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Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
my husband and I were talking about the whole Chris Brown/Rihanna abuse situation and he brought up Michael Vick.
whether we thought it was enough time notwithstanding, Michael Vic was given a pretty stiff sentence (serving jail time etc) for what he did to those animals.
Chris Brown's sentence of community service for beating, biting, and choking Rihanna will be arranged so it doesn't interfere with his work schedule.
I hadn't thought to compare the two before...but there is something about this that sticks in my craw.
do we have more compassion for animals victimized by abusers than we do for women? is that what this is saying?
or are the two somehow different enough that they cannot be compared?
I want to believe in the latter, but something in me thinks the former has more to do with it than I would like in this day and age.
what are your thoughts?
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Posted 8/27/09 11:54 AM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
sadly, i think the latter is more true, and I also believe that "celebrities" receive special treatment that allow them to get off easier than others. But, and my hunch is that case files would back me up, crimes involving violence against women receive lesser punishments than other equivalent crimes.
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Posted 8/27/09 11:57 AM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
While an animal can cause more damage with its teeth, I still feel like animals are more defenseless than humans. You can repeatedly abuse an animal and they have no recourse. At least a person can choose to go to the police, file charges, and leave on their own will (unless kept hostage, which is not the case with most domestic abuse). BOTH forms of abuse are horrible and I'm sure it is so hard for a woman to leave this type of situation. But in most causes she has the ability to leave and fight back. An animal doesn't.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:02 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
Posted by glinda-goodwitch
While an animal can cause more damage with its teeth, I still feel like animals are more defenseless than humans. You can repeatedly abuse an animal and they have no recourse. At least a person can choose to go to the police, file charges, and leave on their own will (unless kept hostage, which is not the case with most domestic abuse). BOTH forms of abuse are horrible and I'm sure it is so hard for a woman to leave this type of situation. But in most causes she has the ability to leave and fight back. An animal doesn't.
100% AGREE.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:05 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
Posted by glinda-goodwitch
While an animal can cause more damage with its teeth, I still feel like animals are more defenseless than humans. You can repeatedly abuse an animal and they have no recourse. At least a person can choose to go to the police, file charges, and leave on their own will (unless kept hostage, which is not the case with most domestic abuse). BOTH forms of abuse are horrible and I'm sure it is so hard for a woman to leave this type of situation. But in most causes she has the ability to leave and fight back. An animal doesn't.
Very well said and exactly what I was thinking.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:06 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
i hate that celebrities (athletes, actors/actresses, and politicians) often get lesser sentences than the average person would get. it's not fair and i don't think it sends good signals to our youth.
that being said --- i personally believe that violence against humans should be more harshly punished than violence against animals.
i hadn't thought to compare the two either - but now that you bring it up, i actually think the difference in punishments is pretty OUTRAGEOUS
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Posted 8/27/09 12:10 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
Posted by glinda-goodwitch
While an animal can cause more damage with its teeth, I still feel like animals are more defenseless than humans. You can repeatedly abuse an animal and they have no recourse. At least a person can choose to go to the police, file charges, and leave on their own will (unless kept hostage, which is not the case with most domestic abuse). BOTH forms of abuse are horrible and I'm sure it is so hard for a woman to leave this type of situation. But in most causes she has the ability to leave and fight back. An animal doesn't.
This is very much along the lines of how I see it, so I compare Vick's crime more to child abuse than domestic violence. There's a one-sided power imbalance INHERENT in his crime, that is mitigated in the Brown/Rihanna case. While Brown is a complete d-bag lowlife for the way he beat her, she does have access to safety, counseling, and the court system. Children/animals need the law and the legal system to fight on their behalf. Both cases are tragic examples of inhumanity though.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:11 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
For whatever reason, I am not sure what it is, I think professional athletes are judged more harshly in these cases, whatever the crime might be. I think maybe it's because they are usually stronger and can overpower victims more easily than an average man, and for that they are held to a higher standard. I don't agree with this, I just wonder about it.
