero desire. We did BD but not as often as before. Even since Alex was born I feel its been hard getting into the prechild bd rythym.

Posted 1/16/06 7:55 PM
 

smith1234
Little Angel

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Kristi

Re: Anyone just not into the BD anymore now that you are pg?

Wow. I really thought that I was the only one! I'm 9 weeks and we haven't BD once yet. I'm totally not in the mood at all, but wanted to wait until my doctors appointment which is today just to make sure it's safe. So I've been telling DH just wait until my appointment. Now that it's here I'm thinking OH CRAP! I'm going to have to give it up LOL! Chat Icon

Message edited 1/17/2006 10:28:33 AM.

Posted 1/17/06 10:27 AM
 
 

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