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spooks
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Sarah
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Ever make a big decision and freak out
I changed jobs recently and granted, its only been a week and I need to give it time definitely, but I'm scared I made the wrong decision. I just feel like I'm all over the place lately - not sure what I want, if I'm doing the right thing, etc.
Just needed to vent. I'm like a big ball of nerves these days.
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Posted 5/30/07 10:47 PM  |
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tsullivan
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Re: Ever make a big decision and freak out
It's normal to second-guess yourself after making a big decisiion like that, especially because you're new at your job and don't really know everyone yet. The last time I switched jobs, I called my employment agency every day for two weeks begging them to find me someone else...and ended up staying at that firm for almost 10 years. Give it time, let yourself get acclimated, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there, be friendly, and ask for help when you need it. In a month, you may be looking at your move in an entirely different way. Good luck!
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| Posted 5/30/07 10:54 PM |
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dm24angel
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Donna
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Re: Ever make a big decision and freak out
Always! Im so bad at decisions, even small decisions make me feel this way.
my best advice is give it lots of time. Time changes so much. Especially with a new job, you have to really settle in.
I was unsure about my job till almost a year into it.
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| Posted 5/30/07 10:56 PM |
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
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Re: Ever make a big decision and freak out
Posted by tsullivan
It's normal to second-guess yourself after making a big decisiion like that, especially because you're new at your job and don't really know everyone yet. The last time I switched jobs, I called my employment agency every day for two weeks begging them to find me someone else...and ended up staying at that firm for almost 10 years. Give it time, let yourself get acclimated, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there, be friendly, and ask for help when you need it. In a month, you may be looking at your move in an entirely different way. Good luck!
ITA
It usually takes 2 weeks to get used to a new place.
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| Posted 5/30/07 11:09 PM |
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CAT215
The Merlster
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Cathie
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Re: Ever make a big decision and freak out
Yes! For about the first 6 months after I had moved lock, stock & barrel with my two cats to NY to be with DH. I rented my house in UK and sold my car, couldn't take the cats back without 6 months of quarantine for them and I kept thinking "What have I done" I cried a lot. Trust me it gets better, you just have to be open to the adjustment. Good luck
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CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)
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Jen - counting my blessings...
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Re: Ever make a big decision and freak out
I just FM'd you
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| Posted 5/31/07 9:26 AM |
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