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2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Maybe I am in the minority but I did not take her post as she been jealous of others. Maybe I am wrong. However, I hope her situationa improves for the better.
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KGools
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by nrthshgrl
I do count my blessings but I'm not with you. I feel like this is a backhanded post, if you will. While I don't relate to making as much money, I can relate to feeling sad because I've mismanaged money and want something I can't afford.
Well said! I think this post is a little on the judgemental side, no offence. Just because someone may "jump in their Lexus and run off for a massage" doesn't mean that they don't appreciate the fact that they are able to do that. I truly believe that the majority of people who are able to do that worked d@mn hard to have that luxury.
I'm sorry for your situation... I've found myself there many times before, but by being jealous (not that your are) or looking down on people who don't find themselves in that situation, never got me through my financial hardships.
Keep doing what you're doing, working hard, saving... you'll pull out of this before you know it. Even those people driving around in the Lexus have found themselves in the same position you are in at one time or another.
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leighdvm
My golden boys!
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by BabyCote2006
My intent was not to offend anyone and I am truly sorry.
I am sorry!!!!!!!!!
It's all good....
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:03 AM |
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Emily
Kasey & Me! Lurves it!
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
I count my blessings and my Gucci bags and my Tiffany jewelry and my Fendi bags.
Cause I earned them!
My parents are dead...have been for awhile now. Every cent that DH and I have we have earned. My commute is wretched, DH is constantly traveling and when he is not then he is in school.
I have seen the other side, so I am very grateful for what we have. I do not spend haphazardly, I save up and by myself a gift.
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:04 AM |
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LisaW
Time for me to FLY!
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by Lisa
Just because someone has a Lexus or a Coach bag DOESNT mean that are living within their means.....remember you never know what is in others checkbooks!!
This is SO true!!!!
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:04 AM |
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by leighdvm
Posted by BabyCote2006
My intent was not to offend anyone and I am truly sorry.
I am sorry!!!!!!!!!
It's all good....
Agreed.
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:09 AM |
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Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by stephanief
Posted by HollaGirl
"For you girls that you or DH bring in some good $$, I hope you appreciate all the Coach bags and designer jewelry you can buy. You may not even think twice about whipping out the keys to your Lexus to get a massage this afternoon.
ANYONE WITH ME???? "
This just plain out STINKS.
I agree, it sounds as if someone may be a little jealous....and I want to say, that I have zero coach bags and live VERY modestly....I am happy for those that can afford nice things......
maybe she is a little jealous or angry...but can you blame her...the "worries" people have a different, and as a society we put more "weight" on things that are "serious" and less on things that are "frivilous"
I think BOTH threads stink in the way they are presented. this is capitalism for ya.
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:10 AM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by BellaPaige
Maybe I am in the minority but I did not take her post as she been jealous of others. Maybe I am wrong. However, I hope her situationa improves for the better.
I agree.
The way I saw it, she said that she hopes those people count their blessings - she never said she assumes that they don't.
Nothing wrong with reminding ourselves to be thankful for what we have.
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:11 AM |
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emilain
UNREAL!!!!!!!!
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
we all post impulsively sometimes, and I got your drift, I admit I was taken back by some of your statements, but what can you do, my hubby and I work very hard for our "good life" (nice car, nice home, my coach bags), but I also "remember when...", saltine crackers and lipton soup was all we had in our pantry and it was a very scary time, so I understand your struggles. Hang in there, I do remember when my friend boo-hoo'd because the heel of her manolos broke, meanwhile I had not $1 in the bank, but I was never jealous, it just made me more determined to finish my masters degree, work 3 jobs and get on that road to success, and we are presently here . I hope things start looking up for you
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:12 AM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by BabyAvocado
Posted by BellaPaige
Maybe I am in the minority but I did not take her post as she been jealous of others. Maybe I am wrong. However, I hope her situationa improves for the better.
I agree.
The way I saw it, she said that she hopes those people count their blessings - she never said she assumes that they don't.
Nothing wrong with reminding ourselves to be thankful for what we have.
It was the wording that made me cringe....what do lexus' and massages have to do with being thankful or counting your blessings? Either way, she apologized so let's move on
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:12 AM |
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by stephanief
Posted by BabyAvocado
Posted by BellaPaige
Maybe I am in the minority but I did not take her post as she been jealous of others. Maybe I am wrong. However, I hope her situationa improves for the better.
I agree.
The way I saw it, she said that she hopes those people count their blessings - she never said she assumes that they don't.
Nothing wrong with reminding ourselves to be thankful for what we have.
It was the wording that made me cringe....what do lexus' and massages have to do with being thankful or counting your blessings? Either way, she apologized so let's move on
agree
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:13 AM |
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Eva Luna
Be kind...life's hard!
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God, bless & heal my DH, JenG's DH Rob & DebG
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by BellaPaige
Maybe I am in the minority but I did not take her post as she been jealous of others. Maybe I am wrong. However, I hope her situationa improves for the better.
Me too.
Granted, naming material things was offensive to those who work very hard for them - not everyone is handed everything - lots of us work hard...BUT, I wish MY biggest problem was not being able to buy a pair of shoes, or a shirt.
Seriously, I hope no one has to put their live in perspective by life's rude awakening.
Not looking for a pity party, please. Just wanted to add my .02 cents...I agree with her about seeing what really matters.
My fortune cookie last night? Do not worry about trivial things!
I think that sums it up perfectly. 
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:13 AM |
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CouponKT
Our family is complete
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
I do agree that if you earned it - buy it! None of us work because we want to.
