Gee thanks....

I still keep in touch with this one girl I worked with at my last job. We are pretty close so she knows what I have been doing through trying to have a baby.

So she emails me today asking how everything went this week. Ok that was nice. Not so ***** nice?? She proceeds to tell me about this other girl our age that I worked with who is pregnant. It gets better. The girl cant afford to have a baby, shes single, she slept with her ex and now shes keeping the baby as a way to have him in her life even though he wants nothing to do with her or the baby.

Nice right?? Im actually mad right now. And thats one thing I havent felt in awhile; anger. Its not really in me to get "mad" over other people having problem free babies but this situation, I thought, did NOT have to be told to me

Rant over. Im being bitter and I need to stop.

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Vent away!!

People can be very inconsiderate. She prob shouldn't have told you that story. How would that benefit you are what would you get out of knowing that...She should of just kept it to herself.

I def have heard some ridiculous things from friends after going through this. I even had one of my closest friends tell me 2 weeks after my 2nd miscarriage She is going to start trying for a BABY in a Freaken email... REally?? How about not telling me in an email right after i had my 2nd miscarriage.


I understand how you feel....Especially feeling mad. That is how I felt after getting my email from my friend. It's not that you are mad at the girl pregnant but upset that the girl who shared this with you didn't think to NOT share this with you right now.

I just realized after having miscarriages you will go through so many... Jealousy, devastation, sadness, getting mad, guilt...etc. You name...I def have felt that way at one point! lol



I know it sucks...but You will be on your way to having a healthy BABY!!!! I am praying for you!!!

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Posted by bride07



Vent away!!

People can be very inconsiderate. She prob shouldn't have told you that story. How would that benefit you are what would you get out of knowing that...She should of just kept it to herself.

I def have heard some ridiculous things from friends after going through this. I even had one of my closest friends tell me 2 weeks after my 2nd miscarriage She is going to start trying for a BABY in a Freaken email... REally?? How about not telling me in an email right after i had my 2nd miscarriage.


I understand how you feel....Especially feeling mad. That is how I felt after getting my email from my friend. It's not that you are mad at the girl pregnant but upset that the girl who shared this with you didn't think to NOT share this with you right now.

I just realized after having miscarriages you will go through so many... Jealousy, devastation, sadness, getting mad, guilt...etc. You name...I def have felt that way at one point! lol



Cheer Up!! You are one your way to having your BABY!!!!

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VENT ON!!! People are just BIG OLE A$$'s!!!!!!

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Vent away!!! I get so angry when stuff like that happens. Some girls dont even know how lucky they are to get pg without any complication. I am still trying to get back on track with this molar pg situation and everyone around me keeps telling me how wonderful their children are or how much they love being pg. and here I am still with the pg hormone and dealing with a 3 1/2 month mc which has been haunting me forever. I still cry every time I hear someone is pg esp this girl I work with. She always comments on her sonogram appt but the best is when she tells me how easy it was for her to get pg and doesnt understand why I am still not pg. AHHH really is it necessary. What a relief to get that all out? Sorry for my venting on your post.

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