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How long is a NW a NW?

Forum Opinion Poll
under 1 year 57 49.57%
under 2 years 47 40.87%
under 3 years 2 1.74%
under 4 years 0 0.00%
under 5 years 2 1.74%
until you have kids 7 6.09%
 

How long are you a NW for?

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MrsKS
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Member since 12/09

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Kerri

How long are you a NW for?

So what is your opinon on this...

Posted 7/23/10 11:11 AM
 

MrsFrizzle
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Kristin

Re: How long are you a NW for?

I've always thought of newlyweds as that for the first year.

Posted 7/23/10 3:28 PM
 

Mariabella
LIF Adult

Member since 4/10

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Mama

Re: How long are you a NW for?

Posted by jkfris09

I've always thought of newlyweds as that for the first year.



ITA

Posted 7/23/10 3:47 PM
 

springsandra
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Member since 11/09

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Sandra

Re: How long are you a NW for?

I'm breaking the rules by posting here since my anniversary was last week... Chat Icon

I always thought it was the first year after you get married.

Posted 7/23/10 3:52 PM
 

BeachGal
LIF Adult

Member since 2/10

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J

Re: How long are you a NW for?

I always thought it was under 2 years. Not sure though.

Posted 7/23/10 9:38 PM
 

MrsKS
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Kerri

Re: How long are you a NW for?

WOW! we are tied for 1 year and 2 years!! Chat Icon

Posted 7/24/10 2:43 AM
 

rosalie
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Member since 5/10

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rosalie

Re: How long are you a NW for?

I always thought it was 2 years, but recently a friend told it me it was until you had kids. Why does your marriage have to be defined by having kids? what if you never do?

My vote would be 1 or 2 years. I know I felt a lot less like a newlywed after the first year

Posted 7/24/10 12:07 PM
 

MissMeliss
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Re: How long are you a NW for?

Posted by BeachGal

I always thought it was under 2 years. Not sure though.



Same here.

Posted 7/24/10 6:36 PM
 

MrsKS
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Kerri

Re: How long are you a NW for?

Posted by rosalie

I always thought it was 2 years, but recently a friend told it me it was until you had kids. Why does your marriage have to be defined by having kids? what if you never do?

My vote would be 1 or 2 years. I know I felt a lot less like a newlywed after the first year




I guess the "newlywed" feeling phase dies out when kids come into the picture because the focus is seriously adjusted at that point.

I'm not saying this was my answer... I'm just assuming this is the intent behind anyone who voted "when you have kids".

Posted 7/28/10 9:15 AM
 

gporka23
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Re: How long are you a NW for?

I usually think newlyweds = 6 months..maybe a year.. no longer.

Posted 7/28/10 12:31 PM
 

BabyHopes15
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Aim

Re: How long are you a NW for?

Newly wed until you have kids! Chat Icon

Posted 7/29/10 9:49 PM
 

LastLightGlow
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Re: How long are you a NW for?

I definitely still feel like a newlywed. Married a little over 2 years, no kids yet..........

Posted 8/1/10 7:41 AM
 

wants-2-b-a-mommy
LIF Adolescent

Member since 6/10

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cant tell ya yet!

Re: How long are you a NW for?

i say that im not a newlywed to people and when i say that i just got married last july they say "oh your still an newlywed" ...lol so i guess i am!

Posted 8/1/10 5:51 PM
 

TaraVinny
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Member since 10/09

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Tara

Re: How long are you a NW for?

i guess 2 years but i'm really not sure

Posted 8/1/10 6:49 PM
 

DiamondGirl
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Member since 7/09

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Re: How long are you a NW for?

I kinda feel wierd posting here and we will two years in NovChat Icon

Honestly I do still FEEL like a newlywed though..maybe kids will change that Chat Icon

Posted 8/2/10 7:13 PM
 

MrsPJB2007
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MJ

Re: How long are you a NW for?

Posted by BabyHopes15

Newly wed until you have kids! Chat Icon



Oldywed crashing..

ehhhhhh i don't think this is a good definition because what if you never have kids or if you have to wait years to have a child due to IF issues?

I always thought of the newlywed phase lasting until the 2nd anniversary.

DH and I are married 3.5 years already and no kids, and definitely don't consider ourselves newlyweds. Chat Icon that phase is long gone!

Posted 8/2/10 10:20 PM
 

Otherme
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Re: How long are you a NW for?

Posted by MrsPJB2007

Posted by BabyHopes15

Newly wed until you have kids! Chat Icon



Oldywed crashing..

ehhhhhh i don't think this is a good definition because what if you never have kids or if you have to wait years to have a child due to IF issues?

I always thought of the newlywed phase lasting until the 2nd anniversary.

DH and I are married 3.5 years already and no kids, and definitely don't consider ourselves newlyweds. Chat Icon that phase is long gone!



yeah, another OldyWed crashing too Chat Icon

i'm coming up on my 5 yr anniversary
i'd say anywhere from 6 mos to a year was 'newlywed' phase for us

i also don't agree with anyone who says you're a newlywed until you have kids.. frankly it's a little insensitive to people who may have chosen to not have kids, or even worse, are having IF issues.





Posted 8/3/10 4:09 PM
 

laurenandmike619
LIF Adolescent

Member since 8/10

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Name:
Lauren

Re: How long are you a NW for?

I always thought it was just the first year but I think it depends on the couple. My best friend's parents are sooo in love and still have that spark - the relationship they have is just amazing. So I think it's all in the attitude. Again, I'm also not saying you need to feel like a newlywed in order to be happy either.

Posted 8/7/10 12:19 PM
 

Mrs213
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Re: How long are you a NW for?

1 year IMO

Posted 8/8/10 10:19 PM
 

rosalie
LIF Infant

Member since 5/10

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Name:
rosalie

Re: How long are you a NW for?

I think we stopped feeling like NW around the 1.5 year mark. Now it's back to feeling like an old married couple (which is how we felt even before we got married)

Posted 8/9/10 11:43 AM
 

guitargirl
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Member since 7/10

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Re: How long are you a NW for?

in my case, DH has a big family so to me, we were newlyweds until the next cousin or sibling got married. Because then all the "how's married life" comments defaults to them. Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/10 1:34 PM
 

PrettyPeonies
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Member since 8/10

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Name:
Pino

Re: How long are you a NW for?

Posted by rosalie

I always thought it was 2 years, but recently a friend told it me it was until you had kids. Why does your marriage have to be defined by having kids? what if you never do?

My vote would be 1 or 2 years. I know I felt a lot less like a newlywed after the first year



I always thought it was just your 1st year. I never heard either 2 yrs or till you have kiddies. Either way thats cool. I'm happy to stay in newlywed lovin status for as long as possible.

Posted 8/10/10 2:53 PM
 

hazeleyes33
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Ginger

Re: How long are you a NW for?

I have always heard 2 years.

Posted 8/12/10 4:41 PM
 

MikesBride
LIF Adult

Member since 12/09

1245 total posts

Name:
Ilana

Re: How long are you a NW for?

If you're a newlywed until you have kids then DH and I never were and never will be newlyweds since he has full custody of his daughter from another relationship...so I vote after a year.

Posted 8/20/10 2:52 PM
 

Teach723
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Re: How long are you a NW for?

I'd have to go with a year.

Posted 8/20/10 8:30 PM
 
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