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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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I don't know what to do....
so they will let us out of our lease- which is really what we want- with our sercurity back
but I paid $2775 to the real estate agent
and $1500 for movers
and I really don't feel like losing all that money- and having to pay it again- we really can't right now- we might have to pay to fix the car
I don't know what to do!
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Posted 10/23/06 11:20 AM  |
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
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Samantha aka Sammy Bones
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Posted by Beth1210
so they will let us out of our lease- which is really what we want- with our sercurity back
but I paid $2775 to the real estate agent
and $1500 for movers
and I really don't feel like losing all that money- and having to pay it again- we really can't right now- we might have to pay to fix the car
I don't know what to do!
are you going to sue? I prob missed your updates sweetie, but if you are going to sue you will prob get the money back right? tell me if I have no idea what i am talking about 
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:22 AM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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Re: I don't know what to do....
we are going to sue the parking gargage- so the car should be fixed for free- or covered under our insurance- theft
or if the tapes show they didn't take the car- which I doubt- then ford will cover it- b/c this should not have happened at 20K miles ( we already spoke to them)
but there are alot of variables there- and we are stilling waiting on the total damage
it goes back to I feel like we are being treated like we did something wrong
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:25 AM |
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
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Samantha aka Sammy Bones
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Posted by Beth1210
we are going to sue the parking gargage- so the car should be fixed for free- or covered under our insurance- theft
or if the tapes show they didn't take the car- which I doubt- then ford will cover it- b/c this should not have happened at 20K miles ( we already spoke to them)
but there are alot of variables there- and we are stilling waiting on the total damage
it goes back to I feel like we are being treated like we did something wrong
ughhhhh soooo annoying you are dealing with all of this stress.. again I am so sorry 
Well, only you guys can make that decision as to what you want to do.. If you really want out then go for it.. can't the realtor work with you on finding you your next place and not take a commission?
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:27 AM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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Re: I don't know what to do....
If you have the money to burn, I would get out personally.
we don't- I can ask the real estate agent to help us- and he might- he might not
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:29 AM |
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HollaGirl
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Isnt that what you wanted, to be let out of the lease and GTFO of there? The Real Estate agent is not going to give you your money back. 
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:30 AM |
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Maybe you can work a deal with the real estate agent to waive his fee for finding you another apt?
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:31 AM |
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Blu-ize
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Beth, I would cut my losses and move. I wouldn't feel comfortable living there after all this. I know the outlay of money is difficult but in the big picture, you will be better off.
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:32 AM |
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MikesWife
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Maybe the RE Agent will give you a discount if he helps you find a new place??
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:32 AM |
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Eva Luna
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Re: I don't know what to do....
I have no idea what's going on...just wanted to offer you some  . Whatever it is, it sounds stressful!
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:33 AM |
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SweetestOfPeas
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Posted by Blu-ize
Beth, I would cut my losses and move. I wouldn't feel comfortable living there after all this. I know the outlay of money is difficult but in the big picture, you will be better off.
I agree. I would feel very unsafe staying there, even if it's just for a year.
where will you move to?
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:35 AM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Posted by HollaGirl
Isnt that what you wanted, to be let out of the lease and GTFO of there? The Real Estate agent is not going to give you your money back.
it's 100% what we want- but I don't have alot of extra cash right now
I am still owed sercurity from my last apartment- so that's 4 months of sercurty I have laided out right now- almost $10K
this is my forth week of working
I spent a ton of money on stuff for the apartment
I just don't think we can swing it- I never thought they would say ok- but I can't walk away from all the money- this month- next month I could- once jake closes a few more loans
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:35 AM |
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Tany
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Beth, I would try to move away.
This s ucks that you have to go through this. I'm sorry.
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:36 AM |
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mommy2bella
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Posted by SweetestOfPeas
Posted by Blu-ize
Beth, I would cut my losses and move. I wouldn't feel comfortable living there after all this. I know the outlay of money is difficult but in the big picture, you will be better off.