I also think in these 2 particular cases, from what I remember, the Vick case involved more than one dog and a whole pattern of abuse, where the Chris Brown case involved one person. Perhaps that is why the penalty was stricter.
I know this may not be a popular opinion on this board, but for me, abuse of a person always trumps abuse of an animal. But each case has its own factors to consider, its own jury deliberating, and its own set of laws, depending on the location of the trial, so I guess in the end, it's always apples and oranges to some extent.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:11 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
Beth, I understand what you are saying.
but I am talking about the aftermath...what happens to an ABUSER once he is caught.
Rihanna DID get the police...and this is what he got for what he did to her.
my point is, the LAW treated Michael Vick more harshly. why?
and why do we as people suppose that anything is more or less defenseless when it comes to an abuser? I think that puts too much onus on the abused.
both instances come from a position of trust. the pet trusting the "owner"...and one partner trusting another. and then it's slowly taken advantage of. taken away.
a grown dog can do a lot more physical damage to a man than a woman can (of course, I am not talking about a chihuahua here) if it wanted to fight back.
I think it's unfair to say that a woman can do more.
I think anyone that absues ANYthing is equally heinous.
I don't know....it's just tough for me to swallow I guess.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:13 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
Chris Brown should definitely be sitting in jail right now. What he did, IMHO, was worse.
Michael Vick is a monster. Chris Brown could have killed her.
We are the country who honored Roman Polanski with the highest award in films though. So nothing surprises me.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:15 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
There are lots of legal things that astonish me. How someone who kills someone while driving drunk gets like 4 years of jail. How's that not a life-sentence when they ended someone else's life? The man who hit DaniRella's brother, what was his sentence? Ridiculously low....how??? When her brother was nearly killed? Sexual predators who forever scar the lives of children and other adults-- some of their sentences are appauling.
ITA with you, with these cases you mention as well as LOTS of others.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:23 PM |
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Beth
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
I feel like people were more outraged over Micheal Vick...even him being allowed back in the NFL
no one is saying Chris Brown should loss his record deal
I don't get it
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Posted 8/27/09 12:28 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
Posted by Ophelia
Beth, I understand what you are saying.
but I am talking about the aftermath...what happens to an ABUSER once he is caught.
Rihanna DID get the police...and this is what he got for what he did to her.
my point is, the LAW treated Michael Vick more harshly. why?
and why do we as people suppose that anything is more or less defenseless when it comes to an abuser? I think that puts too much onus on the abused.
both instances come from a position of trust. the pet trusting the "owner"...and one partner trusting another. and then it's slowly taken advantage of. taken away.
a grown dog can do a lot more physical damage to a man than a woman can (of course, I am not talking about a chihuahua here) if it wanted to fight back.
I think it's unfair to say that a woman can do more.
I think anyone that absues ANYthing is equally heinous.
I don't know....it's just tough for me to swallow I guess.
I guess what I'm saying is that a woman a woman can do more AFTER a fight to ensure that she never gets abused again. A dog doesn't have that option.
Now specifically in Michael Vick's case:
He abused MANY animals for the purpose of making money. It's not like he beat his pet dog (which would be horrible enough). He had a whole operation going on.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:32 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
Interesting question.
I think Chris Brown is worse. Not to get the animal lovers up in arms, but people - human beings - should always come first, which makes Chris Brown's crime the bigger offense.
By the same token, how can we blame Michael Vick for his cruelty to animals when the Chris Browns of the world treat people the way they do? If you can't treat the woman you love with basic decency how in the he l l can you expect someone to treat an animal properly.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:32 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
There are so many external factors involved in cases like this that you really just can't compare the two.
Were they both tried in the same court? Same state? Were they both in federal court? State court? What were the actual charges? What were the plea deals? What ADMISSIBLE evidence was available in each case?
We obviously can only make judgments based on what we have seen / heard in the news -- but what a jury can see in court and what is actual, admissible evidence determining the strength or weakness of a case can be VERY, VERY different from what we see / hear on the news.
