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How many days do you go without having sex...

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AJsMommy122
Stop 2 smell the roses

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Maxine

How many days do you go without having sex...

before you start to get worried??? I always see on TV people think that their marriage is in trouble and they are freaking out after 10 days.
Am I the only oddball that dosent count the days?!?! And I am pretty sure we have gone longer then 10 days without and our marriage is just fine!Chat Icon

Message edited 8/30/2005 1:47:23 PM.

Posted 8/30/05 1:46 PM
 
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FeliciaDP

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Mommy

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Um... between DH's business trips and being sick, there have been times its been more than 10 days, trust me !!

Now I am pregnant, sick all the time and feeling overwhelmingly unromantic... hence, I cannot even begin to "count" the days w/out recently Chat Icon (poor DH!)

But am I worried? Naaaaah Chat Icon Our marriage is still alive & kicking Chat Icon

Message edited 8/30/2005 1:58:48 PM.

Posted 8/30/05 1:58 PM
 

Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn

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Janice

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

I admit to being a day counter. If it goes past too many days I feel like I am getting gipped out of a good thingChat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 2:01 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here

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Name:
Sonia

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Posted by Janice

I admit to being a day counter. If it goes past too many days I feel like I am getting gipped out of a good thingChat Icon



Gosh do you and my DH know each other...he keeps count!!Chat Icon I would have to say the longes has been 10 days when he was away.

Posted 8/30/05 2:09 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05

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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

on average 5-7 days

Posted 8/30/05 2:10 PM
 

hazeleyes33
LIF Adult

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Name:
Ginger

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

We usually don't go more than 7-10 days. The most was when I was pregnant both times in the beginning (1 month) and then at the end and after the births.

Posted 8/30/05 2:13 PM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

Member since 5/05

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Jennifer

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

about 5 days

Posted 8/30/05 2:16 PM
 

Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn

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Janice

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Posted by LadyLainez

Posted by Janice

I admit to being a day counter. If it goes past too many days I feel like I am getting gipped out of a good thingChat Icon



Gosh do you and my DH know each other...he keeps count!!Chat Icon I would have to say the longes has been 10 days when he was away.



Chat Icon Chat IconChat Icon I know I keep track then I start nagging and being slightly abusive to the poor guy. Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 2:19 PM
 

MrsDiamondgrlie
Bailey

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D

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Hmmm I never really thought about it in days rather than feelings. Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 2:45 PM
 

heidla
Me and the guys

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Heidi

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

DH and I work opposite schedules. On the few nights we do have time together he is usually so tired from work and school that we have long streches of no action. Sometimes I do start to wonder if he just is not attracted to me anymore, but in my heart I know that right now we are just in a difficult stage. When he finishes school I think things will be different.

Posted 8/30/05 2:46 PM
 

JenniferEver
The Disney Lady

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Jennifer

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Maybe this is TMI but I count weeks or months before I get upset. We don't live together and we don;t often get time alone together. but even if we lived together, I'd count weeks before I would even question it. Sometimes are more hectic than others and your moods don't always match up

Posted 8/30/05 3:10 PM
 

GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!

Member since 7/05

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Genna

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Posted by MrsDiamondgrlie

Hmmm I never really thought about it in days rather than feelings. Chat Icon



I completely agree 100%!!!!

Posted 8/30/05 3:16 PM
 

05mommy09
Family of 5!

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<3 Mommy <3

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Before I was pg. I never exactly counted the days... nor thought our relationship was in trouble if it had been more than a week, but would more or less look back and go WOW its been awhile...

Now... since I been pg. I will say DH has seriously been gipped... (tech. Im supposed to be on "pelvic rest) we've broken the rules.. but it hasnt been often... I feel in the end our son was well worth the 9 month dry spell..

Either way or marriage has not been effected negatively at all...

Posted 8/30/05 3:28 PM
 

Moehick
Ready for the sun!

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Properly perfect™

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

on average 5-7 days



Same here Saucy!Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 3:35 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
Kisses

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Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Maybe 5 days but it's rare.

The longest spell was a visit from AF and on the last day he left por a one week business trip and when he came back I was sick in the bed for 5 daysChat Icon

ETA: I'vve never worried about the relationship because of that.

Message edited 8/30/2005 3:38:10 PM.

Posted 8/30/05 3:36 PM
 

Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn

Member since 5/05

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Janice

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

I just went a week without since he was camping, I am a little embarrassed now when I listen to the voicemail messages I left him while he was gone. Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 3:38 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Sonia

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Posted by Janice

I just went a week without since he was camping, I am a little embarrassed now when I listen to the voicemail messages I left him while he was gone. Chat Icon



STALKER!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 3:39 PM
 

Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn

Member since 5/05

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Janice

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Posted by LadyLainez

Posted by Janice

I just went a week without since he was camping, I am a little embarrassed now when I listen to the voicemail messages I left him while he was gone. Chat Icon



STALKER!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon



I knowChat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 3:41 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05

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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Posted by Moehick

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

on average 5-7 days



Same here Saucy!Chat Icon



you would know how long we wait Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 3:42 PM
 

CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)

Member since 5/05

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Jen - counting my blessings...

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

ummm...there have been times where it was past 2 or 3 weeks!! Chat Icon But then when we do, its so good!

whoopss did I just write that? Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 3:45 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here

Member since 5/05

12023 total posts

Name:
Sonia

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Posted by MrsTC

ummm...there have been times where it was past 2 or 3 weeks!! Chat Icon But then when we do, its so good!

whoopss did I just write that? Chat Icon Chat Icon



WHOA Jenn! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 3:46 PM
 

Moehick
Ready for the sun!

Member since 5/05

30339 total posts

Name:
Properly perfect™

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by Moehick

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

on average 5-7 days



Same here Saucy!Chat Icon



you would know how long we wait Chat Icon Chat Icon



AHHH! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 3:47 PM
 

Bebalina
<3

Member since 6/05

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N

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

things happens, schedules get busy, u get sleepy, and b4 u know 2-3 wks go by, is that a sign for alarment? of course not, relationship is still rock solid.... now if months go by and nothing is going on that would prevent us from it, then yes thats cause for alarment...but no such thing has happened yet and hopefully never will

Posted 8/30/05 4:07 PM
 

IrishTracy
Believe!!

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Tracy

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

It would take alot longer then 10 days to make me worried about my marriage.

Posted 8/30/05 4:17 PM
 

Tany
Becoming a different woman

Member since 5/05

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Tania

Re: How many days do you go without having sex...

you really don't want to know, thing pregnancy.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/30/05 4:18 PM
 
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