i feel like alli do is vent about dh but.. here somes anothewr one

Dh has been great with the bay but he can be such a JERK to me!

I have a really bad cold and now my left ear is killing me as well. Last night he had bowling. He left and we were arguing about someting unrelated to me being sick. so then he calls me at 11 to wake me up to feed the baby ( i asked him to do this) so on the phone with him i say can you plan on getting up with her tomorrow morning so i can sleep in.?

His response.... At 5 am? I am oinly going to have had a few hours sleep if i get a home around130 or so!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok is it me or do you either suck it up and get up since i am sick or COME HOME EARLIER! Bowling is over at 830 you choose to hang out at the bar.

So this morning at 5 am he gets up and then at 6 she woke up again and i said can you get her? he said no you can i did it last time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So now what choice do i have i have to get up i am not going to let her scream herhead off. I picked her up and did someting i a so against i brouoght her in to bed with us and she eventually fell asleep.

He is very very good with her but I feel like he is using her against me now because he was anpoyed at me. He knew i would not let her scream i would go get her and he basally refused to get uip and help me. So now i brought her in the bedroom only becasue i felt so lousy and was hoping i could get a few more hours sleep even if she had to sleep in my bed.

Then we have his neices bday party today and i say to him i may not go can you take teh baby he says no! He claims he doenst want to drive in this weather with her which i agree its HORRIBLE out but again i feel like he is sayign iot mroe to be spiteful to me. If it ws 70 degrress and sunny belive me he would say no he cant take her . Abd really is it any differnt if we are both in teh car with her in this weather? It really is not teh weather its him being a spiteful JERK!

Ok i done venting. Dont know what im looking for here.advice? or maybe just some hugs?

Re: i feel like alli do is vent about dh but.. here somes anothewr one

I'm sorry. You DH isn't being fair to you at all. The beginning is so hard and you both need to be there for each other. Do you have a family member that can help you out so you can get some rest and feel better? I think you need to sit down with DH and come to some kind of understanding on what kind of help you need.

Re: i feel like alli do is vent about dh but.. here somes anothewr one

Re: i feel like alli do is vent about dh but.. here somes anothewr one

feel better!

Re: i feel like alli do is vent about dh but.. here somes anothewr one

Re: i feel like alli do is vent about dh but.. here somes anothewr one

and ***?
Even if you weren't sick- maybe he could cut bowling short to halep his wife take care of their child? Maybe bowl and come home ? Or suck it up and get up at 5:30am. Baby makes the rules now... sounds like someone needs to adjust.

Re: i feel like alli do is vent about dh but.. here somes anothewr one

*** was" what the heck?'

Re: i feel like alli do is vent about dh but.. here somes anothewr one

i hope you feel better and i am sorry your dh is acting like that!

xxxxxxx

Message edited 2/9/2007 5:18:17 PM.