I think it's easy to just look at the criminal behavior on one hand and the ultimate punishment on the other -- but it's just not that simple a comparison in reality.
And I think they're both dirt bags.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:36 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
Posted by Ophelia
Beth, I understand what you are saying.
but I am talking about the aftermath...what happens to an ABUSER once he is caught.
Rihanna DID get the police...and this is what he got for what he did to her.
my point is, the LAW treated Michael Vick more harshly. why?
and why do we as people suppose that anything is more or less defenseless when it comes to an abuser? I think that puts too much onus on the abused.
both instances come from a position of trust. the pet trusting the "owner"...and one partner trusting another. and then it's slowly taken advantage of. taken away.
a grown dog can do a lot more physical damage to a man than a woman can (of course, I am not talking about a chihuahua here) if it wanted to fight back.
I think it's unfair to say that a woman can do more.
I think anyone that absues ANYthing is equally heinous.
I don't know....it's just tough for me to swallow I guess.
unfortunately the laws are not strict enough regarding domestic violence. I work in the field and have seen cases far worse then Chris Brown get pled down to a violation because the victim does not cooperate with the DA and they do not have a case to prosecute to the fullest extent of the law , or they have no prior record , or the case gets adjourned for months to years before trial and therefore some witnesses back out, inaccurate reporting of the crime , no 911 tape ....I could go on and on...
It's sad , but in the counties I work in ,you can beat your wife/husband/partner and " get away with it"
I still think what Vick did is worse just because the victim is helpless and domestic violence victims can ( in theory )help their situation more then helpless animals. They can leave and go into a shelter, call the police ,ect. It is much more complex in most domestic violence cases then to "just leave him" especailly when there are children envolved , but it is possible .
Both are disgusting crimes where the perp enjoys being in power and control but I could not work with people who abuse animals or children. Its bad enough I have to be objective with with domestic violence perps, but I cannot stomach animal/child abuse .
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Posted 8/27/09 12:41 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
They are both monsters to me.
I think Chris Brown should have received a harsher punishment but unfortunately with doesmtic violence it doesnt get taken to the severe level of punishment until someone dies. Its the sad truth. And just to add its not so easy for a woman to just get up and leave so it doesnt happen again. To me they are just as defenseless
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Posted 8/27/09 12:43 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
One other thing I wanted to add -- we shouldn't deduct from these two cases that there are stricter laws or stricter penalties generally for abusing animals than for abusing people. Animal cruelty laws are RARELY properly enforced and the actual punishments available are usually not very strict.
Additionally, Vick was also charged with federal conspiracy charges, which carry hefty penalties and sentences. So again, his punishment had less to do with the animal end of things and more to do with the charges that fit his overall behavior -- and the laws he was charged under (federal as opposed to state).
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Posted 8/27/09 12:48 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
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They are both monsters to me.
I think Chris Brown should have received a harsher punishment but unfortunately with doesmtic violence it doesnt get taken to the severe level of punishment until someone dies. Its the sad truth. And just to add its not so easy for a woman to just get up and leave so it doesnt happen again. To me they are just as defenseless
I agree...unless you have ever been in that situation- you really can't stay a woman isn't as helpless
Rhiana was less helpless then the average victim...she has money and options to hire body gaurds etc
most don't and the police can't do anything until it's too late
it happend right here on LI recently - she did all she could and still ended up murdered
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Posted 8/27/09 12:51 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
Posted by Kara
One other thing I wanted to add -- we shouldn't deduct from these two cases that there are stricter laws or stricter penalties generally for abusing animals than for abusing people. Animal cruelty laws are RARELY properly enforced and the actual punishments available are usually not very strict.
Additionally, Vick was also charged with federal conspiracy charges, which carry hefty penalties and sentences. So again, his punishment had less to do with the animal end of things and more to do with the charges that fit his overall behavior -- and the laws he was charged under (federal as opposed to state).
I get all of this.
