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MrsS1126
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Do you think it's rude if...

someone asks how much your mortgage is?

Posted 1/5/06 10:38 AM
 
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LSP2005
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

I think it depends upon who it is that wants to know. My friends and I talk about our mortgages all the time because we were all buying homes at about the same time. If it was a stranger or family - other then our parents - then yes, it is none of their business.

Posted 1/5/06 10:41 AM
 

MrsS1126
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

It was someone I'm not that close with and this person is not looking to purchase a home .

I was just wondering what you all thought, thanks.

Posted 1/5/06 11:11 AM
 

Bebalina
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

i wouldnt tell them.
in that case yes its rude

Posted 1/5/06 11:12 AM
 

MrsProfessor
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

Posted by MrsS1126

It was someone I'm not that close with and this person is not looking to purchase a home .

I was just wondering what you all thought, thanks.



In that case, yes, I think it is nosy and not necessary.

Posted 1/5/06 11:13 AM
 

LSP2005
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

Posted by MrsS1126

It was someone I'm not that close with and this person is not looking to purchase a home .

I was just wondering what you all thought, thanks.


i agree with everyone else that is rude. I would just say we paid a fair price and are happily in debt.

Posted 1/5/06 11:16 AM
 

KaRiSsA
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

I don't think it's rude. It doesn't bother me when people ask.

Posted 1/5/06 11:22 AM
 

calendargrl
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jan

Re: Do you think it's rude if...

I don't think it's rude either. If someone asks then I tell.

Posted 1/5/06 11:31 AM
 

jms100303
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

Posted by KaRiSsA

I don't think it's rude. It doesn't bother me when people ask.



Same here! I know a lot of people are uncomfortable talking about money though, but it doesn't bother me.

Posted 1/5/06 11:46 AM
 

Leon29
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

Posted by KaRiSsA

I don't think it's rude. It doesn't bother me when people ask.



I agree.

Posted 1/5/06 1:00 PM
 

KangaMom
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

If it is someone I like and or know well, I don't mind, if not I think it's rude...

Posted 1/5/06 1:31 PM
 

kaklesmay
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

My boss always gets in my $ business, how much is your car payment? How much is your rent? and now that we are looking for homes, I see his wheels spinning. Mind your own business!!! If its not family/close friends I think its rude.

Posted 1/5/06 2:12 PM
 

DjPiLL

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Richard

Re: Do you think it's rude if...

I tell them so they can pity me for having such a high payment. Chat Icon

Posted 1/5/06 2:16 PM
 

dottiemchugh
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

Yes, its none of anyones business in my opinion.

Posted 1/5/06 10:32 PM
 

sunnyplus3
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

it bothers me as much as random people asking how much my e-ring was or how much I spent on my wedding. IMO info like that is private unless you want to tell someone...I don't think people outside my "inner circle" should even consider asking-but they do.

Posted 1/5/06 10:50 PM
 

TwoGirls4Me
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

Posted by jms100303

Posted by KaRiSsA

I don't think it's rude. It doesn't bother me when people ask.



Same here! I know a lot of people are uncomfortable talking about money though, but it doesn't bother me.




same here, it wouldnt bother me at all.

Posted 1/6/06 11:45 AM
 

Mrslittlebookworm4
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Tracy

Re: Do you think it's rude if...

Posted by LSP2005

I think it depends upon who it is that wants to know. My friends and I talk about our mortgages all the time because we were all buying homes at about the same time. If it was a stranger or family - other then our parents - then yes, it is none of their business.



I completely agree.

Posted 1/7/06 1:55 PM
 

Diane
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

It doesnt bother me when people ask....and I will tell them.

Posted 1/7/06 9:07 PM
 

PiyoPika566
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

for me it depends on who's asking and how they asked, so far when my friends and family ask, it doesn't bother me.

Posted 1/8/06 9:54 AM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

Posted by MrsS1126

It was someone I'm not that close with and this person is not looking to purchase a home .

I was just wondering what you all thought, thanks.



Then yes, I would think it's rude.

Posted 1/8/06 11:06 AM
 

Salason

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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

i think its totally rude

Posted 1/8/06 11:09 AM
 

KaRiSsA
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Re: Do you think it's rude if...

Posted by BabyAvocado

Posted by MrsS1126

It was someone I'm not that close with and this person is not looking to purchase a home .

I was just wondering what you all thought, thanks.



Then yes, I would think it's rude.



I would care if you think they are just being nosey.Chat Icon

Posted 1/8/06 2:23 PM
 
 

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