Article about multiple mcs from Jane mag.

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This part rang true to me, and made me feel less alone (although I havent had multiple mcs):

A recent study showed that the grief one experiences after losing a wanted child at ANY number of weeks was equivalent to the grief of losing a close friend or family member. Would you say to a grieving friend, “Well it’s probably good your grandmother died, she was super old and overpopulation is really becoming a problem!” or “Hey, at least you have your grandfather!”

--I'd like to read that study... Just thought I'd share.

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good article ---- I can say that I know exactly how she feels after having 2 losses.

Today I should've been out of my first trimester OR one week before a baby was due.


Instead I am still spotting from the D&C and waiting to hear about blood test results.

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What a wonderful article. Thank you so much for sharing. I feel that so many people do not understand how hard it is to loss a baby and then just move on.

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"The only thing you should ever say to anyone who’s had a miscarriage is, “I’m sorry for your loss.”"

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Posted by InShock

"The only thing you should ever say to anyone who’s had a miscarriage is, “I’m sorry for your loss.”"

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Thanks for sharing. My EDD is coming up over the holidays and I am dreading it. Many many to all the moms on here who have lost precious babies

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thanks for sharing, the article almost made me cry, I'd love to share it on my FB wall for some silly people to read....

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thank you..i cried when i read it..and then i said f**k it i am sharing this on fb..i hate that it is taboo

and i say that even though i am taboo about it..i dont speak about them..and sometimes i think i should

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the article was so moving to me that i actually posted my story as a comment..... didn't realize it would pull my real name from Yahoo... but you know what? So what if people know that i have had two losses? Writting my story for strangers to see / read was a form of peace for me. It made me feel really good afterwards.

I am actually thinking of editing my post and emailling it to my "friends" that haven't called me back so they don't know anything taht I have been dealing with in the past 7 months.

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I just want to give all of you who have had multiple MC a big

I can't even imagine what it must be like to go through this over and over. This was my first one and words can't describe how I feel, it has destroyed me emotionally , I can't even imagine going through this again.... so I just wanted to say I'm sorry