End of year mushy post.... what did your baby/ies teach YOU this year?

Sooooo we're 3 months pp, and closing out what feels like a "year of miracles" for me... I find that I stare at this little nugget entirely too much to be considered "normal" and every day there's something I see in him that I want to bottle and keep in my heart forever

So without getting toooooo mushy (I hate salt in my coffee ) here's a few tidbits he's taught me so far...

--- Greet the morning with a gigantic SMILE...
--- A really good S-T-R-E-T-C-H is required upon waking
--- When you see someone who loves you, flap everything
--- When someone puts their hand in yours, hold on tight
--- Cuddles can cure a variety of life's problems
--- Babies dream of angels, maybe I can too...
--- There is no moment that matters more than this one, RIGHT NOW-babies have no regrets, no resentments, and no anxiety about the future; the closer I can get back to that state the happier I'll be!!!!

Chime in, what did YOU learn this year from your babies of all ages...

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colette i could have written that post myself - i even call DS my little nugget and my little basket when he is fussy

my sweet boy has taught me:

patience

a baby's smile can brighten the worst of days

the smallest of accomplishments are worthy of the biggest celebrations

in-laws can sometimes be 1000 times more tolerable than your own family

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Love that multiplies each day-- when I thought I loved DD as much as humanly possible, the next day, I loved her even more and on & on.

Definitely mushy, but true

Message edited 12/19/2008 8:41:02 AM.

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That was beautiful

My baby taught me -

* Raspberries on anyone's belly are always funny
* Stinky feet is an endless source of amusement
* Big wet slobbery kisses are better than anything in the world
* The word "mama" is the single most beautiful sound in any language
* Stopping to take in your surroundings makes you see the world new again and again
* I want to bottle him up each and every day so that I don't forget one movement, one sound of his voice, one belly laugh, one moment ...

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This is a wonderful post!

This year my son taught me:
- that there is a word that can make me cry with joy....mama
- that I long ago forgot the wonder and awe in little things...but you get a second chance to marvel at them through the eyes of a child...and that is better than the first time around
- that I will never allow my son to be in an environment that is anything less than safe, loving, and nurturing (our daycare problems this year)
- that I can rise to the occassion and make a difference in not just my child's life...but other children (daycare again - we didn't just walk away...we tried to help)
- that there was a piece of happiness missing in my life until this little boy
- that my belief as a child that mommy can make things better is really true!

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He taught me that when you fart, you are supposed to follow it with a belly laugh because farting is hysterical (way to go johnny!!).

In all seriousness he taught me to never underestimate his abilities. He has amazed us with his progress this year and I continue to be in awe of him!!

And to the little baby growing in my belly...you have taught me that its not a good thing to eat taco bell during morning sickness, even if it smells good...it's best to stick with crackers and soup

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That just when I thought that I couldn't love DD any more, every time she smiles at me, I feel like I love her even more.

Everyday can be a surprise.

That a smile from DD can brighten up even the most stressful of days, it is also the cure for everything.... pp pain, headaches, cramps.. you name it.

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awwwwwww, love this post.

I would have never guessed that a few of the most special moments in my life(seriously) would revolve around TRAINS! A day with Thomas moved me and leo to tears as Josh watched Thomas pull into the station. When we sat on Polar Express and just looked at my little family with this happy little boy of mine full of Christmas spirit. The night I scored our train table...knowing it was ours and the relief I got from the feeling of it being done, the big take your breath away gift under the tree. My dad being a grandfather I did not know was in him. Taking Josh down to the trains twice a day while we visited, just to watch him smile.

Our healthcare system. Thank God in the past I never had any illnesses to know it was a shotty system. This year was eye opening. Actually using your savings account to pay med bills, ambulance bills, and prescribtions...My heart breaks for parents without a savings account.

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omg .... I ALWAYS flap my arms when I see my loved ones.

what I learned:

You don't have to be a girl to hang out in the girls only webkin room, as long as you sell your clothes for money and get passed the bouncers.

NEVER EVER get on the bus, you will embarrass your kid for a life time.

Kisses at home are ok, but not in front of friends

Stuffed animals ARE NOT DOLLS, they are stuffed animals.

I have plenty more... but I need to think of them... need morning coffee.

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Thanks for posting this and to everyone who has shared.

My DS has taught me not to cut corners. I realized that I cut corners in a lot of areas in my life, but with a baby that cannot happen.

Having DS has shown me how much my mom loved me.... and how amazing that love is.

DS has taught me that smiles and coos can be a great paycheck for all the long and exhausting days and nights.

He has also taught me that there are some relationships that don't require me to work so hard to feel loved.

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bump because this is a great post

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- He knows how to hug and give kisses.
-Ive learned that DS can be a Mush and be Mr. Independent at the same time.
- He says (in not so many words) *I* want to do it myself.
- He KNOWS his routine quite well.
He Understands what we are asking and telling him..

I've learned...They grow too fast.

