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Sweet-Jay
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Day care questions

I need to know a good price for daycare. in your opinion how much would i pay for daycare a month if i need it 7 days a week? when is the child old enough to be left with a sitter?Chat Icon

Posted 7/10/07 9:49 AM
 
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Selden78
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Re: Day care questions

wow 7 days a week
what do you do for a living??

The prices I have gotten so far range from 950-1200.00 a month for 5days at a day care facility _ not sure on a individual

Posted 7/10/07 9:52 AM
 

Sweet-Jay
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sorry i was thinking wrong i did mean 5 days...lol I work as an administrative assistant 7 days a week and i work from 8a to 4:30p and my boyfriend works from 1pm to 10. if he was to drop the baby off around 12 and i pick him up at 5 would that be very expensive in your opinion?

Posted 7/10/07 9:58 AM
 

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Re: Day care questions

Posted by Sweet-Jay

sorry i was thinking wrong i did mean 5 days...lol I work as an administrative assistant 7 days a week and i work from 8a to 4:30p and my boyfriend works from 1pm to 10. if he was to drop the baby off around 12 and i pick him up at 5 would that be very expensive in your opinion?



You would probably pay the same price as going full time since most daycares don't have a part time price.

Posted 7/10/07 10:00 AM
 

Selden78
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Re: Day care questions

Posted by Sweet-Jay

sorry i was thinking wrong i did mean 5 days...lol I work as an administrative assistant 7 days a week and i work from 8a to 4:30p and my boyfriend works from 1pm to 10. if he was to drop the baby off around 12 and i pick him up at 5 would that be very expensive in your opinion?



I wanted to do somthing a bit similar I only wanted to put the baby in for 2-3 days when its an infint most places make you pay for the full 5 days becuase they designate the crib for your child so you have to pay for the whole time and can either use it or not
I can under stand the safty in it but I would not pay for 5 when I will only need 2-3days...

Posted 7/10/07 10:01 AM
 

Sweet-Jay
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Re: Day care questions

Posted by Selden78

I wanted to do somthing a bit similar I only wanted to put the baby in for 2-3 days when its an infint most places make you pay for the full 5 days becuase they designate the crib for your child so you have to pay for the whole time and can either use it or not
I can under stand the safty in it but I would not pay for 5 when I will only need 2-3days...



wow i hope that i could find something that maybe lets u pay by the day and i want to get my money's worth. It seems like the only people that make arrangments that i can deal with is private sitters but a child of mine so young i would want professionals. Wen is a good age to start daycare?

Posted 7/10/07 10:14 AM
 

annie
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Re: Day care questions

Posted by Sweet-Jay

Posted by Selden78

I wanted to do somthing a bit similar I only wanted to put the baby in for 2-3 days when its an infint most places make you pay for the full 5 days becuase they designate the crib for your child so you have to pay for the whole time and can either use it or not
I can under stand the safty in it but I would not pay for 5 when I will only need 2-3days...



wow i hope that i could find something that maybe lets u pay by the day and i want to get my money's worth. It seems like the only people that make arrangments that i can deal with is private sitters but a child of mine so young i would want professionals. Wen is a good age to start daycare?


you'll get lots of different answers to that question. IMO, i think it's fine to start babies at 12 weeks at a daycare center, but others feel differently. My DD began at 6 months, which worked out great for us. Our center (in NJ) offers discounts for partial weeks, but not partial days. They're open from 7:15 am to 6:15 pm, and you can leave the baby there all or part of the day, but you still pay for the whole day. Other places work differently though.

When deciding private sitter vs. center, there are many issues to consider. There are private sitters who are very experienced & professional. Both have their advantages & disadvantages. Good luck!

ETA: fees at my center for infants per month, there is also a $100 nonrefundable deposit every year, and discounts for siblings (again, in NJ):
5 days: $1195
4 days: $ 990
3 days: $845
2 days: $685

we started to look at centers when i was pregnant and found places that were both more expensive & less. but we fell in love with this place, so we put down a deposit when dd was born to reserve a spot for 6 months later.

Message edited 7/10/2007 10:32:11 AM.

Posted 7/10/07 10:28 AM
 

Sweet-Jay
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Re: Day care questions

Posted by annie


you'll get lots of different answers to that question. IMO, i think it's fine to start babies at 12 weeks at a daycare center, but others feel differently. My DD began at 6 months, which worked out great for us. Our center (in NJ) offers discounts for partial weeks, but not partial days. They're open from 7:15 am to 6:15 pm, and you can leave the baby there all or part of the day, but you still pay for the whole day. Other places work differently though.

When deciding private sitter vs. center, there are many issues to consider. There are private sitters who are very experienced & professional. Both have their advantages & disadvantages. Good luck!

ETA: fees at my center for infants per month, there is also a $100 nonrefundable deposit every year, and discounts for siblings (again, in NJ):
5 days: $1195
4 days: $ 990
3 days: $845
2 days: $685

we started to look at centers when i was pregnant and found places that were both more expensive & less. but we fell in love with this place, so we put down a deposit when dd was born to reserve a spot for 6 months later.



Im worried that i cant afford that i only make about 1400 a month and rent is about 470 and car payment 215 plus other monthly expenses. How do u guys do it. I couldnt afford to take of work so much. what do u suggest that i do.

