Dear BM....

...can we have a little talk? From one BM to another?

First let me preface this by saying Thank You for telling my DD that at her age she should have a cell phone. Neither her father nor I feel that a 9 year old really needs a cell phone. You see we discuss things TOGETHER and make decisions regarding such things TOGETHER. For your information your Ex, AKA my DH, does not think his 10 year old DD needs a cell phone either. You, however, do not consult him regarding such things and went ahead and got DD a cell phone.

But that is another issue and not really the purpose of this "letter"..

If you think for one minute your lies and deceitfulness go unnoticed you are more ignorant than I previously thought.

Case and point #1. It was not necessary to put the little DD in Catholic Kindergarten at a cost of $5k. You live in a perfectly acceptable school district. (as you have pointed out on numerous occassions) But you went right ahead and registered her any way. We DO NOT have the $$$ to put her in private school. She can go to public school just like her stepsisters and her older sister. I know you lied about the condition of the School Districts Kindergarten class and regarding her registration (you registered her BEFORE you even mentioned it to her father) etc.

Case and Point #2. If you think for one minute, that I believe, that Friday at 4:00 was the only gymnastics class that they had available you are insane. Im sure you just did this so DH wouldnt get home here until after 7:00 on Friday nights when he has the kids.

Case and Point #3. Oh yes I wanted to point out that putting DD in religion on Wednesdays..which is DHs visitation day was just about the icing on the cake. You had an option of putting her in another day..but it wasnt convenient for you? Well it isnt convenient for DH. But did you consult him??....NO of course not.

You put the kids in every activity under the sun just so they dont get to spend much time over here. Then you complain that we dont include them.. ..You are the Beyotch who wants to take them away for Thanksgiving..the one holiday every other year that DH has his kids?..

Get over it already..neither DH, Myself, or DS are going away..as much as you'd like us too it's not going to happen. Aside from the fact that DH loves his kids I wouldnt give you the satisfaction of giving you what you want...

THank you for listening

Message edited 10/2/2008 10:59:38 AM.

Re: Dear BM....

Sorry you are dealing with all this crapp!!! Been there (actually, still there after 7yrs ) Many to you.

Re: Dear BM....

Re: Dear BM....

Well said ....Such a shame when people make an already difficult situation that much worse- Sorry, you are going through this, as you know, you're not alone

Re: Dear BM....

i'm so glad you can vent on here. i had no where to vent when i was dealing with bm and i really could use it. your letter was nicely written and i hope that you feel better now

Re: Dear BM....

Oh boy do I know this feeling!!!! I hope you didn't give her the satisfaction of reading that letter and seeing how much she annoys you....no matter how much she tries, I never let her she that she won. Just be patient, it'll be ok.

Re: Dear BM....

that is good to get your feelings out on here..........I am so glad we have this board....I felt like I was the only one dealing with these difficult issues.....

Know that you are not alone....

Re: Dear BM....

Nothing is worse than crap like this

Re: Dear BM....

I am so sorry you are dealing with that.... She should count her blessing that their dad wants to be a part of their lives and stop trying to stop them from having a relationship!

Keep your head up and a smile on your face at all times cause remember one thing...

The best revenge is a HAPPY LIFE!!