If I had it, I would be out there spending it too, don't get me wrong.
I just try to remember the people who have it worse than me sometimes. There will always be someone richer and someone poorer than me. It's not a dollar thing - it's value.
I have an awesome family, amazing friends and a blessed marriage. I try not to let the financial problems burden my life. It is what it is and I am thankful to be me!
Thanks for hearing me out ladies - I am a good soul - I promise! 
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:13 AM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by BabyCote2006
I do agree that if you earned it - buy it! None of us work because we want to.
If I had it, I would be out there spending it too, don't get me wrong.
I just try to remember the people who have it worse than me sometimes. There will always be someone richer and someone poorer than me. It's not a dollar thing - it's value.
I have an awesome family, amazing friends and a blessed marriage. I try not to let the financial problems burden my life. It is what it is and I am thankful to be me!
Thanks for hearing me out ladies - I am a good soul - I promise!
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:14 AM |
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MegZee
My bunny
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by Eva Luna
Posted by BellaPaige
Maybe I am in the minority but I did not take her post as she been jealous of others. Maybe I am wrong. However, I hope her situationa improves for the better.
Me too.
Granted, naming material things was offensive to those who work very hard for them - not everyone is handed everything - lots of us work hard...BUT, I wish MY biggest problem was not being able to buy a pair of shoes, or a shirt.
Seriously, I hope no one has to put their live in perspective by life's rude awakening.
Not looking for a pity party, please. Just wanted to add my .02 cents...I agree with her about seeing what really matters.
My fortune cookie last night? Do not worry about trivial things!
I think that sums it up perfectly.
well said Sasha. You never fail to amaze me!
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:14 AM |
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salumunz
Chloe
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Patty
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by BabyCote2006
I do agree that if you earned it - buy it! None of us work because we want to.
If I had it, I would be out there spending it too, don't get me wrong.
I just try to remember the people who have it worse than me sometimes. There will always be someone richer and someone poorer than me. It's not a dollar thing - it's value.
I have an awesome family, amazing friends and a blessed marriage. I try not to let the financial problems burden my life. It is what it is and I am thankful to be me!
Thanks for hearing me out ladies - I am a good soul - I promise!
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:15 AM |
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juju
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Ive been on both sides of the spectrum and in both cases, I have always counted my blessings. It does give you perspective on what is important in life.
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HollaGirl
Merry Christmas !!!
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
I take offense to it.
There was a time when DH and I had NOTHING. We had $500.00 in our checking account, all of our bills were late, but we had nice clothes, cars, and went out every weekend. We were lookin good on the outside, but SUFFERING financially.
Things took a great turn 5 years later when we saved and bought a house, my husband bought a business, and now we are extremely happy. We look back and see how far along we have come, and it makes us very proud.
I still clip coupons, wait for sales, go without something if I really dont need it, we rarely go out to ea or get take out, I cook 7 days a week, and maybe once every 2 months, we go out for a really nice dinner.
I would rather have my checks clear, then eat a crappy meal at Applebees once a week.
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:16 AM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by stephanief
It was the wording that made me cringe....what do lexus' and massages have to do with being thankful or counting your blessings? Either way, she apologized so let's move on
Agreed
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:17 AM |
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emilain
UNREAL!!!!!!!!
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Mama
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by BabyCote2006
Thanks for hearing me out ladies - I am a good soul - I promise!
we know you are, sometimes those pregnancy hormones run rampant
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:18 AM |
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Eva Luna
Be kind...life's hard!
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God, bless & heal my DH, JenG's DH Rob & DebG
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by HollaGirl
I take offense to it.
There was a time when DH and I had NOTHING. We had $500.00 in our checking account, all of our bills were late, but we had nice clothes, cars, and went out every weekend. We were lookin good on the outside, but SUFFERING financially.
Things took a great turn 5 years later when we saved and bought a house, my husband bought a business, and now we are extremely happy. We look back and see how far along we have come, and it makes us very proud.
I still clip coupons, wait for sales, go without something if I really dont need it, we rarely go out to ea or get take out, I cook 7 days a week, and maybe once every 2 months, we go out for a really nice dinner.
I would rather have my checks clear, then eat a crappy meal at Applebees once a week.
You shouldn't be offended Kristen. I think her delivery was so wrong, but the message was good. Simple. Pure. You clearly earn what you have and should enjoy it. It also sounds like you have your priorities straight. I know for a fact that you're able to focus on the "good in life" a lot...I bet you weren't throwing yourself pity parties when times were rough. I'm sure you were looking for a way out. Which you found. That's commendable! 
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:19 AM |
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Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by HollaGirl
I would rather have my checks clear, then eat a crappy meal at Applebees once a week.
I totally agree!!
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:19 AM |
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HollaGirl
Merry Christmas !!!
Member since 10/06 3308 total posts
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Kristen
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
I hope your situation improves
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| Posted 10/10/06 10:32 AM |
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kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!
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Re: Count Your Blessings!!
Posted by BabyCote2006
I do agree that if you earned it - buy it! None of us work because we want to.
If I had it, I would be out there spending it too, don't get me wrong.
I just try to remember the people who have it worse than me sometimes. There will always be someone richer and someone poorer than me. It's not a dollar thing - it's value.
I have an awesome family, amazing friends and a blessed marriage. I try not to let the financial problems burden my life. It is what it is and I am thankful to be me!
Thanks for hearing me out ladies - I am a good soul - I promise!
I completely understand!
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