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SecretTTC2010
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Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

My DH's has a friend who he barely speaks to he lives in Las Vegas and is more of a hi from facebook these days then anything else. They have never been close just a someone in a group of friends. Well this friend sent us a Christmas card we got it a couple of days ago and I had already sent out my Christmas cards and did not include him I send over 50 cards and he is not a close friend or family and I do not send to everyone I ever met. Well he sends my DH and about 5 other "friends" an email saying how he is sending this out to people he sent Christmas cards to who he has not received one back from. He said in the email I have moved this year but sent my address to everyone so I did expect cards. He made it clear we still have time to send a card and he then says and for the record here is my address again.

Who does this? My DH has not seen or really spoken to this person since our wedding in October 2009. This person was invited because the whole group of friends were invited so we sent an invite not sure if he would come from Vegas but the guy said he would see all his friends at once so he came. He did not even give us a card for our wedding. That is besides the point though. I could not believe he actually sent out an email requesting Christmas cards from people who he did not get one back from.

Do I send him a card? I really do not want to I think this was just so tacky and lame.

Posted 12/23/10 11:36 AM
 
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heathergirl
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

I would ignore it. Sounds immature.

Posted 12/23/10 11:43 AM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

That is hysterical! Who does that?

In any case, I would mail him a card. It appears it is important to him so if that is all he needs to put the merry in his Christmas, then so be it.

Posted 12/23/10 11:43 AM
 

GoldenRod
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

Posted by heathergirl

I would ignore it. Sounds immature.



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Posted 12/23/10 11:45 AM
 

cateyemm
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

i'd mail him a card then ignore him until next christmas

Posted 12/23/10 11:48 AM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

What a loser.
Who keeps track?
Really?

It sounds like an email you'd get at work...
"We are sending this email out to all of those who have not yet submitted their timesheets..."
Or something like that.

What the heck???

Posted 12/23/10 11:58 AM
 

PearlJamChick
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

There's so much fun stuff to do in and around Vegas and this jerk is worried about receiving a Christmas card?

Bwahahahahahahahahaha

Posted 12/23/10 11:59 AM
 

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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

Message edited 11/27/2011 11:54:33 AM.

Posted 12/23/10 12:07 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

Posted by imthekevinofcindyandkevin

I DEMAND A CARD FROM EVERYONE ON LIF!!!

WHETHER YOU KNOW ME IRL OR NOT.
WHETHER YOU HAVE MY ADDRESS OR NOT.

I DON'T CARE HOW YOU DO IT!
JUST GET IT DONE!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!



Make sure you keep track and send a daily FM to the people who have not yet sent it too!

Posted 12/23/10 12:11 PM
 

DGoldfarb0776
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

I would just be lmao on that one- very immature imo and I would just ignore it.

Posted 12/23/10 12:14 PM
 

HeatherRose
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

who does that! do not send him a card. Chat Icon

Posted 12/23/10 12:14 PM
 

Celt
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

What a twerp. I'd probably send him a card, and here's what I'd do... Take a nativity scene with Mary, Joseph and Sweet Baby Jesus then stick a photo of his head over the infant's. Chat Icon

Posted 12/23/10 12:17 PM
 

SecretTTC2010
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

Posted by colette

What a twerp. I'd probably send him a card, and here's what I'd do... Take a nativity scene with Mary, Joseph and Sweet Baby Jesus then stick a photo of his head over the infant's. Chat Icon



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Posted 12/23/10 12:19 PM
 

DancinBarefoot
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

Posted by imthekevinofcindyandkevin

I DEMAND A CARD FROM EVERYONE ON LIF!!!

WHETHER YOU KNOW ME IRL OR NOT.
WHETHER YOU HAVE MY ADDRESS OR NOT.

I DON'T CARE HOW YOU DO IT!
JUST GET IT DONE!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!



If you FM me your addy I will mail you one. Chat Icon

Posted 12/23/10 12:21 PM
 

DancinBarefoot
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

Posted by DancinBarefoot

Posted by imthekevinofcindyandkevin

I DEMAND A CARD FROM EVERYONE ON LIF!!!

WHETHER YOU KNOW ME IRL OR NOT.
WHETHER YOU HAVE MY ADDRESS OR NOT.

I DON'T CARE HOW YOU DO IT!
JUST GET IT DONE!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!



If you FM me your addy I will mail you one. Chat Icon



Never mind - you're already on my Christmas card list!! I just haven't mailed them out yet!!

Posted 12/23/10 12:22 PM
 

FreeButterfly
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

Send him 5 cards now - one for this year and then the next 4 years....

Posted 12/23/10 12:45 PM
 

DirtyBlonde
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

a friend suggested your respond in this way:


You and your DH should send him back a card and inside write the following, "Attached is an email that DH received on mm/dd/yyyy. We just wanted to make you aware that some azzhole has hacked into your email account and is sending out these rude and obscene messages to your acquaintances.

Happy Holidays and all the best!"

Posted 12/23/10 1:14 PM
 

Kate
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

Posted by DirtyBlonde

a friend suggested your respond in this way:


You and your DH should send him back a card and inside write the following, "Attached is an email that DH received on mm/dd/yyyy. We just wanted to make you aware that some azzhole has hacked into your email account and is sending out these rude and obscene messages to your acquaintances.

Happy Holidays and all the best!"



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Posted 12/23/10 1:23 PM
 

DiamondGirl
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

Posted by DirtyBlonde

a friend suggested your respond in this way:


You and your DH should send him back a card and inside write the following, "Attached is an email that DH received on mm/dd/yyyy. We just wanted to make you aware that some azzhole has hacked into your email account and is sending out these rude and obscene messages to your acquaintances.

Happy Holidays and all the best!"

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Posted 12/23/10 1:24 PM
 

Celt
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

Posted by DirtyBlonde

a friend suggested your respond in this way:


You and your DH should send him back a card and inside write the following, "Attached is an email that DH received on mm/dd/yyyy. We just wanted to make you aware that some azzhole has hacked into your email account and is sending out these rude and obscene messages to your acquaintances.

Happy Holidays and all the best!"



FTW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I like this friend Chat Icon

Posted 12/23/10 1:38 PM
 

Ophelia
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

Posted by DirtyBlonde

a friend suggested your respond in this way:


You and your DH should send him back a card and inside write the following, "Attached is an email that DH received on mm/dd/yyyy. We just wanted to make you aware that some azzhole has hacked into your email account and is sending out these rude and obscene messages to your acquaintances.

Happy Holidays and all the best!"



I would seriously sleep with this friend.

Posted 12/23/10 1:50 PM
 

Peainapod
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

he sounds like a tool. who has time to rant about this stuff.

if it were me and DH, we would get a very special sarcastic or tasteless humor sort of card JUST FOR HIM and send it out.

Posted 12/23/10 1:52 PM
 

Mrs213
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

All the more reason to send him a card, now, or ever in the future. This guy has no life...

Posted 12/23/10 3:25 PM
 

Domino
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

I would send him a wedding card that said "Merry Christmas"

Posted 12/23/10 3:37 PM
 

NewYawkah
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Re: Christmas Card RANT..Rude Friend

I would send him a christmas card... then a hanukkah card... then a baby shower card... then a christening card... then valentine's day... see if you can find an Arbor day one while you're at it... and send one per day until you get tired of it.

Posted 12/23/10 4:07 PM
 
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