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LIF Zygote
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Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
Hey
I feel Like NO One Understands Me ...
No one knows what to say to me or how to act around me.
My husband is in denial. All our friends have kids. And then theres me/us the
Infertility couple.
I'm a very strong person but this Infertility is really tough. 5 IUI's and 2IVF's And then the phone call Sorry the test is negative. I thought I was all cried out but it seems to be getting worse.
When do I take control of my life again.
How many times do I try before I say enough??
Message edited 4/14/2008 6:56:33 PM.
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MrsMessina
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
I'm sorry.  It's really difficult, and it stinks.... I wish I had something more insightful to say, but you're definitely not alone in your feelings. 
ETA: I noticed you just responded to my torture thread... I was really upset yesterday, and wanted to make sure you so it so you weren't feeling alone in your thoughts/feelings. I am feeling a little more hopeful today. I hope tomorrow is better for you. We're here if you need to talk/vent!
Message edited 4/14/2008 6:30:56 PM.
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babyquestions
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
I know how much this sucks...
But we are all here for you...
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| Posted 4/14/08 7:10 PM |
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kmac
Two under two!
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Kris
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. Here are some  and  for you.
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| Posted 4/14/08 8:13 PM |
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juju
Welcome to the World!
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
So Sorry!! I also want control of my life. It su cks knowing that this is out of my hands.
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Bops
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
...You are definately not alone
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| Posted 4/14/08 8:50 PM |
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BigB
C & J are 10!
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Stacey
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
I am so sorry......IF STINKS and there is no other way to say it!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 4/14/08 9:42 PM |
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DRMom
Two in Blue
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
One thing that always helped me was this statement said by Dr. Alan Beer:
There is no unexplained infertility, only undiscovered.
Have you had all the tests? Have you done immune testing? Have you been your own advocate and done your own research and not only followed your Dr's? If you can answer no to any of these questions, your baby is probably waiting for you. Best of luck
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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
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SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
You are not alone. We understand what you are going through.
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fullofhope13
Please stay little one
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
I know all too well how you feel.
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| Posted 4/15/08 8:35 AM |
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shaye3
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Laura
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
Like everyone else said you are not alone...your feelings are totally understandable..sending
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Diana712
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
Posted by melijane
One thing that always helped me was this statement said by Dr. Alan Beer:
There is no unexplained infertility, only undiscovered.
Have you had all the tests? Have you done immune testing? Have you been your own advocate and done your own research and not only followed your Dr's? If you can answer no to any of these questions, your baby is probably waiting for you. Best of luck
Great advice ITA!!
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BA2008
Need to find some hope!
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
We're all here with you. We totally understand. None of this is easy. I just hope the day we have what we want we forget about all this suffering and pain.
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| Posted 4/15/08 10:31 AM |
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Sneezy
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
I understand you and I am sorry for what you are going through.
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| Posted 4/15/08 9:57 PM |
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jellybean78
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
I'm sorry IF sucks....you are definitely not alone
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| Posted 4/15/08 10:00 PM |
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babyfaith
Onward and Upward!
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Re: Feel Like NO ONE Understands Me Anymore
I don't know if this will help, but it might be a good time to take a break for a while and regroup. I know that if this month doesn't work out for me, I will be taking a few months off to recharge and reassess. I have done 5 medicated IUI cycles and I am emotionally and physically beat up. I can only imagine how worn out you must feel.
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