I guess it's just the general idea. most people don't know (or care) about anything you pointed out (doesn't make it any less relevant....it's just most people don't have a need to know this stuff, you know)
so someone like my husband...who is relatively smart and educated, can use what he sees as an everyday person to deduce that we as a people punish animal abusers more harshly than we do spousal abusers.
I guess that is my point. the general sentiment that is conveys...more than the legal/technical stuff that people "in the know" know, you know?
what you take from this is :Michael Vick abuses animals and is involved in dog fighting and does hard time.
Chris Brown beats, chokes, and threatens his girl friends life and will have to remove graffitti from the walls of Va. when he's not on tour, making movies, promoting an album, or otherwise living a fabu life.
and people got mad that Vick was allowed to play football once he was finished?????? up in arms about that, after he had SERVED.
Brown has his "service" revolve around HIS schedule.
it's a scary message, IMO, to put out there.
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Posted 8/27/09 12:54 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
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Posted by Sash
They are both monsters to me.
I think Chris Brown should have received a harsher punishment but unfortunately with doesmtic violence it doesnt get taken to the severe level of punishment until someone dies. Its the sad truth. And just to add its not so easy for a woman to just get up and leave so it doesnt happen again. To me they are just as defenseless
I agree...unless you have ever been in that situation- you really can't stay a woman isn't as helpless
I am NOT saying it's easy to leave. I'm simply saying that any HUMAN (man or woman) has the ability to leave and go to the police, press charges, etc. Whether it is repeated abuse, or a one time assault. They have communication, rational thought...things that an animal does not have. Each human being is in ownership of his or her own body, and has rights protecting it. Animals are considered property and don't have these rights. And even if they did, how could they possibly fight for them?
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Posted 8/27/09 1:20 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
Posted by glinda-goodwitch
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Posted by Sash
They are both monsters to me.
I think Chris Brown should have received a harsher punishment but unfortunately with doesmtic violence it doesnt get taken to the severe level of punishment until someone dies. Its the sad truth. And just to add its not so easy for a woman to just get up and leave so it doesnt happen again. To me they are just as defenseless
I agree...unless you have ever been in that situation- you really can't stay a woman isn't as helpless
I am NOT saying it's easy to leave. I'm simply saying that any HUMAN (man or woman) has the ability to leave and go to the police, press charges, etc. Whether it is repeated abuse, or a one time assault. They have communication, rational thought...things that an animal does not have. Each human being is in ownership of his or her own body, and has rights protecting it. Animals are considered property and don't have these rights. And even if they did, how could they possibly fight for them?
since you quoted me I will respond. Ok physically people have the ability to walk away, you are right on that point. But to me its not so cut and dry as you posted. Its the emotional fear and abuse that prevents them. And even after many finally got the courage to walk away, they still ended up dead. these examples make it harder for a person to leave.
ETA: I also feel the minimal laws and protection are also a factor in going to the authorites. And much to what Ophelia is trying to say, its the message we send across that makes this behaviour more common and make these victims powerless.
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Posted 8/27/09 1:25 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
The guy the other day that killed his wife.... That reality star on VH1.....
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Posted 8/27/09 1:29 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
Without quoting everything, I think Ophelia and others make some really good points. I'm having trouble comparing the two- women and animals can both become helpless in different ways. What Vick did was horrible... What Chris Brown did is horrible. But until reading this, I didn't make that connection- noone has a problem with Brown continuing to work, no question about his contract.
Also.. I believe Brown's apology even less now that it came out that there was a history of violence on his part, and that he felt it would be appropriate to party after his sentencing. His sentence was pathetic IMO.
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Posted 8/27/09 1:51 PM |
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Re: Chris Brown vs. Michael Vick...which is the lesser evil?
I really don't want anyone to think I condone what Chris Brown did. I think it is inexcusable, and he is a horrible person. I was just trying to give the reason why I think people are generally harder on Michael Vick. Also, I would never want anyone to think that I trivialize domestic violence. I know it is a horrible thing and it is never black and white.
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Posted 8/27/09 2:12 PM |
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