LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Posted By Message
Pages: 1 [2] 3

Little-J-Mommy
I'm a Big Brother

Member since 5/06

8041 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Posted by Moehick

OMG Rachel....if they don't care enough to visit you don't make a point to go over there anymore....I just feel bad for JT as wellChat Icon



I agree.

I'm soooo sorry you're dealing with this. I hate when people make what should be a wonderful time miserable!!!
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 10:56 AM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.

Member since 7/05

57538 total posts

Name:

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Posted by prncssrachel

I feel really bad for him as well. Especially because he is so dying for them to actually care. It's sad. However, he's currently having somewhat of a breakthrough. When we left, his mother stuffed a five dollar bill in Ava's carseat (ew, can we say germs near my newborn baby?), and she said," Hang onto that Ava, that's for when we go to Disney World!" And JT promptly responded, "Even if I came here everyday and you gave her five dollars each time, it still wouldn't be enough for Disney, so stop lying to my daughter." And he walked out!Chat Icon



Poor JT!Chat Icon I can't imagine having parents like that.

Posted 7/13/06 10:57 AM
 

antoinette
boy mamma

Member since 5/05

2975 total posts

Name:
Antoinette

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

I would be so livid, My MIL is the same way. Everytime she comes over she doesnt even say hi to me she just grabs the baby from my arms and now at age 1 he is starting to feel the separation anxiety. SO besically everytime she hold him she says that I have to go away Chat Icon Chat Icon and doesnt let me near him. She does it in such an abrasive manner and the baby starts hysterical crying. Then she wonders why he doesnt jump into her arms Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 11:03 AM
 

pmpkn087
Life is good...

Member since 9/05

18504 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Posted by 2003fallwedding

Chat Icon I would not go there anymore Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I agree. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 11:03 AM
 

Melbernai
I am a lucky Momma!

Member since 7/05

15652 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

It's as if she was holding her the wrong way just to prove you wrong or something ... meanwhile she's not there in the middle of the night -- or all day long when you are the one taking care of an uncomfortable baby!

Posted 7/13/06 11:05 AM
 

DaniRN
Lovemykids!

Member since 5/05

1889 total posts

Name:
Danielle

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Posted by pmpkn087

Posted by 2003fallwedding

Chat Icon I would not go there anymore Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I agree. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I so agree too!!! What a beyotch!!!Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 11:07 AM
 

BaroqueMama
Chase is one!

Member since 5/05

27530 total posts

Name:
me

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Well, exactly. And when JT told her that she cries all day, her response was, "She NEVER cries at MY house." I was like, hello, that's because we never go there.Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 11:08 AM
 

yankinmanc
Happy Days!

Member since 8/05

18208 total posts

Name:

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Posted by nrthshgrl

I'm thinking you should just agree...repeat whatever she said "That's right Ava, Grandma doesn't know what she's doing. She is really crazy! What's that you want your mommmy? You don't like the crazy lady?"

Oh this could be just a huge fun time of passive aggressiveness.



you rule barb! Nothing like honesty
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 12:23 PM
 

justthe4ofus
I hate hypocrites!!!!!

Member since 5/05

6905 total posts

Name:

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

You should have ripped Ava out of her arms and bytch slap that fool!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

How dare she!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 1:28 PM
 

-DonnaMarie-
<3

Member since 5/05

6079 total posts

Name:

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Posted by nrthshgrl

I'm thinking you should just agree...repeat whatever she said "That's right Ava, Grandma doesn't know what she's doing. She is really crazy! What's that you want your mommmy? You don't like the crazy lady?"

Oh this could be just a huge fun time of passive aggressiveness.




yeah this is great, if it wouldn't start even more turmoil in your life I'd do this! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 1:30 PM
 

pinky
Twin Moms Do Everything Twice

Member since 5/05

9612 total posts

Name:

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

what a b**ch

Posted 7/13/06 1:38 PM
 

dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!

Member since 10/05

11561 total posts

Name:
Dina

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Posted by nrthshgrl

I'm thinking you should just agree...repeat whatever she said "That's right Ava, Grandma doesn't know what she's doing. She is really crazy! What's that you want your mommmy? You don't like the crazy lady?"

Oh this could be just a huge fun time of passive aggressiveness.



I agree, this is a great way to handle it.

RAch, sorry you are going through this with the MIL from HE LL!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 2:00 PM
 

CowgirlChick97
Nike. Just do it.

