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runlikethewind
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bad news...I'm devastated
Sorry to bring everyone down, but I went for an ultrasound today at almost 8 weeks and was told there was no heartbeat. I am in a state of shock, especially since less than 2 weeks ago, it was there stronger than ever. I had to go to a radiology place since my insurance does not cover in-office, so I had to sit there, wait for my doctor to call - it was horrible. I have no bleeding yet, just had light pink spotting one time when I pee-d last night. I guess the next step is a D & C.
Ladies, I'm so upset, I can't stop crying. Just last week all was well and now this. I don't get it.
Thanks for your support and best wishes to you all.
Message edited 6/23/2007 3:03:15 PM.
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Posted 6/23/07 3:02 PM |
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Karen
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I am so sorry to hear this. I am here for you if you need to talk!
Something very similar happened to me - development started, and then stopped. I required a D&C also - the emotionally aspect is much worse than the physical aspect.
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Posted 6/23/07 3:05 PM |
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Binxyboys
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
OMG. I'm so sorry!
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Posted 6/23/07 3:06 PM |
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MelToddJulia
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I'm so sorry!!
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Posted 6/23/07 3:11 PM |
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bayla
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
i am so so sorry
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Posted 6/23/07 3:18 PM |
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zeta1996
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I am so sorry to hear this! My thoughts and prayers are with you and DH. I went through something similar but I didn't require a D&C...it happened naturally, and it was upsetting, but the happy news is that I conceived right after. I am here if you want to FM...
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Posted 6/23/07 3:23 PM |
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2PreciousBlessings
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I'm so sorry!
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Posted 6/23/07 3:25 PM |
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octoberbride
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I am very sorry
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Posted 6/23/07 3:32 PM |
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I'm so sorry to hear what happened.
I miscarried at 7 1/2 weeks and had a D&C. I know what you are going through and it is so difficult. My thoughts are with you. FM me if you have any questions prior to the D&C or after.
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Posted 6/23/07 3:34 PM |
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curliegirl
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
That's the worst, the same thing happened to me.
I hope you can find some time to heal and rest, it is a very traumatic thing to deal with.
FM if you need to, and realize that not many people will understand or know what to say or do. Some will even unintentionally offend you. Sorry to put a further damper, I just want to give you a heads up on what to expect.
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Posted 6/23/07 3:36 PM |
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Arodisi
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I am so sorry for your loss.
I too experienced a m/c, but I did not require a D&C.
Stay strong and hang in there!
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Posted 6/23/07 3:46 PM |
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waterspout4
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I am so sorry for the loss of your baby. My prayers are with your angel.
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Posted 6/23/07 3:52 PM |
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runlikethewind
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
It's such a sad day, I hope I can get pg again someday
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Posted 6/23/07 3:53 PM |
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cjik
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I am so sorry to hear your news. I really can't say how much--I know how hard this must be for you.
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Posted 6/23/07 3:55 PM |
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ziamaria
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
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Posted 6/23/07 3:56 PM |
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firsttimer
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
OMG - I just read this (and just sent you a FM prior to reading this)
I am so sorry for you and have many prayers for you and your DH. Please FM if you want talk.
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Posted 6/23/07 4:03 PM |
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Posted by dreambaby
It's such a sad day, I hope I can get pg again someday
You will get pregnant again! One thing I've tried to stay focused on is the fact that I got pregnant. It means you and your DH are capable of conceiving and will again. Take this time to grieve, rest and allow your body to heal. This is so hard and I am so sorry for your loss.
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Posted 6/23/07 4:08 PM |
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Aga
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
how awful for you and DH, I am so sorry for your loss
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Posted 6/23/07 4:09 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I am so sorry!!!
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Posted 6/23/07 4:12 PM |
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runlikethewind
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
Thank you everyone.
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Posted 6/23/07 4:29 PM |
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nbc188
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
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Posted 6/23/07 5:12 PM |
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MommyofG
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
Im so sorry to hear this, this happened to me last month. At 5 weeks I started to bleed very heavily after getting the good news from my dr. that I was pg. I want to give you a lot of , it helped me out a lot too and the wonderful support from the ladies on this board who knew.
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Posted 6/23/07 5:14 PM |
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I am so sorry
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Posted 6/23/07 5:15 PM |
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nicrae
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I am so sorry!
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Posted 6/23/07 5:33 PM |
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dooodles
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Re: bad news...I'm devastated
I am so very sorry for your loss
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