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Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

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curliegirl
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Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

Being that we are going to miss going to Mexico for a wedding and the summer is chock-full of events, I wanted to go to Captiva Island in June, just for a few days.

DH once again has to work, he's in a band and has a gig he "can't get out of".

He also said we need to save $$$
We do a great job of saving, but what good is it if we never do anything but work??????? Chat Icon

I even got a great deal on the trip, but no, we can't go..

my point? All the saving in the world means nothing if you don't enjoy your life while you live it.........

Posted 4/11/07 4:29 PM
 
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SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

DH and I are always "save save save"

Posted 4/11/07 4:30 PM
 

MsMBV
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

Enjoy, but it gets us into trouble, I wish I could find that balanceChat Icon

Posted 4/11/07 4:30 PM
 

july06bride
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

I think we have a good balance, but we probably should save a bit more than we do-we save and enjoy- but need to start saving more than enjoying

Posted 4/11/07 4:31 PM
 

yankinmanc
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

I do what I like to call "Reverse Saving" I spend it on my credit card and wind up paying it out...hence the term reverse saving! Its like saving, only completely backwards!

But I do enjoy!!

Posted 4/11/07 4:32 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

We're able to do both

Posted 4/11/07 4:36 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

Oh, we enjoy life! I'm about saving more than enjoying but I think we manage to do a bit of both.

Posted 4/11/07 4:38 PM
 

nov04libride
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

We definitely save more than enjoy. We do one vacation a year, but other than that...Save, save, save...

Posted 4/11/07 4:41 PM
 

JandJ1224

Member since 6/06

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Jannette

Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

we are both all about saving but I think sometimes I am too worried about it and don't enjoy my life like I should

Posted 4/11/07 5:05 PM
 

Blu-ize
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Susan

Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

I think most would agree that they can't save enough. There's never enough in the bank. We probably could save more, but we do enjoy ourselves. You can't take it with you.

Posted 4/11/07 5:23 PM
 

bikramaddict
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

Posted by MsMBV

Enjoy, but it gets us into trouble, I wish I could find that balanceChat Icon



same.

Posted 4/11/07 5:32 PM
 

jambalady
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Holly

Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

I think Dh and I have different ideas on what the right amount to save is. He is all save, save, save. I like think separate from our retirement, IRA, 401K type savings, a one year cushion is enough and you should be able to enjoy the rest.

I mean, what good is having thousands and thousands of dollars in the bank and being bored or unhappy?

Posted 4/11/07 5:33 PM
 

johnsae
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

Posted by MrsRbk

We're able to do both



same here

Posted 4/11/07 5:33 PM
 

Bugaboo
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

Posted by MrsRbk

We're able to do both[/QUOTE


Same with us.

Message edited 4/11/2007 5:38:57 PM.

Posted 4/11/07 5:38 PM
 

curliegirl
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Gina

Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

Well, I think DH realized that we need to go away for a few days. He called up someone to see if he could fill in for him.

At least he made an effort, so we'll see. Chat Icon

Posted 4/11/07 5:41 PM
 

2PreciousBlessings
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

We are able to do both.

Posted 4/11/07 6:01 PM
 

BikerGrl
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It's not the destination....it's the journey!

Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

Posted by MsMBV

Enjoy, but it gets us into trouble, I wish I could find that balanceChat Icon



Same here....which is realization we came to this week.........

Posted 4/11/07 6:08 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

We try to do both. Now that I am not working, its more save, save, save.

Posted 4/11/07 6:11 PM
 

Alli06
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

We enjoy life!! We do try to save as well, but not as much as some people do. In the past 5 years, me and DH have gone of more vacations, then some go on in a life time. We love to eat out, go skiing, shop. I always tell people that it is great to save but, you have to enjoy life.
Of course you don't want to enjoy to much and go into debt.Chat Icon

I work with someone who is 23 and is always talking about how him and his girlfriend don't eat out, go on vacation,because they need to start saving for retirement, a house, etc... This is great, but you are only young once. You can't live your life this way IMO.
As someone posted above, you can't take it with you, and you will never have enough. You need to find a balance.

Message edited 4/11/2007 7:16:32 PM.

Posted 4/11/07 7:10 PM
 

JustJack
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J

Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

Right now we are saving for a house, so that comes first. We want to try and go on nice vacation this year. We always manage to get away for the weekend though.

Posted 4/11/07 7:13 PM
 

luvsbob4603
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

we try to save... but i like to live a little to but if dh had his say i wouldn't be able to buy nada.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/11/07 7:34 PM
 

Jax430
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Jackie

Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

We do a little of both. We're trying to save a little more though, while still enjoying our lives.

Posted 4/11/07 7:37 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

life is too short NOT to enjoy it. i say, go on your vacation and enjoy Chat Icon

Posted 4/11/07 7:37 PM
 

MsSissy
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

Posted by curliegirl

Well, I think DH realized that we need to go away for a few days. He called up someone to see if he could fill in for him.

At least he made an effort, so we'll see. Chat Icon



That's a good step! I hope it works out for you.

Posted 4/11/07 7:40 PM
 

LuckySV
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Re: Do you enjoy your life or do you always worry about save, save, save?

Save, save, save. We do enjoy life but we're such homebodies that we really only like short vacations! Even our honeymoon was only 5 days! We should probably do more enjoying, though....

Posted 4/11/07 7:49 PM
 
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