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Posted by THEINFAMOUSMRS.OTG

I agree that counseling should definitely be suggested and attempted! Don't give up yet!

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I really have to say that I don't like the D-word being thrown around. I mean, an argument is one thing, having an issue is another, even losing trust is something else, but IMO the D-word is the last straw. Unfortunately, when someone throws that word out there (or even "breakup") it's because it's fresh on the person's mind for many reasons (whether they're evident or not). Counseling is definitely something I would suggest to someone who has the D-word lingering in their (or their spouse's) thoughts.

I really hope that everything works out well for you!

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Posted by Lichi

I really have to say that I don't like the D-word being thrown around. I mean, an argument is one thing, having an issue is another, even losing trust is something else, but IMO the D-word is the last straw. Unfortunately, when someone throws that word out there (or even "breakup") it's because it's fresh on the person's mind for many reasons (whether they're evident or not). Counseling is definitely something I would suggest to someone who has the D-word lingering in their (or their spouse's) thoughts.

I really hope that everything works out well for you!

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thank you.
yeah, its been thrown around alittle too much i think

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Jess,

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im sorry u are going through this. i hope it all works out

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thank you for your support everyone.

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I'm sorry you've been going through all this. I hope it all works out the way you want.

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Posted by Lichi

I really have to say that I don't like the D-word being thrown around. I mean, an argument is one thing, having an issue is another, even losing trust is something else, but IMO the D-word is the last straw. Unfortunately, when someone throws that word out there (or even "breakup") it's because it's fresh on the person's mind for many reasons (whether they're evident or not). Counseling is definitely something I would suggest to someone who has the D-word lingering in their (or their spouse's) thoughts.

I really hope that everything works out well for you!

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i guess its more serious than i thought.
he called and just asked me to leave for an hour so he can get his stuff.
i dont know where he plans on going, but who knows.
we were supposed to meetup to talk but i guess thats not happening now.

im off for the night.

Message edited 2/7/2006 8:52:16 PM.

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what was the breaking point??

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Posted by Lichi

I really have to say that I don't like the D-word being thrown around. I mean, an argument is one thing, having an issue is another, even losing trust is something else, but IMO the D-word is the last straw. Unfortunately, when someone throws that word out there (or even "breakup") it's because it's fresh on the person's mind for many reasons (whether they're evident or not). Counseling is definitely something I would suggest to someone who has the D-word lingering in their (or their spouse's) thoughts.

I really hope that everything works out well for you!

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Jess, I hope that you guys will work it out!!!!

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Sorry to hear you're going through a rough time. I hope you will be able to work things out.

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Posted by neeniebean86

Posted by THEINFAMOUSMRS.OTG

I agree that counseling should definitely be suggested and attempted! Don't give up yet!

i agree

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Posted by Lolita4Life

i guess its more serious than i thought.
he called and just asked me to leave for an hour so he can get his stuff.
i dont know where he plans on going, but who knows.
we were supposed to meetup to talk but i guess thats not happening now.

im off for the night.

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Jess I am so sorry you are going through this Lots of hugs for you.

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OMG...I am so sorry you are going through this...what an awful, sudden thing

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Jess - we are here for you!!!

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So sorry Jess...I hope you can work through this...we're here for you...

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Jes, I am so sorry you are going through this It could be a rough patch but no matter what it is, you know we are all here for you. In all conversations with your DH, make sure you are open and honest and that you both try to keep the talk fair and honest.

Hang in there

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I'm so sorry this is happening. Take some time and breathing space. Whether he goes somewhere else tonight or not, try to think things through fully with a cool head. I'm sure both your and DH's heads are spining and now is not the time to make decisions.

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Jess, I really am sorry that you are going through this situation right now. I can only say that I wish you the best with whatever the outcome may be. I know that you guys have been having a lot of issues recently, I hope that they can be worked out and if you both decide that the best resort is divorce than I commend you for making the right choice for both of you. Again, follow your heart and think about what you guys really need and want right now!! I am here for you.