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How and When do I ask for more time on maternity leave?

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pickles16
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Jen

How and When do I ask for more time on maternity leave?

I only get the standrad 6 weeks disability. I'm currently 17 weeks, my company is relatively small and I'm one of two in the NY office, the main office is in Cali...they take care of their employees but the past two girls that went on maternity leave didn't come back, and I'm not sure what I want to do as of yet...so I wanted to just ask for 6 more weeks off at the least....I also wanted to ask for work from home time when I come back, but I figured that was a subject to talk about while on maternity leave and getting ready to come back...any insight would be helpful!!!
TIA!!!!!!!

Posted 7/14/08 11:50 AM
 
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Re: How and When do I ask for more time on maternity leave?

i think your best bet is to have your doctor write you off for the full 12.
while you are maternity leave, unfortunately you may have to "play up" your discomfort.
just really complain about your back etc.
doctors are pretty generous with writing you time off b.c it becomes a liability to them if you go back to work too soon.

if you take off 12 weeks, will they pay you for just 6 or will they work with you?

Posted 7/14/08 12:04 PM
 

pickles16
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Re: How and When do I ask for more time on maternity leave?

Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo

i think your best bet is to have your doctor write you off for the full 12.
while you are maternity leave, unfortunately you may have to "play up" your discomfort.
just really complain about your back etc.
doctors are pretty generous with writing you time off b.c it becomes a liability to them if you go back to work too soon.

if you take off 12 weeks, will they pay you for just 6 or will they work with you?





Well thats what I want to figure out...but what 12 weeks? I thought standard FMLA is 6 weeks??? now im confused....

Posted 7/14/08 12:15 PM
 

lovemy2boys
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Re: How and When do I ask for more time on maternity leave?

standard FMLA is 12 weeks. it sounds like your company will pay you for 6 weeks only right?

Posted 7/14/08 12:18 PM
 

Ali1
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Re: How and When do I ask for more time on maternity leave?

FMLA is 12 weeks (but your company is only covered by this is they have 50+ employees).

I am assuming you will get paid 6 weeks via disability. You can at that point use up your vacation time if you have any left and the remainder will be taken as unpaid leave.

Honestly, I think you should be up front with your company. If you don't plan on coming back then you don't need to say anything, but if you want more time off you should ask for it before you go out. Also, if you want to work from home after the baby is here i would also bring that up before you go out. I find that bosses are more apt to say yes to this then after you go out. My boss knew how long i was taking off and what i wanted when i came back before i left the office.

From my point of view, I think it comes off as kind of "shifty" to ask for things after you are out on leave. In kind of comes off as you are saying well I am out now and I want this and this now. And please don't flame, this is JMO.

Message edited 7/14/2008 12:33:21 PM.

Posted 7/14/08 12:32 PM
 

dani731
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Re: How and When do I ask for more time on maternity leave?

If you have short term disability coverage & your doctors says you are still disabled after the first 6 weeks you should be able to still get paid from the disability insurance company. Short term disability goes up to 13 weeks. After 13 weeks it becomes long term disability.

Posted 7/14/08 12:35 PM
 

pickles16
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Re: How and When do I ask for more time on maternity leave?

Ok, to make it easier this is my maternity policy spelled out:
So essentially if I'm getting this correctly I get 6 weeks of paid disability and 6 weeks of nothing....
Pregnancy Disability Leave (PDL)

Purpose of leave: Leave is available to female Employees who are disabled by pregnancy or a condition related to pregnancy as certified by a healthcare provider.

Who is eligible: All female Employees who are disabled by pregnancy or a condition related to it as certified by their healthcare provider.

Amount of leave: Pregnancy disability leave is available for the length of the Employee’s disability up to a maximum of four (4) months. In addition, a transfer to a less strenuous or hazardous position may be available pursuant to the Employee’s request if such a transfer is medically advisable by the Employee’s healthcare provider. Leave may be taken incrementally prior to delivery.



Required notice and documentation: Employees should give 30 days advance notice of the need for pregnancy disability leave, including the estimated time the leave will begin and end. When 30 days notice is not practicable, as much notice as possible should be given.



