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KarenAnthony
Baby Girl Coming in May!!!
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Can't stop crying today...need hugs
My friend called me to tell me some big news...she is 14 weeks pregnant. I know this doesn't change my situation, but i was in a good place and hearing her good news has done nothing but made me cry...the thought of having to see her this summer pregnant and hear her complain about her weight, is making me sick. This particular friend told me about 4 months ago that she really thinks she doesn't want any more kids.....so apparantly this was a "whoops", and she said her dh isn't happy about it. Personally i don't believe in "whoops". I'm just so irritated because even though i wasn't trying that long before i conceived, having a second child is something that i i wanted for for a REALLY long time now. but my husband made me wait until he got his new business off the ground. My DS is turning 3 this month, and i just can't believe i'm not pregnant. I feel like everyone i know has two kids by now, or is currently preggo with number two.
And to top it off, i can't do anything right now to even give me hopes of getting a bfp. I was told to wait two cycles before trying...and cycle number one hasn't even come yet. Not to mention i have the longest cycles EVER.
OK, done venting. Back to crying i go.
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Posted 4/29/11 1:24 PM  |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
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Re: Can't stop crying today...need hugs
I'm so sorry sweetheart!!! 
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| Posted 4/29/11 1:39 PM |
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PrettyPeonies
GAW my baby boy <3
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Pino
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Re: Can't stop crying today...need hugs
let it out & get it out! We are here if you need anything!
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| Posted 4/29/11 2:42 PM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!
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Diana
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Re: Can't stop crying today...need hugs
I think it's healthy to cry. Let it out. Cry, scream, do what you need to do. It always makes me feel better.
Lots and lots of hugs!
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| Posted 4/29/11 2:43 PM |
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Re: Can't stop crying today...need hugs
 I have been crying all day too. I learned of another pregnant friend as well. And this one has a 10 month old! I cannot believe that I've been trying since she was preggo with #1 and she is now preggo again. It only reminds me of how long this road has been and it's not over yet.
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| Posted 4/29/11 3:22 PM |
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shazza211
My life is complete
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Sharon
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Re: Can't stop crying today...need hugs
I also found out today about a co-worker who is having DC #3 and I am sad to say I was envious...I couldn't help but feel sad and jealous at the same time. So here's a. I understand.
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| Posted 4/29/11 9:17 PM |
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prunepie
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jennifer
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Re: Can't stop crying today...need hugs
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| Posted 4/29/11 10:10 PM |
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KarenAnthony
Baby Girl Coming in May!!!
Member since 10/07 3031 total posts
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Karen
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Re: Can't stop crying today...need hugs
thanks everyone. Today is a little better, i think as long as i don't see this friend for a while it will help. I'm going to just have to tell her i need a little time, especially because we would have our due dates a week apart, that makes it extra hard.
So sorry for others also going through this too..it really is so hard.
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| Posted 4/30/11 5:52 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Can't stop crying today...need hugs
I am so sorry
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| Posted 5/2/11 11:55 AM |
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Pomegranate5
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Re: Can't stop crying today...need hugs
I'm so sorry.
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| Posted 5/2/11 12:01 PM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
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Re: Can't stop crying today...need hugs
after my mc, my first reaction to this kind of news was also to cry. you aren't alone.
I'm so sorry. it will pass and eventually you will be OK with it.
and your time will come again.
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| Posted 5/2/11 1:52 PM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
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Kerri
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Re: Can't stop crying today...need hugs
Posted by SeptemberBride03
I have been crying all day too. I learned of another pregnant friend as well. And this one has a 10 month old! I cannot believe that I've been trying since she was preggo with #1 and she is now preggo again. It only reminds me of how long this road has been and it's not over yet.
this same story happened to me. i have a friend who was pregnant. I then got pregnant and we were pregnant at the same time. At the time of my mc she was having her baby. then not even 6 months later she was pregnant AGAIN with a 2nd baby and I was still TTC again. I hadn't even had 1 successful pregnancy and she was on her 2nd. it was hard for me. I did cry over it, i admit that. She just had her baby girl a month ago. And now I'm finally pregnant again and due in 2 months.
your story just reminded me of this situation. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I've def been there. Just keep trying.
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| Posted 5/2/11 1:57 PM |
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mrsyoungmommy
can't wait to meet Sophia!
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Danielle
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| Posted 5/2/11 7:12 PM |
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missle32
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