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mommy2devin
2 Boys, I need calgon!
Member since 10/07 1572 total posts
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Shannon
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I guess I belong here now:........
I just lost my pregnancy yesterday. Most likely a chemical. Anyone know what that means? And is it silly that I am so devastated and was so early on?
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Posted 11/22/10 11:01 PM  |
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
i just had a chemical earlier this month and i was completely devastated too....a loss is a loss....no matter when it happens. sorry you have to go through this 
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| Posted 11/22/10 11:44 PM |
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KPanas
LIF Adult
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Kathy
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
I too had a chemical a few weeks ago. I am suffering still but it does get easier as the days go on. My heart goes out to you
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| Posted 11/23/10 12:03 AM |
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AutumnDreams
LIF Toddler
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
First, I am so sorry for your loss. It is a loss, no matter how early. You have every right to feel the way you do.
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| Posted 11/23/10 8:08 AM |
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mommy2devin
2 Boys, I need calgon!
Member since 10/07 1572 total posts
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Shannon
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
What is a chemical?
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| Posted 11/23/10 9:18 AM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
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Ang
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
i am so so sorry... its devastating... mine was ectopic...
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| Posted 11/23/10 9:43 AM |
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babywish10
LIF Toddler
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
I am so sorry
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| Posted 11/23/10 10:41 AM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
Posted by mommy2devin
What is a chemical?
It is just a very earlyu miscarriage, usually before a HB is seen.
I'm sorry!
It's ok to be upset. A loss at anytime is devastating. I'm sorry.
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| Posted 11/23/10 10:59 AM |
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JavaJunkie
Someday, Somehow
Member since 6/05 5857 total posts
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Lois
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
I'm so sorry
I've had 2 chemicals myself, it still hurts no matter how early
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| Posted 11/23/10 6:20 PM |
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mommy2devin
2 Boys, I need calgon!
Member since 10/07 1572 total posts
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Shannon
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
Thank you all. I really appreciate all the hugs and I could really use them. It's like I feel like I don't have a "right" to be so upset so am pretending not to be to everyone around me, but it just hurts so bad.
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| Posted 11/23/10 9:22 PM |
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teach24
LIF Infant
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
I just lost mine as well. The doc. said it was chemical. I cried so hard I don't think I can cry any more. I never thought this would happen to me. I have a healthy, beautiful baby girl with no prob. during or getting pregnant the first time around. I think I am humbled by the experience. No one in my family has ever had a miscarriage before and we only told our paretns. Ehhh it is so hard. In so many ways I feel so blessed to have been able to have a beautiful baby girl and yet I have such a whole in my heart!
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| Posted 11/23/10 10:23 PM |
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VickiRG510
I'M A MOMMY!
Member since 3/09 1042 total posts
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
I had a chemical in Oct. Its upsetting no matter what. And yes its a very early pregnancy that isnt viable & you miscarry. The only thing i can say that it does get easier as time goes by. Good luck to you.
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| Posted 11/23/10 10:24 PM |
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BeachGal
LIF Adult
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J
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
I'm so sorry.
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| Posted 11/24/10 7:01 AM |
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| Posted 11/24/10 10:19 AM |
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Torts
LIF Toddler
Member since 9/10 494 total posts
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me
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
I had a chemical 3 months ago and this is how my OB explained it to me. I just had another m/c at 8wks and they both hurt the same. This board has been wonderful, I'm sorry to see you over here though Lots of positive thoughts and prayers for you.
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| Posted 11/25/10 10:09 AM |
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prunepie
LIF Adult
Member since 7/06 4357 total posts
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jennifer
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
wheni had my chemical...which was verrrry quick chemical..i cried like the world was ending.... dont feel silly......its hard....big hugs
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| Posted 11/26/10 7:28 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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i am so sorry..we had a chemical this year and i was heartbroken..
my only advice is time will make u feel better
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| Posted 11/27/10 2:24 PM |
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Jax430
Hi!
Member since 5/05 18919 total posts
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Jackie
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've had two chemicals in the past year and a half, and they hurt no matter how early it is. From the moment you get that BFP, you start thinking about your plans, hopes and dreams for your baby, and it's devastating when you find out that they won't be coming true...at least not this time.
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| Posted 11/27/10 6:07 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
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Lisa
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| Posted 11/29/10 10:08 PM |
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PrincessP
Big sister!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
I am so sorry for your loss! keep strong! 2011 will be a better year and bring good things to us
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| Posted 11/30/10 1:14 PM |
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Metsmomma
Happy Winter!
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Renee
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so sorry for your loss!
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| Posted 11/30/10 10:02 PM |
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ncf0410
LIF Infant
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Re: I guess I belong here now:........
I'm sorry to hear that I had a chemical in September I know how it feels...  for next month!!!!
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