Member since 5/05

3303 total posts

Name:
Brianna

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Message edited 5/25/2007 7:31:43 PM.

Posted 7/13/06 2:20 PM
 

jenny
L O V E

Member since 4/06

2784 total posts

Name:
Mommy

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

That was so horrible for her to say that stuff.

Posted 7/13/06 4:11 PM
 

LuvMy2Girls
@>---------

Member since 5/05

11165 total posts

Name:
Mommy

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

That's awful! At least your MIL didn't give you the finger :)
I'm sorry you have awful IL's, how our DH's turned out so well baffles me!

Posted by Syliblond81106

so should i be glad that my fils are moving 2.5 hours away???



Oh distance doesn't help! Mine are 2.5 hours away and still manage to do things!

Posted 7/13/06 4:16 PM
 

Myrockette
~*~*~*~*~*~*~

Member since 5/05

5632 total posts

Name:

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

This post just reminded me of how glad I am to NOT have my IL's in my life!
Hugs to you Rachel and your BEAUTIFUL little AvaChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 4:28 PM
 

Sharon
So Big... So Fast!

Member since 5/05

2959 total posts

Name:

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

OMG Rachel! I know this is exactly what I am in for with my monster-in -law! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 4:44 PM
 

Maathy317
Grammie's Little Man

Member since 2/06

3235 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Posted by prncssrachel

Well, exactly. And when JT told her that she cries all day, her response was, "She NEVER cries at MY house." I was like, hello, that's because we never go there.Chat Icon



After reading all that you posted about your MIL and while I think that children need all the family they can get, I would, without a doubt, greatly limit the time she spends with your daughter and, never leave her unattended with her. This woman is either mentally unstable or she is the dumbest person God ever plopped on this earth. IMO, she will continue to do everything to undercut and undermine you to your daughter and, as she gets older, it will only get worse. I am a mother, grandmother and MIL and I have the great privilege of taking care of my grandson on a regular basis. I would never, ever do anything to jeopardize that arrangement. He is one of the greatest joys of my life and, if my daughter and son-in-law tell me to do something in a specific way, then I would do it. To defy them would just be idiotic. This woman needs a firm talking to. People like this drive me insane!

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 5:00 PM
 

BaroqueMama
Chase is one!

Member since 5/05

27530 total posts

Name:
me

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Message edited 11/27/2010 9:32:21 PM.

Posted 7/13/06 5:06 PM
 

orchid24
PARTY OF FIVE PLEASE!

Member since 3/06

2018 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

there are just some people in this world that HAVE to bring you down... they're ill mentally, and well, i'm sorry that is has to be your MIL.


as the saying goes, "misery loves company..."

Posted 7/13/06 5:52 PM
 

Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it

Member since 5/05

30683 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

that is PRETTY RUDE in my opinion. I would be ticked offChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 6:06 PM
 

luvmiboy
I love my sister!!!!!!

Member since 3/06

2100 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Posted by Marybeth222

I think I would have said yes Ava that's right I don't like her! LOL

I just don't get where people are just so rude. Chat Icon



Me tooChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 9:48 PM
 

rose825
Best Friends

Member since 6/05

10228 total posts

Name:

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

that was out of order!!!!Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/06 9:54 PM
 

MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug

Member since 5/05

11357 total posts

Name:
Kathy

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

I would have taken her back right away...and given her the finger Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon LOL

Posted 7/13/06 10:42 PM
 

dawnygirl25
Growing up soo fast..

Member since 1/06

14917 total posts

Name:
Dawn

Re: Go ahead MIL, tell my daughter how you REALLY feel.

Posted by 2003fallwedding

Chat Icon I would not go there anymore Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



me neitherChat Icon

Posted 7/14/06 7:51 AM
 
Pages: 1 [2] 3
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
How would you feel? (Long, MIL issue) CathyB 1/5/06 13 Parenting
MIL just called to tell me that - ****UPDATE**** Shorty 10/21/05 30 Families Helping Families ™
my daughter came home today to tell me that... janet 5/11/05 40 Families Helping Families ™
someone pls tell me u feel this way too nancygrace 8/2/06 4 Pregnancy
Can you tell me how early after Conceiveing, do you feel nauseous? NewTTCer 7/25/05 14 Pregnancy
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 1247217 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows