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Difficult situation~How do you tell a friend that her new friend is a bad influence....

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curliegirl
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Difficult situation~How do you tell a friend that her new friend is a bad influence....

and you CANNOT STAND HER?!?!?!?!?

I have found this person to be rubbing off on a friend, and this person has even put her in potential danger by letting her get sloshed and drive!!!!

Unfortunately Imay have to spend more time with this person in the upcoming future.....Chat Icon

Posted 2/26/07 12:54 PM
 
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jxnoscar
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Re: Difficult situation~How do you tell a friend that her new friend is a bad influence....

I would normally say do not say anything, that it will do more harm than good. I use to have a friend that everytime I introduced her to a new friend I made, she would in turn, mad mouth them and in the end, really made me made.

however, bc this person stinks and is a really bad influence, I would start to "hang around" or make your precense known when you know that she and this person are together.

Posted 2/26/07 12:57 PM
 

curliegirl
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Re: Difficult situation~How do you tell a friend that her new friend is a bad influence....

Posted by jxnoscar

I would normally say do not say anything, that it will do more harm than good. I use to have a friend that everytime I introduced her to a new friend I made, she would in turn, mad mouth them and in the end, really made me made.

however, bc this person stinks and is a really bad influence, I would start to "hang around" or make your precense known when you know that she and this person are together.


so you're saying I have to hang out with her MORE? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/26/07 1:14 PM
 

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Message edited 6/8/2009 3:25:52 PM.

Posted 2/26/07 1:16 PM
 

emilain
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Re: Difficult situation~How do you tell a friend that her new friend is a bad influence....

if it was one of my cloest friends, I would come right out and tell her, or I would say "you can pick your friends and I will pick if I hang out with you and YOUR friends".

Posted 2/26/07 1:17 PM
 

jxnoscar
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Re: Difficult situation~How do you tell a friend that her new friend is a bad influence....

Posted by curliegirl

Posted by jxnoscar

I would normally say do not say anything, that it will do more harm than good. I use to have a friend that everytime I introduced her to a new friend I made, she would in turn, mad mouth them and in the end, really made me made.

however, bc this person stinks and is a really bad influence, I would start to "hang around" or make your precense known when you know that she and this person are together.


so you're saying I have to hang out with her MORE? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Maybe to see for yourself what the big deal is about this person. I wouldn't go on a b!tch rant though and rock, you or her. It isn't the right way to approach this.

Posted 2/26/07 1:23 PM
 

DaniJude
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Re: Difficult situation~How do you tell a friend that her new friend is a bad influence....

Posted by emilain

if it was one of my cloest friends, I would come right out and tell her, or I would say "you can pick your friends and I will pick if I hang out with you and YOUR friends".



yep, me too

stinky situation either way Chat Icon

Posted 2/26/07 2:19 PM
 

curliegirl
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Re: Difficult situation~How do you tell a friend that her new friend is a bad influence....

Posted by DaniRella

Posted by emilain

if it was one of my cloest friends, I would come right out and tell her, or I would say "you can pick your friends and I will pick if I hang out with you and YOUR friends".



yep, me too

stinky situation either way Chat Icon



yes, I really don't have a choice whether to hang out with her or not for the next few months.....Chat Icon

Posted 2/26/07 2:20 PM
 
 

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