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MrsYank
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Blended family question

Long story short- my parents split up when I was around 10. When I was 15 (30 now), my mom started dating "Joe" and they have been together ever since. They aren't married- and will probably never get married- kinda like Stedmond and Oprah Chat Icon

Anyway, my Dad (who I was extremely close with) passed away when I was 21. To my nieces and nephews he was "Grandpa".

I love "Joe" and despite the fact that him and my mom aren't married I do consider him part of the family. My mom mentioned if DD should call him Grandpa (she is called Grandma by his grandkids) ...

I don't feel comfortable with her calling him Grandpa but I am not opposed to her calling him something else- but I can't think of what to call him! Basically as much as we care for him he's NOT my dad and I don't want my Dad to be forgotten if that makes any sense.

Sorry I am rambling lol - any suggestions?

Message edited 12/19/2010 5:03:07 PM.

Posted 12/19/10 5:02 PM
 
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Calla
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Re: Blended family question

What about Poppy or Pops?

Posted 12/19/10 5:09 PM
 

MamaB17
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Re: Blended family question

DD calls my dad Pop Pop

Posted 12/19/10 5:13 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: Blended family question

How about Poppa Joe?

My FIL Is Poppa George to his grandkids!

Posted 12/19/10 5:42 PM
 

heathergirl
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Re: Blended family question

My MIL's boyfriend is Poppy Chat Icon

Posted 12/19/10 6:07 PM
 

nov04libride
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Re: Blended family question

GranJoe? Though that's hard to sayChat Icon

Posted 12/19/10 6:21 PM
 

TnJ2007
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Re: Blended family question

mine and my sister's DC call my dad Papa.

Posted 12/19/10 6:23 PM
 

NinaLemon
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Re: Blended family question

These are names used in our families:
PaPa
PopPop
Poppy


I just found this list online:
traditional grandfather names
Banfy
Banpa
Banpy
Bappa
Bappy
Beebaw
BoBo
BooBoo, Boo
Boompa
Boppa, Bop
Da
Da Pa
DaPaw
Drampa
Drampaw
G
Gampa
Gamps
Gampy
Ganpa
G-pa
Gram
Grampa, Grampaw
Gramps
Grampy
Gran
Grand
Granda
Grandad
Grandaddy
Grandiddy
Grandgramp
Grandpappy
Granpap
Granpappy
Granpop
Granpoppa
Gumpa
Gumpy
Gwampa
Pa
Pampa, PamPawPap
PaPa
PapPap
Papps
Pappy
PawPaw
PawPee
PeePaw
Pop
Poppa
PopPop
Poppy, Popi
Pops
Popsi


Posted 12/19/10 6:32 PM
 

dawnygirl25
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Re: Blended family question

Posted by Tilde

How about Poppa Joe?




I like this!

Posted 12/19/10 8:02 PM
 

BellaRock
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Re: Blended family question

Posted by dawnygirl25

Posted by Tilde

How about Poppa Joe?




I like this!



Ditto.

Posted 12/19/10 10:25 PM
 

jlk51496
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Re: Blended family question

Posted by BellaRock

Posted by dawnygirl25

Posted by Tilde

How about Poppa Joe?




I like this!



Ditto.



agreed

Posted 12/20/10 7:19 AM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Blended family question

Papa Joe.

I have a friend who has almost the exact situation except her mom is married to him (even has the same name).

Her kids call him papa joe and it is so cuteChat Icon

Posted 12/20/10 8:46 AM
 

MrsYank
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Mrs. Yank

Re: Blended family question

I was thinking of the whole Papa thing- thank you everyone Chat Icon

Posted 12/20/10 8:53 AM
 
 

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