My parents live at the Hamlet in Hauppauge so the shower (not a surprise party) might be there, but I've been there a thousand times and my sister and I want something a bit different. It still may be there, but has anyone been to:

Mirabelle at the Three Village Inn in Stony Brook (I haven't been since it changed over)
Casa Rustica in Smithtown (I've been to eat but never in the party room...is it nice??)
Old Field Club in E. Setauket (looks so nice and I hear they can partition off the room.)

It will be some time in the fall. Just getting some ideas now. I'm sure there be like 40/45 ppl

thanks!