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POASAddict
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i don't know why DH wants to wait
with my first DC we told our families two days after i got my BFP.
now for some reason he wants to wait until my OB appointment (which is tomorrow just for a pee test).
i won't be having my first sono until the end of july and there is no way i can wait until then.
would it be crazy of me to tell them this weekend?
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Posted 6/30/09 10:48 AM  |
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Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....
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Re: i don't know why DH wants to wait
I thought you came out already  
anyway, he said OB appt and that is TOMORROW. he didn't say what procedures needed to be done now, did he 
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| Posted 6/30/09 10:53 AM |
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JennyPenny
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Re: i don't know why DH wants to wait
No- I don't think it would be crazy. Either way- the doctor is confirming, so I think it's fine.
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| Posted 6/30/09 10:55 AM |
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Re: i don't know why DH wants to wait
Posted by Ophelia
I thought you came out already
anyway, he said OB appt and that is TOMORROW. he didn't say what procedures needed to be done now, did he
not on here
but everyone at the GTG knows who i am now  well at least the people at my end 
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| Posted 6/30/09 11:03 AM |
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CrankyPants
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Re: i don't know why DH wants to wait
I say wait until your appt tomorrow-that would be following his instructions to the letter.
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| Posted 6/30/09 11:07 AM |
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NotTellin
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Re: i don't know why DH wants to wait
I would wait.
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| Posted 6/30/09 11:14 AM |
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zoe282
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Re: i don't know why DH wants to wait
We spilled the beans before our first sonogram appt...and then had a rough appt....I kind of regret telling everyone, but I was happy I told our parents. I think it's important to have their support in my opinion...
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| Posted 6/30/09 11:59 AM |
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alexlynn7
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Re: i don't know why DH wants to wait
Posted by zoe282
We spilled the beans before our first sonogram appt...and then had a rough appt....I kind of regret telling everyone, but I was happy I told our parents. I think it's important to have their support in my opinion...
i agree. i told everyone about my pregnancy right away who i would want to support me if i lost the baby. everyone else, i waited.
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| Posted 6/30/09 1:04 PM |
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Re: i don't know why DH wants to wait
Posted by alexlynn7
Posted by zoe282
We spilled the beans before our first sonogram appt...and then had a rough appt....I kind of regret telling everyone, but I was happy I told our parents. I think it's important to have their support in my opinion...
i agree. i told everyone about my pregnancy right away who i would want to support me if i lost the baby. everyone else, i waited.
this is how i feel, but DH is much more private than i am.
thanks everyone, i will talk to him tonight
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| Posted 6/30/09 1:30 PM |
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NotTellin
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Re: i don't know why DH wants to wait
DH is very private too and wants to wait.
After today's appt he told me he was glad we didn't tell anyone.
I felt differently, I could have used some support but I do understand his point.
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| Posted 6/30/09 1:45 PM |
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Re: i don't know why DH wants to wait
Posted by NotTellin
DH is very private too and wants to wait.
After today's appt he told me he was glad we didn't tell anyone.
I felt differently, I could have used some support but I do understand his point.
lots of for you
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| Posted 6/30/09 1:56 PM |
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NotTellin
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Re: i don't know why DH wants to wait
thanks, you too!
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