Do you go away without your DH?

I do a few times a year. I have a few scrapbooking weekends that I am away...sometimes in NJ and sometimes right on LI. I also go away once a year with my sorority sisters for a wine fest in Ocean city MD.

He has no problem with it, of course I am not going away to get laid, but to hang out with my friends.

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I don't know if we will be childless permanently, but we don't have any right now. Anyway, yes I have gone away and will in the future. I didn't get married until I was 39.5 so I did alot of traveling alone and with friends. I just went to see some friends OOS last week. I told DH that if doesn't want to go to Italy in the next few years, I will go without him.

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Yes, at least once a year. I think its really healthy for the relationship.

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I have not and probably wont. Right now I want to experience new places and things with him but of course that may change.

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oh yes...I've been quite a few places without him, while we were dating and since being married.

him too. sometimes you need a break

he is still my all time favorite travel partner though.

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I've traveled without him, and would again.

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I have gone to my parents condo in Flordia...I was off and he had work. Also weekend jaunts with college friends. I do not like to go to anywhere "new" without him though bc I like to experiene it with him

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If I'm going to spend $$$, I want nookie when I get there, so DH comes with.

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I haven't yet..but I definitely would consider it! Hopefully next year I can get away w/the girls

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Posted by BJandDan

If I'm going to spend $$$, I want nookie when I get there, so DH comes with.

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I went to a family event without him outside the country and he has also gone away for a weekend. We prefer to go away together but if it's a situation out of our control then the person that has the obligation will go alone. I was miserable without him though when I went.

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I travel for work and in the past have spent a few extra days wherever I am with friends. I haven't been anywhere exciting with my new company yet to do this. I plan to in October though!

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Only for business. If we're going to spend money on a vaction of any sort, it has to be for both of us.

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Only for business so far...

But if the opportunity arose for a girls' weekend or something I'm sure I'd go!

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I haven't since we got married (6 months ago) but I am actually going to Jamiaca with my mom, sister and aunt for a girls trip next month.

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I used to. I still would but the friend I would always go with and I aren't close anymore so I just need a new travel buddy !

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i do! Not all the time but I go away every so often.

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Absolutely! I travel without him for work about 5-6 times yearly and also take an annual vacation with my two best friends and sometimes fly down to florida to visit family alone.

he doesnt mind at all and has gone away without me too

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Yes, for work sometimes and also with other friends. I might go solo this year. I get twice as much time as he does so I like to get away when I can and he's cool with it (I'm sure it's a vaca for him too!!)

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I have only done it once when I went to Montauk with my friend. I will be again for my cousins bachelorette party when we go to Montauk for the weekend. We usually go with each other when we go away. It is rare when we do.

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I haven't yet but am totally willing to.

I've told DH that whenever he wants to go visit his friends in Chicago (that's where he is from) it's ok with me. I don't have to go each and every time.

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I did once. Nearly 2 years ago I went to Europe for a week with my cousin, and DH actually just told me last night that he was offended by that. Way to let me know when it's too late to do anything about it! So I guess I won't be doing that anymore... I think he'd be fine with something less extravagant, like a weekend away though. We've already done overnights separately, and we've also gone to visit family separately when the other couldn't get off work.

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It hasn't happened yet....but if I wanted to, he wouldn't be against it at all....my puppy may be though LOL

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Nope. He wouldn't be opposed to it though. It just never happened.

I like to travel with other couples - and then me and the other chick will go off and do our own thing one day - shopping, drinking, spa-ing.

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I haven't done it often, but DH has gone away for several bachelor party trips.