Posted 7/10/07 10:39 AM
 

annie
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Re: Day care questions

I would look around a lot. Prices vary significantly, but you have to do your research. Ask on the board here for recommendations of places, then call them to make an appointment, meet with the director, take a tour & get a feel for the places. Ask about their policies for sick babies.

Also, don't rule out private sitters. They can be much more affordable & flexible sometimes. How old is the baby?

Do you have any family that could help out one day a week?

Luckily, I'm off during the summer so we only pay for 10 months. That helps a lot.

Posted 7/10/07 10:42 AM
 

Sweet-Jay
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Posted by annie

I would look around a lot. Prices vary significantly, but you have to do your research. Ask on the board here for recommendations of places, then call them to make an appointment, meet with the director, take a tour & get a feel for the places. Ask about their policies for sick babies.

Also, don't rule out private sitters. They can be much more affordable & flexible sometimes. How old is the baby?

Do you have any family that could help out one day a week?

Luckily, I'm off during the summer so we only pay for 10 months. That helps a lot.



U may think this is weird but my baby isnt born yet. i have a long ways to go but im the type of person to find out all information ahead of time. i hate surprises and dont want to be stuck finding a sitter a month or so before the baby is ready to go. Im trying to budget how much raising this baby will cost me. any other suggestions you may have for me. This is my first child so alll advice is excepted.

Posted 7/10/07 10:49 AM
 

Selden78
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Re: Day care questions

Posted by Sweet-Jay

Posted by annie

I would look around a lot. Prices vary significantly, but you have to do your research. Ask on the board here for recommendations of places, then call them to make an appointment, meet with the director, take a tour & get a feel for the places. Ask about their policies for sick babies.

Also, don't rule out private sitters. They can be much more affordable & flexible sometimes. How old is the baby?

Do you have any family that could help out one day a week?

Luckily, I'm off during the summer so we only pay for 10 months. That helps a lot.



U may think this is weird but my baby isnt born yet. i have a long ways to go but im the type of person to find out all information ahead of time. i hate surprises and dont want to be stuck finding a sitter a month or so before the baby is ready to go. Im trying to budget how much raising this baby will cost me. any other suggestions you may have for me. This is my first child so alll advice is excepted.



you can also look in to help form the sate or county that you live in
when I lived in Nassau county and was on my own I got assitance from the county for child care

Posted 7/10/07 11:01 AM
 

curley999
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Re: Day care questions

Given that you only need childcare from 12-5 I think your cheapest option would be a private sitter or someone who watches a few children out of there home. There are pros and cons to both sitters and daycare so researching the right person or place is the key here. Daycare centers typically will not allow you to pay for half days, so it would be full price. You can try to look for private sitters by asking around with neighbor's and checking local church bulletion boards ect...

Posted 7/10/07 11:13 AM
 

babymakes3
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We used a home daycare part-time and paid $7 an hour. I'll FM you the number and name and if it's close to you, then you can check it out.

You are right to do your research now. The earlier the better!

Posted 7/10/07 11:39 AM
 

Sweet-Jay
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you can also look in to help form the sate or county that you live in
when I lived in Nassau county and was on my own I got assitance from the county for child care


Yeah i can do that but the state really doesnt help you if u are working on your own. and i really dont want to quit and live off the government.

Posted 7/10/07 12:09 PM
 

Sweet-Jay
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Posted by curley999

Given that you only need childcare from 12-5 I think your cheapest option would be a private sitter or someone who watches a few children out of there home. There are pros and cons to both sitters and daycare so researching the right person or place is the key here. Daycare centers typically will not allow you to pay for half days, so it would be full price. You can try to look for private sitters by asking around with neighbor's and checking local church bulletion boards ect...



Thanks alot i work at a church so this may be a little helpful to me. Thanks for all of your advice.

Posted 7/10/07 12:10 PM
 

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Re: Day care questions

Posted by Sweet-Jay



you can also look in to help form the sate or county that you live in
when I lived in Nassau county and was on my own I got assitance from the county for child care



Yeah i can do that but the state really doesnt help you if u are working on your own. and i really dont want to quit and live off the government.


They do. Here is a link:

http://www.childcaresuffolk.org/default.aspx?PageID=457

Day Care Assistance Eligibility Requirements

***Family Size............Income***

2......................$36,300
3......................$42,330
4......................$45,000
5......................$52,650
6......................$60,300
7......................$67,950
8......................$75,600
9......................$83,250
10....................$90,900

Posted 7/10/07 12:37 PM
 

Sweet-Jay
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thanks alot i'll definitely check it out

Posted 7/10/07 12:52 PM
 

PeasandCarrots

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You are an early planner...you must be only 2-3wks along. How are you doing since the MC at the end of April? It must be hard to start planning for this stuff all over again

Posted 7/10/07 10:48 PM
 

Sweet-Jay
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Posted by medic6809

You are an early planner...you must be only 2-3wks along. How are you doing since the MC at the end of April? It must be hard to start planning for this stuff all over again



I think im doing better. around that time i was just starting my job had just got a new car and had alot on my mind was very stressed out i've learned to take it easy and just relax and stop worrying so much.

Posted 7/10/07 10:58 PM
 
 

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