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MrsGoldie
<3 Miracles can happen <3
Member since 9/12 1700 total posts
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Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I'm a testaholic so I knew it anyway  I just absolutely do not understand even a little bit!!!!! I feel like I was punched in the stomach. I think I will scream if RE tells me he has no idea what happened! 2 "perfect" expanding blasts and 1 morula....nothing stuck...nothing. Took out a loan bc we are OOP for IVF. This was literally our last shot. My heart is broken...again. I don't know how to live a child free life, I don't know how to accept that. I can't.
I did everything right...Chinese herbs, micronized dhea, acupuncture, pineapple, kept warm, took off the whole week, relaxed all week, breathing exercises, visualization exercises, baby aspirin...WTF?????????? 
I'm so upset I'm numb. Don't really know where to go from here. The RN this morning said to go for my post IVF consult. She also told me not to give up and since I have IUI coverage to maybe stim like an IVF but do the IUI. I just don't know.
Thank you all for your support along the way xoxo. I wish you all the best of luck, and lots of baby dust to you!!!!
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Michelle1110
My family is complete
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
Goldie !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
I am so sorry hon. 
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| Posted 10/26/13 2:53 PM |
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ready2go
LIF Adult
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I am so sorry
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| Posted 10/26/13 3:01 PM |
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EnV-McC
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/10 885 total posts
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
My heart is so heavy for you right now. I'm so sorry.
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| Posted 10/26/13 3:44 PM |
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Melis2700
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/09 508 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I am so so sorry!! 
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| Posted 10/26/13 4:24 PM |
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babydreams21
LIF Adult
Member since 12/12 3656 total posts
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Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
None of this is fair. I am so sorry. The second IVF failure is definitely harder than the first- well for me anyways. Take a little break. The IUI idea might not be a bad idea. I have it in the back of my mind for my back up plan since IUIs are covered in full also. Hang in there.
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| Posted 10/26/13 4:46 PM |
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PhyllisNJoe
My Box Is Broken
Member since 6/11 9145 total posts
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I'm so sorry
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| Posted 10/26/13 4:57 PM |
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Lillies
Grateful for my babies!
Member since 2/12 4571 total posts
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
Oh Goldie.. sending you so many hugs.. so sorry
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| Posted 10/26/13 5:00 PM |
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Lillies
Grateful for my babies!
Member since 2/12 4571 total posts
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
Just putting it out there but have you looked into immune testing? It seems that you had great embies and I know nothing is promised with IVF but in my opinion, I am angry for you. I feel something should have stuck, especially if you had two good ones and you put back three. I think you should def go for the consult and see what more the Drs can recommend. I agree with the IUI case but I think you should look into immune testing just to see if that could be an issue. For some ladies, it was all they needed to get pregs.
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| Posted 10/26/13 5:05 PM |
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hoping2013
LIF Toddler
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Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I am so sorry....my heart is heavy for you. The pain of it all......
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| Posted 10/26/13 5:31 PM |
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ShhhTTCin11
3 under 3?!
Member since 5/11 2229 total posts
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Coleen
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Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I'm so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. I'd definitely go for the post ivf consult.
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| Posted 10/26/13 6:37 PM |
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Beachbaby2014
LIF Toddler
Member since 9/13 433 total posts
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Jenn
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
Im so sorry to hear your news, it's so hard after a BFN to imagine what to do next - so give yourself sometime and go to the post ivf consult. I know how hard this is but if you keep trying you will make it happen!! 
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| Posted 10/26/13 7:08 PM |
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jessnbrian
Only God knows His plan for us
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Jessica
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Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I am so sorry for you, I don't have the words.
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| Posted 10/26/13 7:19 PM |
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I am so so sorry!
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| Posted 10/26/13 7:42 PM |
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NYCGirl80
I love my kiddies!
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| Posted 10/26/13 8:15 PM |
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BabyBearA
LIF Adult
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Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I'm so sorry :(
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| Posted 10/26/13 9:02 PM |
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babyfever24
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| Posted 10/26/13 9:47 PM |
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Lala08
2 Princesses coming soon!
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
Oh Goldie I am so very sorry. I was really hopeful that you were going to have a positive beta. I think you should definitely have the consult and also try IUI again. I can't remember if you stimmed with injectibles for an IUI or not but maybe that is what will do it. I wish I had the words to make you feel better. You have been through so much and my heart just breaks for you. Please don't give up!
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| Posted 10/26/13 11:27 PM |
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AKD
LIF Adult
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I am somsorry and wish I had words that could make things better.
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| Posted 10/26/13 11:36 PM |
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Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I am so sorry. I agree go for immunological testing.
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| Posted 10/27/13 10:03 AM |
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starr
little whale on the way
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
 Omg I'm so very sorry. I really thought this was ur cycle.
Agree with some PP's regarding immune testing. It can't hurt at this point.
Don't give up completely tho
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| Posted 10/27/13 10:28 AM |
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APT910
Let It Be
Member since 2/11 5021 total posts
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Ashley
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I don't even know what to say. My heart breaks for you. If you need someone to talk to please FM.
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| Posted 10/27/13 12:11 PM |
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MrsTeacher1
LIF Infant
Member since 2/13 317 total posts
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I'm so sorry but please don't convince yourself that this is the end.
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| Posted 10/27/13 3:32 PM |
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ANewDayHasCome
Love multiplies, not divides
Member since 11/12 14481 total posts
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Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
I wasn't on this journey with you but I'm still so sorry! Just bc ivf hasn't worked doesn't mean you won't get pregnant....even on your own.
A woman I worked with went through 5-6 ivfs. One she even got preg and then at 14 weeks she miscarried. Dr told her she would never get preg with her eggs so the next ivf they used an egg donor. Had twin boys. Well 6 months after that they conceived, naturally and with her own eggs! She delivered another, biological son with no help!
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| Posted 10/27/13 4:30 PM |
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moonmist09
Thank you, St. Gerard!
Member since 2/11 5043 total posts
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Antonella
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Re: Confirmed...IVF #2 = BFN
i am so so very sorry!
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