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mommy2bella
Where does time go?
Member since 12/05 9747 total posts
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Kelly
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Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
I am so overwhelmed...with the holidays coming up and the guaranteed drama it will have now that we are talking to SIL again (I hate her), quitting my job in three weeks, and potentially going into contract for a house like tomorrow and writing a very ginormous check...it's just too much...
I try to breathe but it's like Whoa! Slow down...we weren't even LOOKING for a house two weeks ago.
I haven't slept, I can't eat and nobody seems to understand that...
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Marcie
Complete Happiness :)
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LOVE being a Mommy!
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
I understand - only I am looking for a job not quitting one
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| Posted 11/9/06 11:48 AM |
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Bxgell2
Perfection
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Beth
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
 You're a STRONG woman, you'll get through it. And if all else fails, I'll gladly join you in having a nervous breakdown!  
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| Posted 11/9/06 11:49 AM |
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baghag
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
I'm sorry you are overwhelmed, but those are all positive changes- accomplishments you should be proud of! 
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| Posted 11/9/06 11:49 AM |
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ggt08
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
kel
hang in there... we all understand what you are going through and are excited for you.. These are GOOD things that are happening... Just all at the same time... go figure!!!!!
It is A LOT of pressure and you can really only truly understand the pressure we can only support you and be there for whatever you need.... SO we do understand!!!!! :)
Love ya and hang in there!!!!
ps... we need to discuss monday and the fundraiser!!!
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| Posted 11/9/06 11:51 AM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
Member since 2/06 24849 total posts
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Beth
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
change always comes for me all at once too!
you will get thru it all- you are strong!
hang it there- focus on the positive- Bella having a fab house to grow and and play in!
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| Posted 11/9/06 11:53 AM |
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
It will all be over soon - hang in there!
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| Posted 11/9/06 11:54 AM |
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BabyAvocado
Happy New Year
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
Wow I didn't know you were getting a new house! Congrats! 
Sounds overwhelming but I know you'll make it!
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| Posted 11/9/06 11:56 AM |
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Shelly
She's 7!!!
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
Its a lot of changes, but all for the better.
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| Posted 11/9/06 12:05 PM |
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Sweets13
Bella Bambini
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
I know exactly how your feeling!!!
I was pregnant and we were house hunting....we found the house and went inot contract.....
It was 2 weeks before my due date and we we closed on our house and moved in...
I thought I was going to go into labor the day we moved from all the stress...but it all worked out. Everyone kept telling me to calm down and to relax and not do anything.I thought they were all crazy!!
In the end...n 2 days we had the entire house put together....all of our new furniture was delivered and the POD with all of our stuff from our prior house was delivered on the same day..and that night we slept in our new bed in our new house and I didnt have the baby!!
With family and friends by your side...you will be OK!!!
Message edited 11/9/2006 12:07:04 PM.
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| Posted 11/9/06 12:06 PM |
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Diva
I am what I am
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Jennifer
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
Its stressful now, but I promise you the rewards will be amazing. Just hang in there
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| Posted 11/9/06 12:07 PM |
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DonnaJoe708
Hello
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
I feel your pain...we're in the process of buying a house too and my DH is having minor surgery on Monday, plus the stress of the holidays is not helping me. I had a mini-breakdown last night!
Many hugs for you!
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| Posted 11/9/06 12:11 PM |
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Kate07
Feel better my little guy!
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Kate
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
Posted by mommy2bellabean
I haven't slept, I can't eat and nobody seems to understand that...
How could they not? It is a lot to go through. Change is good, but usually overwhelming. When you are going through several at once - 
Message edited 11/9/2006 12:27:52 PM.
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| Posted 11/9/06 12:26 PM |
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AimeeE2006
Time flies!
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Aimee
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
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| Posted 11/9/06 12:56 PM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
Ride the wave and before you know it you will end up on the sunny beach....better job, new, beautiful house...and St Patricks day which is on a Saturday so woo hoo....
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| Posted 11/9/06 1:09 PM |
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mommy2bella
Where does time go?
Member since 12/05 9747 total posts
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Kelly
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
Thanks everyone! I am feeling a little bit better...it's just a lot of stuff going on at the same time. I just wrapped my head around giving notice in a few weeks and now I have to start packing. And it would be much better for me to move in December because I don't want to be moving and starting a job...but um, December is NEXT month.
I guess I should be used to this since back when I was getting married I was working on two TV shows, apartment shopping, signed my lease the day before my wedding and moved the day after I got back from my honeymoon and left to work in LA for a month two days later...
I'm getting too old for this...I hate change.
Thanks for listening to me 
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| Posted 11/9/06 3:14 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
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Tania
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
Kelly, you are strong woman and only better things will happen from now on.
You should be extremely proud of your accomplishments !!
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| Posted 11/9/06 3:16 PM |
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mommy2bella
Where does time go?
Member since 12/05 9747 total posts
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Kelly
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
Posted by Aliasmom
Kelly, you are strong woman and only better things will happen from now on.
You should be extremely proud of your accomplishments !!
Thanks girlie...
everyone is soooo supportive...if I am homeless, will you take me in well, kdelace may have no choice
that's just my twisted sense of humor kickin' in...
and Beth, don't think I ain't joining the nervous breakdown club with you...I am a charter member!
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| Posted 11/9/06 3:38 PM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
Member since 2/06 24849 total posts
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Beth
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
on another note- Bella is seriously the cutest kid I have ever seen!
I love that pic of her!
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| Posted 11/9/06 3:41 PM |
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pugmama
April already?
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Erica
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
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Stefanie
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
Kel...I'm living the same life. I'm so stressed out too..although, I'm trying to find a job.
Everything will work out in the end...
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| Posted 11/9/06 4:02 PM |
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Jessica
I'm a mommy :)
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
hey you know what...
after reading your posts throughout the months and getting to "know" you, you seem to be a very strong, intelligent woman.
If anyone can handle all that stress, you are definitely one of them
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| Posted 11/9/06 4:05 PM |
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mommy2bella
Where does time go?
Member since 12/05 9747 total posts
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Kelly
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
Posted by Stefanie
Kel...I'm living the same life. I'm so stressed out too..although, I'm trying to find a job.
Everything will work out in the end...
Maybe we should start a first-time homebuyer's board so we can all freak out together 
I am so excited...and so scared...such a mixture of extreme emotions. I can't wait to start decorating, but scared that it will cost $$....
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| Posted 11/9/06 4:18 PM |
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ggt08
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
Posted by mommy2bellabean
Posted by Stefanie
Kel...I'm living the same life. I'm so stressed out too..although, I'm trying to find a job.
Everything will work out in the end...
Maybe we should start a first-time homebuyer's board so we can all freak out together
I am so excited...and so scared...such a mixture of extreme emotions. I can't wait to start decorating, but scared that it will cost $$....
kelly you know I love ya and will DO Anything I can to help you guys!!! I know its A LOT to grasp.. and ALL AT ONCE!!!! but just know you do have me to lean on...i have moved SEVERAL times over the past 5 years so i am good at that!!!
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| Posted 11/9/06 4:38 PM |
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Myrockette
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Re: Holidays, quitting my job, new house...
'07 looks like an awesome year for you!!
Hang in there
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| Posted 11/9/06 4:46 PM |
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