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Tracey
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
We open our own mail, always have.
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Posted 7/22/05 2:43 PM  |
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Corinne
My munchkins
Member since 5/05 5010 total posts
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corinne
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
i open everything some bills in his name some in mine and i pay all the bills if i wait for him to open the mail we will be late on everything.
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| Posted 7/22/05 2:48 PM |
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Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!
Member since 5/05 20046 total posts
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Sometimes, depends on my mood and what it is. If it sits on the table for a day or two, I definitely open it!
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| Posted 7/22/05 2:53 PM |
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june262004
But I love the Snow!
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Kristin
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Posted by Gertyrae
Sometimes, depends on my mood and what it is. If it sits on the table for a day or two, I definitely open it!
Me too. I cant stand stuff sitting all over the table. This is what I grew up with!
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| Posted 7/22/05 2:55 PM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
Member since 5/05 27530 total posts
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me
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Yes, I do. He asked me to open it because he forgets.  I pay all the bills, so even if a bill comes in his name, I open it. If he gets something from work, however, I just give it to him when he gets home because it's nothing that concerns me.
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| Posted 7/22/05 2:59 PM |
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Suzanne
May the Force Be With You!
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Suzanne
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Yes I do. DH is very lazy and the mail could sit there for weeks before he would look at it. I handle all the finances so it is just easier for me to open everything. He doesn't care at all. I wouldn't care if he opened mine either.
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| Posted 7/22/05 3:00 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Janice
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
I always open his mail-I am nosey
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| Posted 7/22/05 3:01 PM |
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Cheryl
Horray for 3 boys!!
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Mikey, Greg & TJ's Mommy
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Actually I'M the one who sometimes forgets to open things  Dh is usually opening MY mail to let me know what it is.
But other than me forgetting sometimes, we just open our own mail. But if it's something joint, I'll open it.
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| Posted 7/22/05 3:16 PM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
I open all the mail. If I didn't, we'd be swimming in junk mail credit card offers by now.
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| Posted 7/22/05 3:23 PM |
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CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)
Member since 5/05 19978 total posts
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Jen - counting my blessings...
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
i don't usually open his because i could care less unless it's something joint....but he always opens mine and it drives me nuts. I don't care about bills and medical info, etc but he will open birthday cards etc and that IRKS me!
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| Posted 7/22/05 3:37 PM |
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mrsmck
Be a big girl!
Member since 5/05 4898 total posts
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Donna
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
The only things I throw out are applications for credit cards. He DOES NOT need any more of them!!!! I give him everything else.
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| Posted 7/22/05 3:59 PM |
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julz33
i run for bacon
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julz
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
He opens all the mail, mine included.
If he didn't mine would just keep stacking up
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| Posted 7/22/05 4:25 PM |
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Salason
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Posted by june262004
Posted by Gertyrae
Sometimes, depends on my mood and what it is. If it sits on the table for a day or two, I definitely open it!
Me too. I cant stand stuff sitting all over the table. This is what I grew up with!
OMG that's my biggest pet peeve (piles of junk of the table) so i do open it all bc he doesnt open anything! and when i go away w/o him, i come back and the piles are waiting for me.
how many people open each other's email? for us it's a different story than snail mail...
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| Posted 7/22/05 4:25 PM |
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sunny
Life is good!
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
I open his mail.
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| Posted 7/22/05 4:52 PM |
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Mrs-Boop
My Babies
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Jaime
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Not really. I don't open any bills, they scare me, so I leave them for him. If its junk I open it and throw it out and I open anything for both of us. He opens mine sometimes if it looks interesting, but I don't have a problem with it at all!!
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| Posted 7/22/05 7:28 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Donna
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
If I didnt, it would sit there for two months, and get thrown out. He does not open his own mail unless it looks "interesting" to him.
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| Posted 7/22/05 10:32 PM |
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june262004
But I love the Snow!
Member since 5/05 15379 total posts
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Kristin
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Posted by MrsTC
i don't usually open his because i could care less unless it's something joint....but he always opens mine and it drives me nuts. I don't care about bills and medical info, etc but he will open birthday cards etc and that IRKS me!
I never open cards. Only bills and Junk.
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| Posted 7/22/05 10:44 PM |
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dooodles
When you wish upon a star
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Because 2 people fell in love
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
We hide nothing from each other, but I just don't feel right opening his mail. If there was anything either one of us questioned, we ask to see the mail - but I think that only happened once
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| Posted 7/23/05 12:11 PM |
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june262004
But I love the Snow!
Member since 5/05 15379 total posts
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Kristin
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Posted by dooodles
We hide nothing from each other, but I just don't feel right opening his mail. If there was anything either one of us questioned, we ask to see the mail - but I think that only happened once
I didn't feel right at first either. But when it sits there for 2 weeks I open it 
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| Posted 7/23/05 12:12 PM |
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pschica
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
sure, and he opens mine....kind of a curiousity thing by whomever gets home first....just to see what "we" got! During the holidays or around birthdays we don't do it as much, though, so as not to spoil any surprises for each other!
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| Posted 7/23/05 12:14 PM |
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neenie
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Posted by Cheryl
Actually I'M the one who sometimes forgets to open things
Same here. DH will throw out all my junk mail, but if it looks important, he'll put it on the side for me to open. neither one of us cares either way- we dont get very interesting mail.. but if he gets a card or something like that, i leave it for him to open (and vice versa). He doesnt open my credit card bills though- i think he's scared of them
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| Posted 7/23/05 12:21 PM |
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AJsMommy122
Stop 2 smell the roses
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
I open everything. I am the one who writes the checks and if I didn't nothing would get paid. I have had runs where I let his mail sit on the table... and it sits and sits and sits!!!! He has no interest in opening mail ever!!!! Unless he thinks there is money inside like when we got cards right before and after our wedding
DH actually will bring in the mail throw it on on the counter and walk away  
He dosent even look at it.
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| Posted 7/23/05 12:26 PM |
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SoinLove
Making big changes
Member since 5/05 16541 total posts
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Kristin
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Nope. Not unless it's something that's for me also. DH opens my bills, because he takes care of paying them, but otherwise, he doesn't touch my mail.
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| Posted 7/23/05 4:28 PM |
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monkeybride
My Everything
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
No. I will sort through it and throw out what I know is definitely junk mail but otherwise its just something we don't do.
I don't do the bills so I don't even open those. I just put them in his box.
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| Posted 7/23/05 10:14 PM |
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JenniferEver
The Disney Lady
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Jennifer
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Re: Do you open DH/FH's mail?
Yeah we don;t even live together and we open each other's mail. Mostly I open his becuase otherwise it would just sit there. So I opne it, throw out BS credt card offers and bring the important suff to his attention. if it's obviously something prsonal like a birthday card I leave it for him to open. There's no need for me to open that
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