Prior to the start of the leave, the Company will require a statement from the Employee’s physician indicating an inability to perform the current job and the anticipated date of return. In the event the leave exceeds the anticipated date of return, it is the Employee’s responsibility to provide further verification from the attending physician that the Employee is unable to perform the job and the revised anticipated date of return.



Return to work: Employees who are granted leaves for pregnancy will be returned to their same or similar position in accordance with California law if they return at the end of their disability and within four (4) months of the start of their leave.



Effect on benefits: Depending on an Employee’s eligibility, medical insurance may be continued during the leave in accordance with the Plan Document, Cal-COBRA/COBRA, or provisions of federal/state law relating to unpaid medical leave. Benefit time off will not accrue during PDL. The Employee is required to use all PTO attributable to sick time at the start of the leave. The Employee may elect to use any remaining PTO during the leave.




Posted 7/14/08 12:41 PM
 

MrsS2005
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Re: How and When do I ask for more time on maternity leave?

Posted by pickles16

Ok, to make it easier this is my maternity policy spelled out:
So essentially if I'm getting this correctly I get 6 weeks of paid disability and 6 weeks of nothing....


You only get an additional 6 weeks of unpaid leave (12 weeks total) if your employer falls under FMLA. FMLA applies to employers with 50 or more employees within a 75 mile radius.

If you have complications from pregnancy and/or delivery making you disabled (unable to perform the functions of your job), you're entitled to 4 months of disability leave under your company's policy.

See if they'll work with you. Other than mentioning I want to take a few months off, I haven't spoken with my employer about my plans yet. I assume I'll do this by the time I'm 6 or 7 months. I don't think you need to worry about it yet, but if it would make you feel better to have things settled, you can bring it up now. Maybe you can tell them that you're starting to think about childcare options and you need to know when you'll need to make arrangements, etc.

ETA: CA may have a more generous state FMLA plan, but NY doesn't. I'm not sure which state's laws would apply since it's a CA based company. You'd have to talk to HR about that.

Message edited 7/14/2008 1:18:02 PM.

Posted 7/14/08 1:16 PM
 

pickles16
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Jen

Re: How and When do I ask for more time on maternity leave?

Posted by MrsS2005

Posted by pickles16

Ok, to make it easier this is my maternity policy spelled out:
So essentially if I'm getting this correctly I get 6 weeks of paid disability and 6 weeks of nothing....


You only get an additional 6 weeks of unpaid leave (12 weeks total) if your employer falls under FMLA. FMLA applies to employers with 50 or more employees within a 75 mile radius.

If you have complications from pregnancy and/or delivery making you disabled (unable to perform the functions of your job), you're entitled to 4 months of disability leave under your company's policy.

See if they'll work with you. Other than mentioning I want to take a few months off, I haven't spoken with my employer about my plans yet. I assume I'll do this by the time I'm 6 or 7 months. I don't think you need to worry about it yet, but if it would make you feel better to have things settled, you can bring it up now. Maybe you can tell them that you're starting to think about childcare options and you need to know when you'll need to make arrangements, etc.

ETA: CA may have a more generous state FMLA plan, but NY doesn't. I'm not sure which state's laws would apply since it's a CA based company. You'd have to talk to HR about that.



Thanks so much for explaining, not to be insanely slow. My company will def fall under FMLA, so I will get 6 weeks paid disability and 6 weeks non paid so a total of 12 weeks...which is essentially what I want...I was planning on talking to them when I'm in my 6th or 7th month as well....Chat Icon

Posted 7/14/08 1:20 PM
 

kimmie
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Kimberly

Re: How and When do I ask for more time on maternity leave?

I was given 12 weeks and wasnt planning on coming back for another 4 and was going to ask for the extra 4 when it got closer to the end of the 12 weeks but then I had PPD and the Dr wrote a letter saying he thought I needed some more time so I didnt go back for 16 weeks...

Posted 7/14/08 4:20 PM
 
 

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