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? for the TTC'ers

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Scotty-CassidysMom
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Stacy

? for the TTC'ers

How do the DH's handle the BFN's? Do they make it like it's no big deal, or get as upset as you?
I know most men are sooo different from women, just wondering what their reaction is.

Posted 5/15/05 7:25 AM
 
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DebG
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The cure IS worse!

Re: ? for the TTC'ers

The first three months I did not tell DH I was even taking HPT's. When I did start telling him at first he did not react at all, then he got as upset asand act as the rock in our relationship.

Posted 5/15/05 9:10 AM
 

MrsJ
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Kathy

Re: ? for the TTC'ers

DH tries not to get his hopes up because we have had a BP and then turned in to a BFN. He still gets upset. I think for him, seeing me cry hysterically is more upset than a BFN.

Posted 5/15/05 10:41 AM
 

bellarina
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Re: ? for the TTC'ers

I don't tell him I test. I just tell him when AF comes and he doesn't act any different. Today he is pushing me to make a Dr appt to talk about fertility. He practically yelled at me saying "what are you waiting for! You know I want a baby NOW!" Uhhhhh, this is the most emotion he has shown since we started TTC!

Posted 5/15/05 10:45 AM
 

leighla
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Lauren

Re: ? for the TTC'ers

I don't tell him when I test either. Only once did I tell him, early on. But the rest of the time I just telll him when AF comes.

I think he'd think I was nuts if he knew how much I tested.

Posted 5/15/05 1:47 PM
 

Diane
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D

Re: ? for the TTC'ers

I get very upsaet, and will cry, but it will go away in a few days.

Posted 5/15/05 4:00 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Gerty ®

Re: ? for the TTC'ers

He has been pretty good...He knows there is a problem so we haven't been getting our hopes up too much...I think now that we are going to an RE he may be alot more disappointed when there is a BFN.

Posted 5/15/05 11:47 PM
 

dm24angel
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Donna

Re: ? for the TTC'ers

I didnt tell him at first , and still really dont that I test. I will tell him after, when he asks that I was getting BFN's. He thinks its bad for me to test so often. BUT he also pushes me to test at like 3dpo...Chat Icon

Posted 5/16/05 8:13 AM
 

LnR6604
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Licia

Re: ? for the TTC'ers

At first I told him, but I think I would have drove him crazy if he knew how much I tested. I do know he was a little disappointed with all the negatives, but he stays positive for me, at least that's what he shows

Posted 5/16/05 8:35 AM
 
 

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