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I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

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LIMOMx2
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I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

There is soo much family drama it makes me want to just cancel the entire thing!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon And honestly, I might.Chat Icon

Posted 4/10/09 9:31 AM
 
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Posted 4/10/09 9:32 AM
 

krashnburn
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

Don't worry about everyone else! You, DH, DS and DD enjoy the day!

Sorry you have to go through that! Chat Icon

Posted 4/10/09 9:33 AM
 

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Posted 4/10/09 9:34 AM
 

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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

why would you cancel the Christening? Maybe the party can be re arranged alil to avoid drama, but cancelling the Christening wouldnt be right, for you or dd. Chat Icon

Posted 4/10/09 9:35 AM
 

DRMom
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

Posted by MommyAgain

why would you cancel the Christening? Maybe the party can be re arranged alil to avoid drama, but cancelling the Christening wouldnt be right, for you or dd. Chat Icon



ITA-worry about you and your children and DH-no one else. If people have issues they can stay home. Its not about them!

Posted 4/10/09 9:37 AM
 

MST9106
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

I don't think you should cancel the ceremony, but you can skip the party and just do dinner with your immediate family.

Posted 4/10/09 9:39 AM
 

dpli
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

Posted by melijane

Posted by MommyAgain

why would you cancel the Christening? Maybe the party can be re arranged alil to avoid drama, but cancelling the Christening wouldnt be right, for you or dd. Chat Icon



ITA-worry about you and your children and DH-no one else. If people have issues they can stay home. Its not about them!



Exactly. I hope it all works out. Chat Icon

Posted 4/10/09 10:00 AM
 

MrsBumbleb
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

I know the feeling BELIEVE ME!!! The drama's already started and we haven't even det a date for Paxton yet.Chat Icon

Posted 4/10/09 10:04 AM
 

MelToddJulia
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

Posted by krashnburn

Don't worry about everyone else! You, DH, DS and DD enjoy the day!

Sorry you have to go through that! Chat Icon




I agree!Chat Icon

Posted 4/10/09 10:05 AM
 

MrsPornStar
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

Posted by melijane

Posted by MommyAgain

why would you cancel the Christening? Maybe the party can be re arranged alil to avoid drama, but cancelling the Christening wouldnt be right, for you or dd. Chat Icon



ITA-worry about you and your children and DH-no one else. If people have issues they can stay home. Its not about them!



I agree. Some of my family members LOVE drama and I refuse to let them ruin anything for me anymore. Don't let others get to you or ruin this beautiful occasion.Chat Icon

Posted 4/10/09 10:07 AM
 

curliegirl
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

It seems drama always erupts when there's a celebration to be had in my family too......whether it's those that can't enjoy someone else having the spotlight, family feuding or whatever....
The important thing to remember is WHY you are celebrating at all....and if some people in your family cannot put that first, then maybe you can politely ask them to stay home so you can enjoy the christening without any anxiety....you deserve at least that, no?

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Posted 4/10/09 10:09 AM
 

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Posted 4/10/09 10:15 AM
 

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Posted 4/10/09 10:22 AM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

Posted by MST9106

I don't think you should cancel the ceremony, but you can skip the party and just do dinner with your immediate family.



I agree

Posted 4/10/09 10:28 AM
 

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Posted 4/10/09 10:31 AM
 

Candy Girl
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

Chat Icon i know the feeling!

Posted 4/10/09 10:32 AM
 

orchid24
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the immediate family and godparents only at the ceremony seems like a good idea to me!

Posted 4/10/09 10:33 AM
 

2BEANS
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

Posted by melijane

Posted by MommyAgain

why would you cancel the Christening? Maybe the party can be re arranged alil to avoid drama, but cancelling the Christening wouldnt be right, for you or dd. Chat Icon



ITA-worry about you and your children and DH-no one else. If people have issues they can stay home. Its not about them!




I agree with BOTH!!. Chat Icon

Posted 4/10/09 10:40 AM
 

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Posted 4/10/09 2:22 PM
 

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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

Im so sorry that people can't be civil for the sake of your dd Chat Icon I hope something can be arranged so you don't have to cancel Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/10/09 2:28 PM
 

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Posted 4/10/09 2:48 PM
 

annienyc
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Re: I want to cancel the Christening soo bad!!!!!!!!!

I'm sorry the whole thing is stressing you out...

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Try to focus on the real reason for the whole thing and cancel the reception if you want...I'm sure that would take a load off your shoulders...

Posted 4/10/09 2:58 PM
 
 

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