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I love being home but I feel lonely....

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ckone
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I love being home but I feel lonely....

I've been home since January with my 2 year old, then we had our second son who is 6 months old. We do the playground thing, McDonald's thing, etc. My DH works a lot (out by 6:30am - home by 9:30pm) and I feel really lonely. I have wonderful friends that I luckily get to see from time to time.

How do you meet other moms? It seems like everyone already has a buddy at the playground and elsewhere and they don't need more friends.

Posted 8/27/08 3:22 PM
 
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yankinmanc
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Re: I love being home but I feel lonely....

Are there any babygroups or playgroups near you? They were a lifesaver for me when I was on mat leave, its where I met all of my big group of Yummy Mummy friends.

eta...if you meet someone and have a little chat with them, don't be afraid to ask for their phone number, or their email address. If you miss the chance, you could miss the chance!!

Message edited 8/27/2008 3:27:52 PM.

Posted 8/27/08 3:24 PM
 

Charly
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Re: I love being home but I feel lonely....

I totally understand. Even though I work FT I don't have any family nearby and my friends are all over - pretty much anywhere but here. My DH is also rarely home but on weekends.

I found meetup.com to be a great resource and way to meet other moms. There are so many different groups for you to choose from depending on your situation and interests. I work FT and don't get to actually use it much, but the times I have were great.

I don't live in LI but fm me if you have have any questions.

Message edited 8/27/2008 3:31:05 PM.

Posted 8/27/08 3:30 PM
 

MyChip-n-Dales
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aeriell

Re: I love being home but I feel lonely....

I NEED MORE FRIENDS!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

i agree.. my dh also leaves here around 7-8 am and doesnt come home until well after 10pm.

i hate it. im always out and about but really hate doing it myself... im always looking for more mommy and kid friends..

my boys are also 2!! Chat Icon

where are you??!!

Posted 8/27/08 3:32 PM
 

jmf423
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Re: I love being home but I feel lonely....

I am up for playdates too! My DH works crazy hours and most of my friends don't have kids yet! So it is just me and DS a lot. I take him out and about a lot but sometimes I wish I had other Mommy/kids to go with!

Posted 8/27/08 3:40 PM
 

cjik
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Re: I love being home but I feel lonely....

I know how you feel. There was a Mommy and Me group we went to in the spring, and I met some moms there. I'm not best friends with anyone, but I do get together with a couple of them from time to time. Our library also has a New Parent's Group which I'm starting in the Fall. I'd check out the library and see if they have anything for babies or new parents.

Sometimes I think I miss the daily contact with adults that you get through work, though I love spending the day with DS otherwise. Nothing is perfect!

Posted 8/27/08 3:43 PM
 

hope07
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Re: I love being home but I feel lonely....

Library has great mommy an me too!

Message edited 8/29/2008 9:58:17 PM.

Posted 8/29/08 9:57 PM
 

ckdk
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Re: I love being home but I feel lonely....

I made a few friends from DD's preschool and gym/music classes, etc...

Posted 8/30/08 7:40 AM
 
 

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