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talk about your arguments/disagreements with your SO to other people?
And if so....whom?

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Nope, it is our business.

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I tell my closest friend...not everything. When she's over with her boyfriend and we have an arguement, she obviously knows what's going on.

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Not usually. We don't typically have significant arguements though. I think its best to keep stuff like that at home.

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nope not really unless its significant. And then I would only talk to a friend - not family.

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i really don't talk about our arguments at all...

and sometimes i think that is a good and bad thing

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No, we rarely argue. The only arguements we really had were in the early stages of dating. DH was divorcing his ex-wife. She was being ridiculous about getting her furtniture etc. out of the house that she hadn't lived in for two years (she left him). I would freak when I thought she was being unreasonable but DH would say he had to tread carefully because she could delay the process further. I spent many a phone conversation venting to my BF about that.

Now that we are married no but then again we rarely argue.

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I might tell my close friend, but usually we just discuss it amongst ourselves. It's not really anyone's business outside our relationship so we try to keep it between the two of us.

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No.

I know that if I were to say anything to my mom about my DH, she would tell me to shut it because she adamantly does not want to be in the middle. And I think that's smart on her part.

If it was an issue that I needed advice on, I might confide in my closest girlfriend. But day to day snipey things are best kept private, or confined to a journal. JMO.

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No. I usually keep it between just the two of us.

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No, we keep them to ourselves.

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I have one friend I talk to about it. Her husband has similar traits, so she is understanding and it doesn't change the way she sees my DH. I know if I talk to certain other friends, or family members, they may judge him too harshly over things I have said when I was upset or aggravated.

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Not really. If it something that really bothers me I may talk to my Best friend but thats about it.

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Unless it was a big one I keep it to myself.
If it was a big one that I am upset about I will talk about it with my sister. - More the topic then what actually went on.

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We only argue about cleaning. When I'm mad that he doesn't clean I tell people!
But I think if we were to argue about something more sensitive then I wouldn't feel comfortable telling others.

Message edited 8/24/2005 4:08:38 PM.

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We really dont argue about anything important... If he does something like throws his clothes all over the floor... I might complain to a friend about cleaning up after him..

But if we were to have a BIG arguement...I prob wouldnt share it with anyone...and if I really needed someone to talk to I wouldnt share the specifics...

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If I do... only with my mom or sister.

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We really do not argue and if we do, it stays between us

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Occassionally with a best friend but that would be the extent of it. What happens in our marriage, stays in our marriage

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well we live with my family, so at times they witness a little action. I would rather they did not. I have found that if I tell someone about an argument, that person gets a little satisfaction from hearing about it. Like oh they really do fight....I prefer to keep it closed.

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I tell my best friend about the little stupid tiffs we have. I NEVER tell family. They never forget & always feel the need to remind of things!

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Some of it i will terll my really close friends but some I just save for us to straighten out