I agree. I would feel very unsafe staying there, even if it's just for a year.
where will you move to?
I agree too...it sux, but I wouldn't feel very safe...
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:36 AM |
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ggt08
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Re: I don't know what to do....
beth where are you going to move to??
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:36 AM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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Re: I don't know what to do....
we can't afford to move again unless they hate us that much and want to give us back all the money we spent
I doubt they want us out that bad- but you never know
they are mad that Jake put the letter under peoples doors- I really don't care- we have had alot of people knock on our door and tell us stuff-
the people who are mad- should be more mad about what happened to our car- and not about a peice of paper- I thought this was American no? now my freedom of speech is restricted????
part of me wants to stay just to torture them
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:41 AM |
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DRMom
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Posted by MikesWife
Maybe the RE Agent will give you a discount if he helps you find a new place??
This is what I was thinking too-can't hurt to ask.
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:44 AM |
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Shelly
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Posted by Beth1210
part of me wants to stay just to torture them
But would you be torturing them or would they be torturing you?
Only you can decide which is better? Consider the $ for the movers and agent a loss and move on or live in a building where something like this happened, and their response was not too supportive.
Good luck.
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:46 AM |
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HollaGirl
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Posted by Shellyesq
Posted by Beth1210
part of me wants to stay just to torture them
But would you be torturing them or would they be torturing you?
Only you can decide which is better? Consider the $ for the movers and agent a loss and move on or live in a building where something like this happened, and their response was not too supportive.
Good luck.
Beth, you will not be torturing anyone unless you intentionally cause trouble, which I hope is something you are not capable of. Cut your losses, and get out of there.
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:48 AM |
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juju
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Re: I don't know what to do....
If it were me personally, I would move. I would feel so violated!
Maybe, try negotiating with the real estate agent.
Sorry!
Message edited 10/23/2006 11:50:08 AM.
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:49 AM |
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Beth
The Key to your new home....
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Beth
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Jake wont move with out getting all our money back from them
so I left the guy a message lets see how much they hate us
all of the people we have met are nice
as much as I want to just pack up and walk away- I don't think we can- not right now- I don't the money to lay out while I wait for all my sercurity deposts back to give another apartment
plus money to another real estate agent- which I would ask him to help us-
but if he didn't- I gave him almost $3K
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:50 AM |
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sticklee
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Posted by HollaGirl
Posted by Shellyesq
Posted by Beth1210
part of me wants to stay just to torture them
But would you be torturing them or would they be torturing you?
Only you can decide which is better? Consider the $ for the movers and agent a loss and move on or live in a building where something like this happened, and their response was not too supportive.
Good luck.
Beth, you will not be torturing anyone unless you intentionally cause trouble, which I hope is something you are not capable of. Cut your losses, and get out of there.
i have to say that i totally agree- just get out. i wouldn't want to live in a building where the people who hate me have keys to my home
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| Posted 10/23/06 11:51 AM |
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lululu
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Re: I don't know what to do....
I am in the minority here, but I wouldn't move. Moving is a royal pain, and very expensive. That is a lot of money to be out. 11 months will go by very fast - especially if you are house hunting in the meantime. Also, everyone will forget about this in about a week.
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| Posted 10/23/06 12:08 PM |
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curley999
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Posted by lululu
I am in the minority here, but I wouldn't move. Moving is a royal pain, and very expensive. That is a lot of money to be out. 11 months will go by very fast - especially if you are house hunting in the meantime. Also, everyone will forget about this in about a week.
I agree with this, 11 months will go very quickly and you might even find a house sooner then you thought. Within a month the car incident will be old news to everyone.
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| Posted 10/23/06 12:16 PM |
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dpli
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Re: I don't know what to do....
Posted by lululu
I am in the minority here, but I wouldn't move. Moving is a royal pain, and very expensive. That is a lot of money to be out. 11 months will go by very fast - especially if you are house hunting in the meantime. Also, everyone will forget about this in about a week.
I agree with this. I would think of it as more incentive to find a house. I would probably just stay and look for another place to garage the car.
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