Had a complete meltdown...(not too long)

on Saturday night...or should I say Sunday morning since it was around 230am...
DH and I were talking about crappy music and just relaxing and out of nowhere I started hysterically crying...i couldn't stop, I could barely talk or breath and the only thing that I could get out was "i'm so scared". After having the MC 2 weeks ago I guess the thoughts of having problems conceiving again got to me. It was the strangest thing since it came totally out of left field...but i guess i was much more nervous about it then I thought.
Has this happened to anyone else?

Jenna

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I went through the same thing after I miscarried. I was adament about getting PG right away and when I didn't I kept thinking the worst...what if the m/c did something? What if something's wrong?

It sure took it's toll every month we tried and I didn't get pg. And the stress didn't make for happy BD times either.

DH kept reassuring me that my body just needed time to heal...on it's OWN.

And you know what? He was right.

You have to give your body time to heal, whether or not your heart and mind are ready...it's up to your body. And my #1 advice is to NOT worry or be upset if it doesn't happen for you right away. You won't have any problems conceiving You have to trust that....but know that it might take a cycle or two before it does and that is OK.

I know it's this neverending rollercoaster we always seem to be on...but if you just allow yourself the time (I know it's a cliche)...it WILL HAPPEN for you. I promise. Trust in that.

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It's perfectly normal to feel this way. Really it's not something you are likely to really ever get over.

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I am sure what you are experiencing is totally normal.

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It sounds like a very normal reaction to suffering a loss.

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I think it is a normal reaction to everything you've been through

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it is very normal to feel that way.. and have meltdowns once in a while..

i went through it too.. thinking the same things that you did... through time things will get better! and you will be okay! you will have your little one..

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thanks everyone...i was feeling like a crazy

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I have never experianced a mc but I want to give you lots of

Message edited 3/23/2009 12:49:52 PM.

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You are entitled to have moments like that!!!

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I'm definitely more nervous since I had the miscarriage. At 2 weeks post a miscarriage I think your hormones were really beating you up. So put together what you've been through, the fear it brings and a surge of hormones, I know how it gets. I was there too. It gets easier and hopefully it will be a distant memory for us someday when we hold our newborns in our arms.

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I have never experianced a mc but I want to give you lots of

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thanks for all the !!!!