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Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

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MommyX3
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Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

Pics in album. Wedding is black tie optional but is at 11 am on a Sunday so I dot think a long gown is appropriate but is this too casual? My husband is a groomsmen so will be in a tux. Tia! Also would a one shoulder dress be appropriate at a conservative/ modern orthodox Jewish wedding? Thanks!

Posted 8/12/13 10:31 PM
 
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Ayne11
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Re: Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

Technically, I think your shoulders should be covered. I could be wrong.

Posted 8/12/13 10:33 PM
 

MommyX3
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Re: Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

Thanks! Is this the kind of thing where I can wear a shawl during the ceremony and then take it off? I honestly have no idea!

Spoke to hubby and they are conservative, not orthodox. Thanks!

Message edited 8/12/2013 10:48:59 PM.

Posted 8/12/13 10:35 PM
 

SeaWolf14
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Re: Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

IMO I think it looks a little to casual for a wedding that they're marketing as "black tie optional" - I think b/c the top is a different color than the bottom it gives the appearance of just being a skirt & blouse. I'd wear something like a simple sheath, etc.

Posted 8/12/13 11:04 PM
 

MommyX3
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Re: Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

Yeah that's what I was thinking, I just didn't want to buy a new dress :/. Thanks for the feedback!

Posted 8/12/13 11:08 PM
 

BlessedMomma
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Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

Im sorry i think thats too casual. Its not even a cocktail dress. I would def wear a very dressy cocktail dress. Blacktie optional no matter if its a sunday is dressy and your husband is a groomsman.

Posted 8/13/13 1:27 AM
 

MorningCuppaCoffee
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Re: Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

I think it's casual looking, as well.

I know you said you didn't want to buy a new dress, but you should check out Macy's. They have very classic styles for $100 or less. In fact, I think my last dress I got there was around $60. They had a rack of dresses that were priced that low, every day.

I went to a conservative Jewish black tie wedding and wore a long black gown, with the top similar to the dress you have on.

They gave all the ladies white pashminas to wear during the ceremony.

Posted 8/13/13 4:47 AM
 

jellybelly79
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Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

pretty but way too casual

Posted 8/13/13 8:07 AM
 

JennZ
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Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

Def not. Looks more saturday night out with girlfriends, than black tie optional.

Posted 8/13/13 8:11 AM
 

Kitten1929
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Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

Way too casual.

Posted 8/13/13 8:25 AM
 

MommyX3
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Re: Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

Thanks :) I think it is a little dressier in person but nonetheless I agree it's too casual. Dress shopping I go!

Posted 8/13/13 9:19 AM
 

MarisaK
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Re: Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

I think it would work if it were all black .......and what's up w/ a "black tie optional' rule for a Sunday morning wedding???
IMHO I wouldn't be dressing up 'black time optional' for a Sunday morning - appropriate is one thing, but I'd never wear what I'd wear to a Friday or Saturday evening wedding on a Sunday morning .....

Posted 8/13/13 10:56 AM
 

alli3131
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Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

I would not wear it. I tend to see dresses similar to that worn for a night on the town and not for a formal event.

Posted 8/13/13 11:12 AM
 

EricaAlt
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Re: Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

As others said... it's too casual. Get something a bit more dressy and remember I'm sure you'll be in lots of pics since your DH is also in the wedding.
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Posted 8/13/13 11:16 AM
 

twobabies
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Re: Can I wear this to a black tie optional wedding?

Posted by JennZ

Def not. Looks more saturday night out with girlfriends, than black tie optional.



agreed, but cool outfit for a night out!

Posted 8/13/13 12:32 PM
 
 

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