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half of my FIRST mothers day ruined....

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staceyd
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stacey

half of my FIRST mothers day ruined....

Thank you girls for making me feel better.. I thought I was just overreacting... and maybe I was.. but knowing others would have been upset, or others have been there... makes me feel better...

Just to let you know, the rest of the day, with my family, and with just DH and DD were wonderful!!! So it wasnt a complete bust!

Message edited 5/11/2009 9:18:43 AM.

Posted 5/10/09 9:21 PM
 
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Hofstra26
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I would be hurt too. Sometimes in-laws just stink!!

Posted 5/10/09 9:25 PM
 

an9elic
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im so sorry they did that to you.. have you asked DH to talk to them and try to find out whats going on? that is not right of them to treat you that way... i hope the situation gets straightened out and it doesnt happen to you again. Chat Icon

Posted 5/10/09 9:25 PM
 

staceyd
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stacey

Re: half of my FIRST mothers day ruined....

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im so sorry they did that to you.. have you asked DH to talk to them and try to find out whats going on? that is not right of them to treat you that way... i hope the situation gets straightened out and it doesnt happen to you again. Chat Icon



I did today... it was the first time I really got visibly upset.. Im sure they saw and had no idea why though...

Posted 5/10/09 9:27 PM
 

jana
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Re: half of my FIRST mothers day ruined....

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Insensitive & Inconsiderate!
I'd be hurt as well... too bad you didn't get a chance to get your hands MIL's camera & find a quick way to erase the pics. None of you- but none of them either!

Message edited 5/10/2009 9:29:07 PM.

Posted 5/10/09 9:27 PM
 

bklyngirl
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Gail

Re: half of my FIRST mothers day ruined....

does dh know why they do this to you? they should've made this day special for you

Posted 5/10/09 9:34 PM
 

littlejoy06
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Re: half of my FIRST mothers day ruined....

First off, Happy 1st Mother's Day!!!


I'm so sorry that happened to you. I would be really upset to. Just be strong and know that your DD and DH love you very much and that is all that matters. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/10/09 9:36 PM
 

Katie111806
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Re: half of my FIRST mothers day ruined....

Aww I totally know how you feel. This totally sounds like my in-laws...I lost it at my DS' baptism because I was totally being excluded from all the photos and like you said, we are the mothers!!!! Hang in there, sending you lots of hugs! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/10/09 9:37 PM
 

msangel
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sorry you are going through this. I know how you feel

Posted 5/10/09 9:45 PM
 

beachgirl13
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Posted 5/10/09 9:45 PM
 

babyonthebrain
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That is soooooooo mean and RUDE!!!!!!!
I would absolutely be upset!

Posted 5/10/09 9:48 PM
 

EmmaNick
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Posted 5/10/09 10:03 PM
 

lvdolphins
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I am so sorry! No One deserves to be treated like that! Definitley have DH talk to them! His family acted very rudely!

Posted 5/10/09 10:08 PM
 

staceyd
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stacey

Re: half of my FIRST mothers day ruined....

DH already knows.. do I tell him to "pursue" it.. find out why, and how much it hurts me? OR do I just let it go... thinking now that he is aware it happens, he will see it next time and maybe say something..

I dont want DH's family to start taking sympathy photos.. its not about the photos really.. its just the feeling like I dont even exist..

Posted 5/10/09 10:10 PM
 

preggo08
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Re: half of my FIRST mothers day ruined....

I don't think you're overreacting....I would be really hurt tooChat Icon

Posted 5/10/09 10:38 PM
 

mooshyboo
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Not sure what happened but here are some Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon glad the second half of your day was nice!Chat Icon

Posted 5/11/09 10:24 AM
 

Stefanie

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Re: half of my FIRST mothers day ruined....

I didn't see what happened but I can relate...my first mother's day was ruined too.Chat Icon

Posted 5/11/09 10:28 AM
 
 

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