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-There is no greater joy then seeing your baby become a toddler who can say things and understand what is going on

-No use crying over spilled milk (he knocks things over constantly)

-There is nothing worse than him being sick--i want to take it away

-I will drop kick the kid who bit him (lol)

-The words "Momma Momma" melt me everytime

-A new adoration for puppies and penquins (DS LOVES them)

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That I can be on only 4 hours of sleep and still be the happiest person on the planet as soon as I see my beautiful son's smile.

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A few of the things I learned this year...

-Mommeeee is my new favorite word

-Christmas lights are the most amazing things ever - he sees the same lights on my neighbors house every day but get just as excited every day

-there is an overwhelming sense of joy and pride when he learns something new

-it's OK if the whole bathroom gets wet during bathtime because we are laughing and splashing and having fun

-to understand words other might not...elpant = elephant, dopin = dolphin, chicken=i'm hungry and want food! lol, emo is nemo not elmo etc.

-that my day is better when DS is happy. The house might not always get cleaned, or a gourmet dinner might not make it to the table, but when DS is happy because we had a fun day that is all that matters!

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What a wonderful post- thank you!

My children have taught me three main things this year.....

That no matter how hard something seems, you can do it. When it was my first day entirely alone with my 18 month old and my 2 month old I was terrified....but I survived and now I feel like a very competent mommy!

That time goes by so very fast now....we have to grab onto these days even when they seem so hard because they are so precious!

Most importantly- to stop complaining about little things and to remember how incredibly lucky I am for my two children, their health, DH, my home, my job, the support of my parents. Yes, I am tired- but so what? I am blessed!

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I just had a chance to read all of your posts (uninterrupted )....
You all said such lovely and poignant things!!!!!

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I put this thread in my notebook. It's amazing how you women know what's in my soul, because we all share these feelings for our kids.

What did I learn:

- That I have boundless, endless, amazing amounts of patience. More than I ever knew I had. ONLY for Cailen, though!

- To let go of my own views and ideas, and make room for someone else's. Now that he is growing into toddler-hood, I am meeting a new person, and I must make accommodations for that person everyday!

- Being next to him, silent, or reading a book, or watching him watch his favorite show, will always, always be Heaven to me.

- I learned that I am capable of being a good mother. I doubted this everyday of my life until I gave birth to him.

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Ava- She has taught me that no matter how hard things seem, just to accept and love the child that God has given you.

Brody- He taught me to let go of all of my fears, to have another child, and to enjoy the perfect, sweet little butterball that I have been blessed with..

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The biggest lesson my daughter has taught me is that there is no better love, more pure, innocent and unconditional then hers.

She has literally been there for me when i was sad, she gave me hugs and would say it will be okay, or when i have been sick, she would pretend to take my temperature and offer to give me medicine.

Now is me and her, and she is the best gift that god has ever given me, and despite her struggles in her development, she truly amazes me everyday and i can't wait to learn more everyday.

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PATIENCE......I tell myself this so often.

And to enjoy the moment. I so often say to myself" remember this moment".

Love...This undeniable, AMAZING overpowering love. When he is hurt I break into a million pieces inside.

And yet he has taught me about empathy.

When I see his face light up at the sight of snow or smile over something simple...I want so badly for those I care about who are trying to have babies to experience what I have and I fill with a sense of empathy and longing for them. It is those moments when I tried to Have a baby for so long I longed for....The everyday mundane moments that now make life so much more meaningful for me.

He has also taught me about being selfish and selfless. He cares deeply about others, BESIDES me and to see the joy he brings others, means I have to stand back and allow it. Allow him to spread his love...and believe it or not it is hard as a Mother to share his love.

Its those weird things other then love and patience that have made me (I HOPE!) a better person.

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I've learned:

- That there is NO greater love in the world than the love you feel for your child.

- That true happiness comes from being a parent......I've NEVER loved anything more than being a mommy.

- That you just can't be in a bad mood around your baby.........Emerson's smiles just melt me and I can't help but to stare at her sweet face and smile back.

- To appreciate every day, every minute, every second because they grow and change so fast and I don't want to miss a thing.

- To just relax, not sweat the small stuff, and enjoy each day. Emerson is SO happy, no worries.......when I am with her I am the same way!! All the problems of the world just seem miles away.

This has been an AMAZING year.......from finding out I was pregnant, to carrying her for 9 months, to her birth, and now to being with her every day watching her grow and change. I eagerly look forward to 2009 because now that Emerson is here I know it will be a fantastic year!! How can it not be.......just look at this litte princess!!! She couldn't be any cuter!!!
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Eryk:
confirmed my belief that family is all that matters
showed me that I can have limitless patience
showed me that life is great simply by cooing while getting his diaper changed
converted me into a person who loves babies
oh, and lets not forget.... he showed me that I don't REALLY need sleep

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That you really CAN love your second child as much as your first even though you didn't think it was possible to love anyone as much.

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I learned:

We all need a good nap sometimes.

Having perfect hair is not what matters. Having hair that is fun to play with is more important.

That people will have no choice but to understand that my child is my priority.

That a man using a Baby Bjorn might get kicked in the balls.

That I can sing out of tune and someone will enjoy it.