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sleepie76
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(BFN) a positive post
ok, so AF arrived today. But every month, I try to think of a positive thing about not getting pregnant that month. It helps me from being sad.
I think we should all list a positive post if you got a BFN this month! Come on, you can do it!
I'll start with 2:
1) I can drink at thanksgiving and not have to duck the 'why aren't you drinking?" questions. 
2) I can be more proactive and figure out what is going on with my body
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jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
those are good positives....if i get a BFN...
1. Ditto on the drinking for the holiday
2. Not shaving my legs for a few days...
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| Posted 11/19/08 12:53 PM |
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HomeIsWithU
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Jenn
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
I think this is a great idea! I'll be joining in if I get my BFN this weekend.
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| Posted 11/19/08 12:53 PM |
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MetsGirl07
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Deanna
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
what a great idea!! i probably need this!!
well for one.. i am going to Aruba  next month for our anniversary... so i will be able to drink!!!
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| Posted 11/19/08 12:54 PM |
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wants2bmommy
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
can bd more this month!!!!
can actually hit a club to go dancing!!
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| Posted 11/19/08 12:54 PM |
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sleepie76
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
Posted by MetsGirl07
what a great idea!! i probably need this!!
well for one.. i am going to Aruba next month for our anniversary... so i will be able to drink!!!
Glad to see you join girl!!!
Oh, that is an EXCELLENT positive btw!!
make sure you go on the kukoo kanuku drinking tour!!!
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| Posted 11/19/08 12:56 PM |
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lolipep
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Lori
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
i'll play 
but can I steal your drinking at Thanksgiving one cause I'm hosting for the first time this year and i'm sure i will need a drink
2. more BD
3. we get to stay on this board another month ( not that I'd leave
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| Posted 11/19/08 12:58 PM |
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MetsGirl07
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Deanna
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
Posted by sleepie76
Posted by MetsGirl07
what a great idea!! i probably need this!!
well for one.. i am going to Aruba next month for our anniversary... so i will be able to drink!!!
Glad to see you join girl!!!
Oh, that is an EXCELLENT positive btw!!
make sure you go on the kukoo kanuku drinking tour!!!
wow..thanks for that tip!! so it was really fun??!! i was looking at that!
and yea its a great positive.. i just have to keep my mind focused on that!!
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| Posted 11/19/08 1:06 PM |
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Linda1003
love my 2 boys
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
Posted by MetsGirl07
Posted by sleepie76
Posted by MetsGirl07
what a great idea!! i probably need this!!
well for one.. i am going to Aruba next month for our anniversary... so i will be able to drink!!!
Glad to see you join girl!!!
Oh, that is an EXCELLENT positive btw!!
make sure you go on the kukoo kanuku drinking tour!!!
wow..thanks for that tip!! so it was really fun??!! i was looking at that!
and yea its a great positive.. i just have to keep my mind focused on that!!
went to aruba for out honeymoon in oct..the kukoo bus is AMAZING!!!! ITS A MUST!!!!
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| Posted 11/19/08 1:08 PM |
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MaMaTeenie
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Mommy
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
1. I can drink at the friedns wedding to I am going to this weekend and not have to duck the why aren't you drinking questions, oh and don't forget the drunk sex (sorry TMI)
2. I wont have to celebrate 2 of my childrens birthdays on or about the same day
3. I can stop on my way to school tonight and get a big hot cup of regular coffee
4. There will be a lot of BD'ing happening around here (again, sorry tmi)
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| Posted 11/19/08 1:16 PM |
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
I got AF last week - here are some positives I took away from it:
I don't have to share my birthday  (the EDD would have been my birthday)
I can have some nice wine on Thanksgiving
If it happens next month, it would be nice to tell our families on Christmas
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| Posted 11/19/08 1:16 PM |
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MetsGirl07
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Deanna
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
Posted by Linda1003
Posted by MetsGirl07
Posted by sleepie76
Posted by MetsGirl07
what a great idea!! i probably need this!!
well for one.. i am going to Aruba next month for our anniversary... so i will be able to drink!!!
Glad to see you join girl!!!
Oh, that is an EXCELLENT positive btw!!
make sure you go on the kukoo kanuku drinking tour!!!
wow..thanks for that tip!! so it was really fun??!! i was looking at that!
and yea its a great positive.. i just have to keep my mind focused on that!!
went to aruba for out honeymoon in oct..the kukoo bus is AMAZING!!!! ITS A MUST!!!!
awesome!! ok. so thats 2 recomendations!! thanks girls!!
sorry , just realized i hijacked the thread.. continue on !!!
positive thoughts!! 
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| Posted 11/19/08 1:17 PM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
I'll just add two things that I love and won't have to limit/stop if I'm not pregnant this month...
COFFEE and SUSHI!
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| Posted 11/19/08 1:19 PM |
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chelle
It's a Good Life
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
1. I will be able to enjoy mine and DH's night ALONE (minus baby) at Mohegan
2. Cocktailing during the holiday
ETA - Sushi...yes...I have to add this one too
Message edited 11/19/2008 1:58:31 PM.
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| Posted 11/19/08 1:32 PM |
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4PsInaPod
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D
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
Can I play even though I'm still in 2WW....
Mine would be:
1) I don't have to give up coffee just yet
2) Drinking at Thanksgiving! lol Since I have new love with red wine after Italy.
3) Along the lines of drinking....I can dodge the "why aren't you drinking questions"
4) I don't have to worry about the 2WW for awhile
& umm #5......we get to BD like crazy again!
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| Posted 11/19/08 1:40 PM |
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Sassyz75
Turning a new page
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Dina
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
1) I can go out after Twilight with my BFF and grab a drink (yippie)!
2) I can possibly have a baby closer to winter (god willing) when my DH is home a lot as it is his slow season.
3) I think I finally got my doctor's ear.
4) at least I ovulated this cycle.
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| Posted 11/19/08 1:49 PM |
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Sassyz75
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
Posted by maybeamommy
I'll just add two things that I love and won't have to limit/stop if I'm not pregnant this month...
COFFEE and SUSHI!
heck yeah!!!
I don't know how'll I'll even SURVIVE without coffee.
It was OK w/ DD but now that coffee is a vital part of my parenting- i'm not sure how I'll do it!
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| Posted 11/19/08 1:50 PM |
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CoutureMaMa
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
Posted by RyansMama
1. I can drink at the friedns wedding to I am going to this weekend and not have to duck the why aren't you drinking questions, oh and don't forget the drunk sex (sorry TMI)
2. I wont have to celebrate 2 of my childrens birthdays on or about the same day
3. I can stop on my way to school tonight and get a big hot cup of regular coffee
4. There will be a lot of BD'ing happening around here (again, sorry tmi)
u cant drink regular coffee when TTC? I drink coffee everyday. a medium coffee...???  
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| Posted 11/19/08 3:50 PM |
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kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son
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Kelly
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
!) Don't have to worry about morning sickness hitting me while I'm driving for 6 1/2 hours to VA next week.
2) I can have a drink when I get there
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| Posted 11/19/08 7:51 PM |
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TCOMF09
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Laura
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
What a GREAT idea!!!!
DH & I are taking the month off from TTCing - soooo....I'll be a BFN this month
1. Can enjoy the holidays without stressing over every little thing - wondering WHAT IF?
2. Can work on losing the 20lbs I gained since starting TTC! 
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| Posted 11/19/08 7:58 PM |
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shelby34
Love being a twin mommy!
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Re: (BFN) a positive post
I agree with both of those positives! Thanks for sharing....that is really helpful
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