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how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

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nickipa
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how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

im surprised that people have asked me this.....I always just respond that Im not keeping track. i thought asking about weight was sooo taboo....i guess all the rules go out the window if you're pregnant!!!

Posted 11/16/07 9:32 PM
 
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Calla
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

Depends who is asking and why. Sometimes I'll tell if the person has a reason for asking that makes any sense. Otherwise I'll just respond as though they were joking.

Posted 11/16/07 9:34 PM
 

nickipa
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

and I don't mean asking on this site or DH/SO knowing how much weight gained.......i mean family members, friends, etc

Posted 11/16/07 9:35 PM
 

Mkr09
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I really don't mind people asking me how much I gained, but only because I haven't gained a lot of weight. I'm 31 weeks and I've only gained 13.5 lbs. But I was very heavy before I got pregnant so I'm supposed to gain a lot of weight. If I was gaining more then I'm not sure if i'd feel comfortable sharing with the world.

Posted 11/16/07 9:48 PM
 

Rycois
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I'm really packing it on. I'm pretty honest about it b/c a) it's obvious and b) who cares. It's really not their business, but I haven't had anyone ask yet that I thought would judge me or misuse the information.

Posted 11/16/07 9:49 PM
 

JerseyMamaOf3
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I told them. It never bothered me.

Posted 11/16/07 9:56 PM
 

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Message edited 8/24/2009 2:00:24 PM.

Posted 11/17/07 7:22 AM
 

LisaI
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I don't mind I tell if someone asks.

Posted 11/17/07 7:57 AM
 

jodi714
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

Posted by Calla

Depends who is asking and why. Sometimes I'll tell if the person has a reason for asking that makes any sense. Otherwise I'll just respond as though they were joking.



me too

Posted 11/17/07 8:24 AM
 

ChrisDee
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I haven't really been asked too much but when I am I don't care. Maybe because I only gained one lb so farChat Icon

Posted 11/17/07 10:06 AM
 

nicrae
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I don't mind telling. I am almost 31 weeks and have only gained 17lbs.

Posted 11/17/07 10:10 AM
 

NewlyMrs
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I have not had anyone actually ask!

I think I'd flip, that's just rude!!!!!

Posted 11/17/07 10:57 AM
 

Sunshyne
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I don't really mind when people ask (I'm 27wks), usually I just say "I don't know 4...5..hundred pounds" because I really don't know & I feel HUGE!!!!!

Posted 11/17/07 11:03 AM
 

shellybean
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

i am a nut, i contastantly talk about my weight, im obsessed its so bad, i havent had many poeple ask thouhg, im 34 weeks going on 35 and ive gained about 22 pounds...i was a little overweight to start, maybe 20 pounds or so....so now i feel huge, im already thinking about how im gonna lose it...im sick

Posted 11/17/07 12:07 PM
 

bella
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

Posted by shellybean

i am a nut, i contastantly talk about my weight, im obsessed its so bad, i havent had many poeple ask thouhg, im 34 weeks going on 35 and ive gained about 22 pounds...i was a little overweight to start, maybe 20 pounds or so....so now i feel huge, im already thinking about how im gonna lose it...im sick



This is me as well. I discuss it with people but don't go into actual numbers. I have gained a lot of weight and most in the end of second trimester. Close to 50 pounds!!!! UGHH, I can't even type that without stressing about it! I only have a few weeks left (32 weeks now) but have to say I cannot wait to start losing. I was in very good shape and thin to start so this has been very difficult for me mentally, although I know it wil lbe worth it a million times over!

Posted 11/17/07 1:17 PM
 

jes81276
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I haven't been asked that, but I would be highly offended if someone did (unless it was my mom or DH) Not sure how I would answer.

Posted 11/17/07 1:39 PM
 

saraH
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

i told people, it honestly never bothered me.

Posted 11/17/07 1:53 PM
 

Suzanne
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I just say more than I should have at this point. I will not just tell anyone my weight gain. It is not their business and I find it weird people have the nerve to ask this question. They would never ask me that if I just gained weight without being pregnant.

Posted 11/17/07 2:01 PM
 

2BEANS
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I never understood why people ask that, i never did. and now that i had my child i wouldnt ask someone. weird huh...

Posted 11/17/07 6:11 PM
 

SpiceGirl
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I don't mind telling people how much weight I've gained...but there's NO WAY I'll tell them HOW much I actually weigh Chat Icon

Posted 11/17/07 8:07 PM
 

SeptemberBride03
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

Posted by cpanyc

I just say "The Dr. says I am right on target!"



I've only gaine 2.5lbs so far, but I like your comment, I'll have to use that when I get bigger.

Posted 11/18/07 10:21 AM
 

Chatham-Chick
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

Although I've never been asked that question, I'm pretty open about my weight gain. Most people don't believe me when I tell them how much I gained (I gained 60lbs w/DD) and at 22 weeks, I'm up approx. 30lbs with DS.

Message edited 11/18/2007 3:18:31 PM.

Posted 11/18/07 3:18 PM
 

Mrs
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Re: how do you respond to people asking how much weight you have gained?

I don't mind with family, but HATE when friends ask. I think its rude, and not nice. So.. I lieChat Icon

Posted 11/18/07 4:11 PM
 
 

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